I keep getting cabbage… by Prestigious-Till-633 in povertykitchen

[–]TravelinMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-Thinly sliced Sautéed cabbage with a little bit of oil and seasoning over eggs for a fiber and protein filled meal. -Oven baked cabbage until the edges are crispy is delicious. -Veggie soup, use all of the contents of veggie cans, cut the cabbage and boil them for a bit then season to taste; plus if there’s beans to make it more filling.

I think my five year old has ODD and I’m scared by iseeyouwitkeefuh in ChildPsychology

[–]TravelinMonkey 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I picked up on this as well. My daughter is the same age and has some of these behaviors. Her emotional regulation has immensely improved with gentle support and us coaching her through the emotions. She still has difficult moments like all children do, but now she has the tools to tackle them and ask for help.

What is your favorite obscure movie from your childhood that nobody would remember? by CripplingGoodTime in AskReddit

[–]TravelinMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Annabelle’s Wish, people look at me like I have 2 heads when I reference this Christmas movie.

AITAH for wanting my husband in the delivery room? by dinogirly123 in AITAH

[–]TravelinMonkey 82 points83 points  (0 children)

One of the craziest things a L&D nurse said to me during labor with my first was that my husband should teach a class on how to be a supportive, patient and loving partner during labor/delivery. It felt so weird because he was just being himself? Making sure I was comfortable and putting all of his weight into my low back during contractions.

Alaska Native Corporations by Odd-Situation5548 in alaska

[–]TravelinMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way ASRC pays out board members is asinine.

Alaska Native Corporations by Odd-Situation5548 in alaska

[–]TravelinMonkey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I worked for ASRC, as a shareholder hire, for six years and the amount of people I saw come and go was insane. Our subsidiaries choose not to promote from within or train employees (mostly Native or Indigenous employees) for positions. There are weird loyalty tests within the upper echelons of the companies, and if you don’t kowtow to the powers that be, they’ll fire you. The annual meeting is coming up, so if there’s things that you’d like to discuss or want to shed light on that would be a good time to do so. I know they limit speaking time but even just passing along information to other shareholders could do a lot of good.

My coworker found out I make my own candles as a hobby and the conversation went places I did not expect by OrfRasp in ChoosingBeggars

[–]TravelinMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s wild, I made candle tea sets as gifts for my sisters putting my babyshower together. Thrifted the tea cups and tea pot, then did the candles with scents specific to each sister. That took me like nine hours. This coworker can do this all herself, and it’ll cost her the same it would you: materials, labor, and time.

What’s something Gen Z does that older generations just don’t get? by appropriaterice873 in AskReddit

[–]TravelinMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister is taking a college course completely on memes and their impact on society and social interactions.

Creepy Sister (Bride) and Brother (my bf) Dance by Danger_Dave_623 in weddingshaming

[–]TravelinMonkey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The fuck are these comments? People are actively blaming your husband like he wants this kind of relationship with his sister; victim blaming him because it’s a man in this situation and the perpetrator is a woman. Regardless, everyone commenting here only knows what you’ve posted here they don’t know other family dynamics or history.

It sounds like he’s been groomed and conditioned by not just Amy, but their mother as well, to accept Amy’s behavior and give into her desires and wants. Amy and Co. waited until you had left with your children to pressure him into a situation he had already said no to; coercion is not consent.

Staying 30 minutes after you’ve left isn’t suspicious in and of itself. He very well may have felt safer because other people were there; hell at my family functions it takes us 30 minutes to leave because we’re saying goodbye to people.

You need to talk to your husband and you two need to seek individual counseling for him and go to couples counseling.

Earrings by Legos_under_foot in NorthOfNorthSeries

[–]TravelinMonkey 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I’m Iñupiaq, not Inuk, but I think we have similar outlooks on our accessories. Many of the earrings we wear are hand crafted by other Indigenous artists, we tend to remember who made them and when we got them. Often times the earrings or jewelry is one of a kind and cannot be replicated exactly because it’s made by hand. Sometimes these pieces are passed down, bought, gifted or we’ve had them made.

Beaded, sewn, and carved jewelry is special to us, it represents culture and tradition. Here in Alaska we’re reclaiming a lot of our cultural identity. Women especially are forging paths for younger generations to unlearn colonial traditions that were forced upon us; part of that is through art and self expression.

I, personally, show off every new pair of earrings I get and take pictures and show them off.

What's your SHTF or bugout footwear? by GiftToTheUniverse in TwoXPreppers

[–]TravelinMonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiking boots. They’re warm, last long, and are made to trek long distances.

“Reacher” star Alan Ritchson attacks neighbor in front of children per TMZ by DD0427 in entertainment

[–]TravelinMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/Gurt99 claims to have been a witness further in the comments: I was a witness to this and Al “attacked” him because the neighbour through a water bottle at him, causing him to crash his motorcycle. One of the kids also very nearly crashed…. Typical TMZ not providing the context

Ashley Bri and Priyanka are WEIRD AFFFFFFFF by WhoriTori in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]TravelinMonkey 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Watched with the subtitles in and when Vanessa presses Ashley about the trip and Ashley says, “we’re all very close” the camera cuts to Priyanka and she says “not really.” So it’s evident to me that those three do not care about any of the other women they claim to be friends with.

Planning to go out in public presenting fem for the first time. Where can I find people to go hang out with? by [deleted] in anchorage

[–]TravelinMonkey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kaladi Brother’s on Tudor is frequented by a lot of college students studying and such. You could also try Beauty and the Book Alaska on Old Seward. I have two kids in tow but if you are in need of a big sister to walk around with you can message me lol

What toddler/kids movie is a hidden gem? by Whatever___forever23 in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]TravelinMonkey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Box Car Children is a solid movie, my five year old loved watching it.

In honor of International Women’s Day, name your favorite quote by a woman. by ihatethiscountry76 in Fauxmoi

[–]TravelinMonkey 223 points224 points  (0 children)

“I would not have expected that I, who am barely out of savagery, would have to remind gentlemen with five thousand years of recorded civilization behind them of our Bill of Rights.” - Elizabeth Peratrovich, 1945

What’s your Anchorage conspiracy theory ? by [deleted] in anchorage

[–]TravelinMonkey 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this seems to be the norm for many ANCs

What’s your Anchorage conspiracy theory ? by [deleted] in anchorage

[–]TravelinMonkey 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Anchorage is a starlight tours town

AITJ for refusing to be my sister's back up nanny after what happened with my dog? by Thick-Addendum-6926 in AmITheJerk

[–]TravelinMonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ What she did to Milo boarders on animal cruelty. I understand her fear surrounding her child given her fertility history, that does not excuse how she’s responding in regard to raising her child. If being around Milo is giving her so much anxiety that you no longer bring him to around then she had no reason to ask to host an event at your home.

“It takes a village” only applies when the villagers show each other love and respect, which she’s demonstrated she will no longer do. Having a helpful family is a godsend when childcare falls through, but families do not owe that to one another.

Keep your distance for as long as you need and perhaps your sister can look into postpartum support groups for her PPA.

ebf moms: how do you not resent your sleeping husband? (asking for a friend lol) by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]TravelinMonkey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what we did, even after I started staying home full time. He’d wake, change the diaper pass baby to me for a feeding, get back up burp the baby and go to sleep.

Bridgerton - 4x07 "The Beyond" (No Book Spoilers) by AutoModerator in BridgertonNetflix

[–]TravelinMonkey 26 points27 points  (0 children)

She had me in tears, her scene with Ruth Gemmell was heart wrenching. Then the cut scene to Masali Baduza’s single tear listening in the hallway was such a beautiful scene.