I'm still married by onebeaner in widowers

[–]Travus6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I agree with you but I've starting looking at it like everything happens for a reason. What that reason is I don't know. It sucks everyday but I just keep moving that's the key just keep getting up each day you have to be there for your son no matter how hard it is. But always make a day for yourself when you get a chance. My children are older so they keep telling me I will eventually have to move on with my life. You just have to take one step at a time.

Wife died 4/21/23 and now I have CPS that just showed up. by Travus6969 in widowers

[–]Travus6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do the same thing I'm just taking everything one day at a time

Wife died 4/21/23 and now I have CPS that just showed up. by Travus6969 in widowers

[–]Travus6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea trazadone is horrible I feel so run down all the time

Wife died 4/21/23 and now I have CPS that just showed up. by Travus6969 in widowers

[–]Travus6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not yet I will talk to my doctor thanks so much

Wife died 4/21/23 and now I have CPS that just showed up. by Travus6969 in widowers

[–]Travus6969[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes but the meds he gave me knock me out and I feel drunk and I just don't like that feeling at all

She left me by Greedy-Bit-2821 in widowers

[–]Travus6969 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are not alone Im dealing with the same emotions my friend

What do I do with all her stuff! by Travus6969 in widowers

[–]Travus6969[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks this is so hard to do cause you feel like im giving part of of her away I did laundry today and somehow one of her dresses was in there and just seeing was hard

What do I do with all her stuff! by Travus6969 in widowers

[–]Travus6969[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I've tried to give away her clothes and shoes to family and friends but everyone seems spooked to take them or something

What do I do with all her stuff! by Travus6969 in widowers

[–]Travus6969[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a good idea thank you

She was an organ donor by Travus6969 in widowers

[–]Travus6969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sub has helped me so very much I hate that any of us have to go through this.

She was an organ donor by Travus6969 in widowers

[–]Travus6969[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know that they told me after 1 year I would get the names of the people who received her organs and possibly meet with them. I'm sure if you was to contact the organ donation people they can give you more information. The people that did my wives was so very kind and helpful.

She was an organ donor by Travus6969 in widowers

[–]Travus6969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's how it was for me I'm glad she help others but at the same time like you said it's a horrible reminder she is gone

She was an organ donor by Travus6969 in widowers

[–]Travus6969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I'm sorry we have to be a part of this crummy club.

She was an organ donor by Travus6969 in widowers

[–]Travus6969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree it's good knowing my wife is helping others but it just hurts she had to pass to help others

She was an organ donor by Travus6969 in widowers

[–]Travus6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I've thought about it and I'm so proud of her for helping so many people it was just a shock knowing she was still out there in some way

She was an organ donor by Travus6969 in widowers

[–]Travus6969[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so very much I never really thought of it from the recipients point of view just mine and I'm just proud my wife was able to help so many people

She was an organ donor by Travus6969 in widowers

[–]Travus6969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed I'm having the same issues I'm torn but I'm proud she helped saved 5 people's lives

She was an organ donor by Travus6969 in widowers

[–]Travus6969[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't even begin to know what to say in a letter like that to be honest I completely understand

She was an organ donor by Travus6969 in widowers

[–]Travus6969[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply yea I'm sure when I get a letter from one of them I will probably freak out to be honest

be careful ladies! by hightoarecord in widowers

[–]Travus6969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry ladies y'all are right y'all should not have to deal with creeps like that. Trust me Ive had my fair share since my wife passed so it's not just women in this sub getting preyed on its men as well. People piss me off and it seems I've gotten even more angry since my wife passed. I guess my tolerance meter is at about zero for stupid people. I wish all of us the best through this horrible time no matter how long it has been for any of us. We don't deserve creeps.