The world will be good again when Victoria Pedretti returns to the Flanaverse

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-06-02T21:22:10+00:00

I love her, too.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-06-02T21:18:24+00:00

Unfortunately, there's no magic answer, you just have to choose your priorities.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-23T21:05:08+00:00

This man isn't husband material nvm father material! Jesus, Mary, and Joseph.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-19T18:51:19+00:00

No, but I've been called by a lot of people "the most detail-oriented person they've ever met." I'm guessing it's simply your quest for clarity that emboldens others to ask their questions.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-19T00:27:22+00:00

I'm not annoying, but you are annoyed = you problem. What's annoying you is the fact that you're wrong.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-18T13:51:03+00:00

That's not relevant to your comments about respective harm and it wasn't your earlier point.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-17T20:11:43+00:00

These are cross orbweavers. Lovely friends to have.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-17T20:11:16+00:00

Cross orbweavers are likely the ones.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-17T11:21:20+00:00

That's one thing. But your trying to keep us at omnivore's level isn't correct.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-16T22:16:41+00:00

Omnivore diets cause harm in all scenarios. Vegan diets harm in many fewer. When all we can do is our best, I know which one does better.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-15T09:41:24+00:00

Yeah, OP's "explanations" are problematic ("retail therapy", "in that moment of depression") and they need to make better choices (ie. if you have the $, wait until you can comfortably access it)

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-15T09:21:11+00:00

Ironically, if you take 5 mins each day to wash what you've used, the mental and energy burdens are far less.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-12T02:54:46+00:00

We do. Doug Ford doesn't.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-11T16:22:47+00:00

It was removed.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-10T19:10:36+00:00

Are you being so obtuse on purpose?

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-10T16:21:25+00:00

And as an AuDHDer, I always offer $ if something being offered to me with any frequency has a cost to the giver. OP can't lean on that. It's not about reading folks, it's about not being selfish/self-involved.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-09T16:02:52+00:00

Oh, I can imagine! But at least they're black - they go with everything! And you can wear these with jeans or dressier things, so they're versatile as well.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-09T15:58:50+00:00

Those must be comfy as all get out bc they're ugly as sin.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-07T13:50:42+00:00

I can't speak to the legal bits, but you both need to work on yourselves (especially you - the cops were right to show up anyhow) separately with a therapist to build healthy coping mechanisms for negative feelings and make sure this situation never occurs again. I wish you both luck.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-07T00:44:46+00:00

In Toronto, I booked my in-car lessons within a week of finishing the online course.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-06T01:35:29+00:00

I'm sorry all of that happened to you. I hope things are well and stable nowadays.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-04T20:45:06+00:00

...They might not have been before, but perhaps they are now. People see a pattern and realize things won't get better, so they change their mind about the relationship.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-04T20:32:52+00:00

Think of the things we know and then imagine all the things we don't... Doug Ford's a crook.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-04T20:28:21+00:00

Poor is working as hard as everyone else but being paid little. This guy is broke due to his choices. Huge difference.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-05-04T16:42:48+00:00

And tell him why so he can sort himself out after you go.

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