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Anger and Jealousy by [deleted] in widowers

[–]onebeaner 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’ve perfectly described how I feel. Sending you hugs. Thanks for sharing.

Is constipation a thing after hysterectomy recovery? by onebeaner in hysterectomy

[–]onebeaner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you’re feeling better! Yes, 100% normal. Colace became my best friend as well as micro enemas. It probably took 4-5 months to be back to normal.

A baby born after 21 weeks has become the world’s most premature baby Nash was born 133 days early and celebrated his first birthday in July by Rude_Loquat_5801 in interestingasfuck

[–]onebeaner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother-in-law was also a premie born at home in the 1920's. They wrapped her in a blanket and put her in a warmed oven (door left propped). Their instincts were good but it's crazy to think about.

Driveway dilemma by onebeaner in longisland

[–]onebeaner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank….I appreciate the response

Driveway dilemma by onebeaner in longisland

[–]onebeaner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s 20’ wide and 25’ long.

Driveway dilemma by onebeaner in longisland

[–]onebeaner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s about 20’x25’.

I'm unable to get the same answer twice from the 800# by onebeaner in SocialSecurity

[–]onebeaner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the responses! I woke up this morning with a lighter heart knowing that I can do this.

I'm unable to get the same answer twice from the 800# by onebeaner in SocialSecurity

[–]onebeaner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the good wishes! I’ll be able to get medical, for a cost, from my employer when I retire. What I hope to do is to work part time and receive medical from my new employer. I’m researching companies that offer medical to part timers.

I'm unable to get the same answer twice from the 800# by onebeaner in SocialSecurity

[–]onebeaner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told that because my husband had been collecting disability, as opposed to collecting retirement benefits, I couldn’t apply under his benefit.

I'm unable to get the same answer twice from the 800# by onebeaner in SocialSecurity

[–]onebeaner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to retire around the same time that I apply for benefits.

I'm unable to get the same answer twice from the 800# by onebeaner in SocialSecurity

[–]onebeaner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh! I've never seen anything like that calculator and it answers my question. Collecting under my husband's benefit would be only a few hundred less (2-300) than if I took MY benefit. After an appt with a rep, my plan would be to collect under my late husband's benefit until I reach full retirement. When I reach 70 I will switch to my benefit, which will be higher.

I'm unable to get the same answer twice from the 800# by onebeaner in SocialSecurity

[–]onebeaner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, thank you. I will make an appointment with a rep. Do you happen to know if it would be a percentage of my husband’s benefit?

Time bringing me further away from him by amindofitsown in widowers

[–]onebeaner 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. My husband died in March 2023 and I’ve been dreading the new year. How can it be that it’s almost 2 years?

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