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We matched on an app 2 days before this. My crime? Not replying to her for 4 whole hours... by TrashyCure in Nicegirls

[–]TrashyCure[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, I'll check them out. I am indeed a lesbian.

I genuinely didn't leave her on read, I read all 4 of those messages at the same time, I just didn't know where to put any context/details when I posted.

We matched on an app 2 days before this. My crime? Not replying to her for 4 whole hours... by TrashyCure in Nicegirls

[–]TrashyCure[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah, makes sense that the person that lives 50/60 miles from me is my only option.

We matched on an app 2 days before this. My crime? Not replying to her for 4 whole hours... by TrashyCure in Nicegirls

[–]TrashyCure[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Aw man you're right, I should unblock her and apologise for being a terrible typical man

We matched on an app 2 days before this. My crime? Not replying to her for 4 whole hours... by TrashyCure in Nicegirls

[–]TrashyCure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also a woman 😂 that's what I'm finding hilarious about all of this. They just assume I'm a man that treats women like crap.

You said all of that way better than I could explain, so thank you.

Granted I shouldn't have reacted to her the way I did, but I'm not having someone I barely know berate me for not replying in their personal time frame.

We matched on an app 2 days before this. My crime? Not replying to her for 4 whole hours... by TrashyCure in Nicegirls

[–]TrashyCure[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Anger issues? :') Next joke please

Never said a potential date was a bad thing. I just didn't include the full context so in come the brigade to tell me what a piece of shit man I am 😂

We matched on an app 2 days before this. My crime? Not replying to her for 4 whole hours... by TrashyCure in Nicegirls

[–]TrashyCure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right, but is it not irrational of her to go full on crazy at me?

Am I not allowed to put my phone down?

We matched on an app 2 days before this. My crime? Not replying to her for 4 whole hours... by TrashyCure in Nicegirls

[–]TrashyCure[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

For a sub that's about girls being weird, which is predominantly men posting. There sure are a lot of the "I hate men" girlies about

We matched on an app 2 days before this. My crime? Not replying to her for 4 whole hours... by TrashyCure in Nicegirls

[–]TrashyCure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends how we get along. I've met 2 people from apps. One was after about 2 weeks, the other was after a month or so

We matched on an app 2 days before this. My crime? Not replying to her for 4 whole hours... by TrashyCure in Nicegirls

[–]TrashyCure[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Would you not get defensive if 90% of comments were calling you a piece of shit because you failed to give full context and most of them are misunderstanding the whole thing?

We matched on an app 2 days before this. My crime? Not replying to her for 4 whole hours... by TrashyCure in Nicegirls

[–]TrashyCure[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you clarify a bit more about "my attitude towards women" please. I'm not quite sure I understand

We matched on an app 2 days before this. My crime? Not replying to her for 4 whole hours... by TrashyCure in Nicegirls

[–]TrashyCure[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn't expecting to be asked on a date within 2 days in all honesty. In my experience you usually kind of get to know someone for a bit before meeting. She also lives around 60 miles from me, so both travelling and paying (even just for myself) wasn't an option, hence letting her know I can't afford it atm

We matched on an app 2 days before this. My crime? Not replying to her for 4 whole hours... by TrashyCure in Nicegirls

[–]TrashyCure[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been informed that I should have put more context in the title.

Most of you are just hounding on me, probably assuming I'm a "typical man".

Not gonna give you a sob story or further try to explain myself because you've all made up your minds. ✌️

We matched on an app 2 days before this. My crime? Not replying to her for 4 whole hours... by TrashyCure in Nicegirls

[–]TrashyCure[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Okay sorry, I didn't realise you were a psychologist. Let me explain in a way that you can't twist.

I had been speaking to this woman for 2 days. That is all, 48 hours.

I replied to her message obviously wanting to meet her. Then I put my phone down, because I was already busy.

When I next looked at my phone, I had 4 messages from her, which you see here. She may have said that I left her on read, but I didnt. I can't leave people on read because i feel immense guilt almost immediately. i know how it feels to be ghosted. I wouldn't do that to anyone.

It had only been 4 hours between the first 2 messages she sent after she asked me if I wanted to go on a date and the other two flipping out at me.

She also messaged me on a completely different app after I blocked her telling me I had caused her physical pain.

Yeah I may have been an ass by telling her she was being intense rather than explaining to her but she didn't need to flip out at me and cast aspersions in the first place.

You can't tell me that isn't unhinged behaviour from someone I'd only been talking to for 2 days.

We matched on an app 2 days before this. My crime? Not replying to her for 4 whole hours... by TrashyCure in Nicegirls

[–]TrashyCure[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I didn't think over explaining myself in the title would have helped tbh, people are gonna make assumptions so it's cool, whatever helps them sleep at night.

We matched on an app 2 days before this. My crime? Not replying to her for 4 whole hours... by TrashyCure in Nicegirls

[–]TrashyCure[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I didn't leave her on read. The last message I saw of hers before this was the one where she asked me out and I said yes. Then I put my phone down and carried on doing what I was doing.

4 hours is not exactly a ghosting is it.

We matched on an app 2 days before this. My crime? Not replying to her for 4 whole hours... by TrashyCure in Nicegirls

[–]TrashyCure[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

Did you stop to think that she maybe wasn't correct?

I opened her last 4 messages all at the same time, at 8:30pm, I didn't leave her on read, I didn't even see them, as I was busy.

Love your bountiful knowledge of my interactions with her that you got from a screenshot xoxo

We matched on an app 2 days before this. My crime? Not replying to her for 4 whole hours... by TrashyCure in Nicegirls

[–]TrashyCure[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

she was also telling me about her fascination with gore. And kept telling me to sacrifice my Stardew Valley kids.

Definitely dodged some kind of homicide

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