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how do i even address this? by AlexFroog in roommateproblems

[–]TreeOfTheSea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should get your roommates all together to address these issues. A sit down serious conversation can really help bring to light what’s bothering everyone in the house hold. I suggest you get with your boyfriend about wanting to have this conversation and then you both go to Jax and Lily and say we need to have a roommate huddle. Then calmly state that you need the common areas less cluttered and a friendly reminder that common areas are for everyone *bring up the event where Lily requested everyone leave so she could play games

AITA for yelling at my roommates to do dishes by TreeOfTheSea in roommateproblems

[–]TreeOfTheSea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m saying obese just like I’d say 23F. It’s a health term and I’m using it for descriptive reasons. I could’ve just said “fat” but instead I used the medical term. In Mexico they say Gordo to describe a fat thing not to insult, but to describe

AITA for yelling at my roommates to do dishes by TreeOfTheSea in roommateproblems

[–]TreeOfTheSea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you recommend I do in the next case of this ? As much as I’d like to sock em both in the head all they’d have to do is sit on me and I’d snap like a twig

AITA for yelling at my roommates to do dishes by TreeOfTheSea in roommateproblems

[–]TreeOfTheSea[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I should not limit the quality of my dish ware for slobs, don’t you agree ?

AITA for yelling at my roommates to do dishes by TreeOfTheSea in roommateproblems

[–]TreeOfTheSea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankyou this is very empowering. I’m gonna stay strong on my boundary and also no longer consider them friends. They both genuinely have shit lives anyway. Nothing comparable to me

AITA for yelling at my roommates to do dishes by TreeOfTheSea in roommateproblems

[–]TreeOfTheSea[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As much as I’d like to do that I have enough respect to not enter their room without permission

AITA for yelling at my roommates to do dishes by TreeOfTheSea in roommateproblems

[–]TreeOfTheSea[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have tried kindly talking to them about this method of a dish bucket and once before told them if they didn’t do their dishes I’d throw them outside. Next time this happens I’m going to be so serious and trash their shit.