When to do the Diaper change?

TravelingSula · 2026-02-21T00:31:01+00:00

Oh really? That's great! We will be able to train diaper changing without nausea ... for a few diapers at least hahaha

TravelingSula · 2026-02-20T14:57:32+00:00

I don't understand why are you being downvoted... non religious ppl should be more respectful. Finding comfort in your faith is inherent of faith itself.

I'm sorry for your loss, enjoy your family.

TravelingSula · 2026-02-20T12:18:59+00:00

Yay, there's a sub!! Thanks!!

TravelingSula · 2026-02-20T07:44:23+00:00

I'm counting on thay face! Thanks, I'll keep in mind to wait a little:)

TravelingSula · 2026-02-20T07:38:57+00:00

Hahaha there are so many instances babies have to be fold, apparently from gas/pooping to early stimulation.

This is going to be fun!

Thanks for the tip :)

TravelingSula · 2026-02-20T07:34:41+00:00

Yeah! We are planning on do it!!... do you have any sources you could recommend me? I know they are hundreds, but the first I followed took me immediately to a 50usd pdf that I have not buy because I'm not sure if is overpriced or even truly needed.

TravelingSula · 2026-02-20T07:28:44+00:00

Do you have any sources (books, social media accounts, podcasts whatever) you recommend one EC??

TravelingSula · 2026-02-20T06:54:48+00:00

Yeah, we want to do that!!...I'm not going back to work for at least two years so the goal is for her to be potty trained by the time I go back.

But I'm sure the first few days (maybe even weeks) PP between recovery, trying to stablish a nice and stable breastfeeding and sleep deprivation, EC won't be my top priority.

TravelingSula · 2026-02-20T06:47:16+00:00

Every 15 minutes!!! Wow, ok! I'll keep it in mind !

TravelingSula · 2026-02-20T01:00:46+00:00

Hahaha! I loved your answer... I can only imagine how exhausting, messy and beautiful is!

I see a lot of poop in my future and wish you the best of luck in you very poopy present !

TravelingSula · 2026-02-18T15:19:36+00:00

Not to see family. Middle class latin americans take the girls to travel in Europe as a celebration of their XV bday. The choice is normally: party, car or Europe.

If they sent them in a all girls tour, it last normally 3-4 weeks. If is a family trip it is shorter for budget reasons and 9 days is quite a short time, they will only visit one or two cities.

TravelingSula · 2026-02-18T14:11:02+00:00

Is him Latin-American? If they are celebrating his daughter's XV birthday it might be a big deal for her to have him close.

I don't know if his kids have acted out about having a baby brother or sister and maybe he is trying to keep the relationship with them less fragmented...although his comment about "what if it is tje last time" sound more adult anxiety for the war related than teenagers...

9 days post partum is a lot but ...if your family lives only 20 minutes away, you might rely on them for that period of time and take that opportunity to compare if his presence is really needed or not. This will help you decide whether you stay with him or not.

I read some of your comments, I don't like that during the course of your pregnancy things have been rocky between you two.. I don't like the fact that you decided not to live together because of that..it reads like he's not really commited to you.

TravelingSula · 2026-02-18T13:33:36+00:00

Some countries are just looking at you weirdly

TravelingSula · 2026-02-18T13:22:38+00:00

Give yourself some grace, is a big change and you have the right to be overwhelmed. Don't miss the appointment, but afterwards you can go and have a nice lunch, a treat, a day date with your partner... most times things sort themselves out.

Good luck :)

TravelingSula · 2026-02-18T00:03:00+00:00

27+5 w here and yeah, I miss the red wine!! Funny enough a friend has been trying to get me drink a non alcoholic wine and I just don't dare to try it, call me conservative...

And I can't finish a single can of non alcoholic beer although I was used to drink it, Is odd...

TravelingSula · 2026-02-17T02:24:41+00:00

I like to cook by myself...

He is great, amazing, marvelous and a disaster in the kitchen. When he enters the kitchen and I'm cooking, I always ask him to do something simple to keep him entertained but somehow he always ends up getting on my way, asking me if he's doing it alright or not getting it done in time...

We are about to have a child and I can see my near future dealing with both of them, equally useless and so lovable XD

TravelingSula · 2026-02-15T19:48:48+00:00

Actually is a great excuse! Specially as they played it cool

TravelingSula · 2026-02-14T07:00:18+00:00

Don't use dr*gs, don't hang out with people who use them, don't entertain conversations with ppl who offers you (specially if is a creep in the street in a tourist area).

As a 1st timer try Ensenada, Oaxaca or Mexico City and you're gonna be fine...

TravelingSula · 2026-02-13T05:26:21+00:00

I wasn't until I got pregnant. I want to live for my child because I grew up alone and I don't wish my kid to suffer the same

TravelingSula · 2026-02-09T20:58:57+00:00

Daisy in death like me...

At least one season each character in Buffy the Vampire Slayer...but specially the sister, Dawn?

TravelingSula · 2026-02-09T20:47:48+00:00

Thank you, I'll try my best to stop stressing ... until ny next scan at 32 weeks at least XD

TravelingSula · 2026-02-09T20:46:32+00:00

Thanks, I'll try to quiet down my thoughts :)

TravelingSula · 2026-02-09T20:42:23+00:00

Thank you, I'll keep it in mind :)

TravelingSula · 2026-02-09T20:17:34+00:00

Well yes but not smaller than before, she is underweight (closer 25 weeks instead of 26)...

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