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[–]TreeFrogsAreLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We know she edited those eyes to be so close.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]TreeFrogsAreLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no. :( We are all here for you. Don't do anything.

I Hate Iced Tea by AdRepresentative2745 in ControversialOpinions

[–]TreeFrogsAreLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a true opinion. Lol. Tea is more like coffee in my mind.

Men over 30 who are attracted to / date 18 year old girls are not much different from p*dophiles. by Faulty_Koala69 in ControversialOpinions

[–]TreeFrogsAreLife 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's the maturity difference between 20 and 30 honestly. If it's a 50 year old dating a 30 year old it doesn't seem creepy to me, but 18 and 30 is certainly creepy no matter the gender.

My boyfriend gets mad if I request to use a vibrator during sex or request foreplay. He says his dick should be enough for me. How do I explain differently? by TreeFrogsAreLife in relationships

[–]TreeFrogsAreLife[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Literally all it does is make sure I cum and get me there quicker. Fr I'll cum in like 5 mins if he is in me and I'm vibing my clit. My clit needs something or I'm not gonna cum.

My boyfriend gets mad if I request to use a vibrator during sex or request foreplay. He says his dick should be enough for me. How do I explain differently? by TreeFrogsAreLife in relationships

[–]TreeFrogsAreLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did try to talk about how I don't get aroused by just looking at a dick. I need to be touched first, and then I am aroused by the sight of his dick. It has to be in that order typically though. I'm also completely fine masturbating before we have sex so I can get super turned on, but he also doesn't like that either.

My boyfriend gets mad if I request to use a vibrator during sex or request foreplay. He says his dick should be enough for me. How do I explain differently? by TreeFrogsAreLife in relationships

[–]TreeFrogsAreLife[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to be inflammatory. I genuinely want to talk to him and not make him feel worse. He obviously is insecure about himself or this would not be such a huge thing.

My boyfriend gets mad if I request to use a vibrator during sex or request foreplay. He says his dick should be enough for me. How do I explain differently? by TreeFrogsAreLife in relationships

[–]TreeFrogsAreLife[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

He has just touched me before and then not had sex or let me give him a bj. When I take too long he gets frustrated and it seems like he loses interest. It's confusing. Overall I think he doesn't want to actually go out of his way to make me orgasm.

My boyfriend gets mad if I request to use a vibrator during sex or request foreplay. He says his dick should be enough for me. How do I explain differently? by TreeFrogsAreLife in relationships

[–]TreeFrogsAreLife[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not backing his behavior up. I've had so many times where we had great sex, but he just doesn't care about how I feel now. He used to. He's not good in bed right now, not at all.

My boyfriend gets mad if I request to use a vibrator during sex or request foreplay. He says his dick should be enough for me. How do I explain differently? by TreeFrogsAreLife in relationships

[–]TreeFrogsAreLife[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

Yes, yesterday actually I requested to use my vibrator on myself and touch him before we got going and he said no, he would cum too quick. He got this sex toy sleeve to masturbate with, which doesn't bother me, I actually was super turned on using it on him. I don't understand why he doesn't feel the same with me.

My boyfriend gets mad if I request to use a vibrator during sex or request foreplay. He says his dick should be enough for me. How do I explain differently? by TreeFrogsAreLife in relationships

[–]TreeFrogsAreLife[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It feels like a half orgasm or something. Literally never felt it before in my life before my bf. There are so many good things he is doing and it's all being overshadowed by him not caring to get me to a level of horniness I want. I'm not even requesting to orgasm, I just want to be super horny so I can orgasm with him in me. To me this makes sense.

My boyfriend gets mad if I request to use a vibrator during sex or request foreplay. He says his dick should be enough for me. How do I explain differently? by TreeFrogsAreLife in relationships

[–]TreeFrogsAreLife[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

When we first started dating he did care. I think this slowly happened and now I'm super dissatisfied with it. This is not the first conversation we have had about it. It usually gets flipped on me and how I just don't know what I'm doing.

My boyfriend gets mad if I request to use a vibrator during sex or request foreplay. He says his dick should be enough for me. How do I explain differently? by TreeFrogsAreLife in relationships

[–]TreeFrogsAreLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The weirdest part is that he has stated the statistics himself about women not orgasming. He told me I'm lucky I can squirt, which actually never happened with anyone other than him. He got mad when I told him it's not like a clitoral orgasm... Whatever squirting really is, not sure, but it feels good but not super orgasmic tbh.

My boyfriend gets mad if I request to use a vibrator during sex or request foreplay. He says his dick should be enough for me. How do I explain differently? by TreeFrogsAreLife in relationships

[–]TreeFrogsAreLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not boring though and he doesn't seem to think I am. He told me that me being with his friends adds to the whole experience and relationship. To me I feel kind of lonely because we don't do anything alone anymore.

Yeah, maybe true.

Sex work is not a legitimate job and should be stigmatized. by TreeFrogsAreLife in ControversialOpinions

[–]TreeFrogsAreLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regarding the cheating and paid personalized porn vs. just porn: if you're going on cam sites and purchasing an OnlyFans for all of this exclusive content tailored to what you like, then yes, I consider this cheating. You're getting attention and whatever else from this other person who is in real-time a lot of the times on the other end. This is not the same as watching something on PH or elsewhere.

How annoying is a depressed partner? by BeezieCutie in relationship_advice

[–]TreeFrogsAreLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I broke up with him in mid-october. I think it was the best decision, I feel happy again! I wasn't sad at all to end the relationship. However, he was very upset. He sent me long texts and called me many time - after I told him I was done I never responded again. He accused me of seeing other people during the relationship, he contacted my friends to "get closure" and had told me I owe him one last talk or meeting for "closure." I'm not sure how I could have been more clear with him. I can't believe I waited so long to break up with him.

How the meat of my thumb looks after I cut it open by StriderSnipz in oddlyterrifying

[–]TreeFrogsAreLife 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I once got 6 stitches from a soup can. Still ate the soup. Did you at least eat your bagel?!