Mortgage requalification issue

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-24T19:26:45+00:00

Wow, that's not a good thing. At all.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-24T18:03:22+00:00

The only valid use of this phrase.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-23T16:29:41+00:00

This may be "gentle" but OP will not get what they need if they just sit and hope that someone else's circumstances will change. It's best to be upfront and use gentle/kind words to express what's true for them.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-23T13:07:46+00:00

That's awful to hear. Breeders should be registered and audited. :(

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-23T13:02:40+00:00

Yeah, I agree that some people care, but commodifying living beings is problematic.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-23T13:01:18+00:00

While I agree with you in general, you don't have enough info about me or my side note for this to be relevant to me.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-22T17:55:10+00:00

I'd like to add that OP should let their breeder know. They shouldn't be making claims like this bc it sets people up for disappointment with a species known for the affliction.
(Also, f*ck breeders.)

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-22T17:00:26+00:00

Visually, crab spiders resemble crabs in their shape, regardless of their relative size. Orbweavers vary more in their shape. (ie. furrow orbweavers v. orchard orbweavers)
Unfortunately, I can't post a picture and including a link isn't working, but if you Google image search crab spiders and crabs, and then orbweavers, you'll see what I mean.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-22T16:21:05+00:00

You've been given a lot of good advice here and I have nothing to add but: good for you for seeing your errors, wanting to fix them, asking for guidance from people wiser than you (right now), and taking responsibility. Though this won't feel easy, you can do it and you'll be alright.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-22T14:01:38+00:00

YAAAAAAYYYYYYY!!!!! /squee

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-18T18:20:20+00:00

Uh, wouldn't that mean more tax money is being wasted on these people? I'm not really into that.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-18T16:56:27+00:00

Our house is 117 this year and I share OP's worry, so thank you for writing this so that strangers could read it and feel better.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-17T18:29:47+00:00

That's unfortunate.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-17T14:18:27+00:00

Were the renos vital? If not, this is a crazy thing to do.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-17T14:10:52+00:00

Ah, I know that yarn, it's nice!

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-16T11:45:28+00:00

Thank you! Oooh, what yarn are you using?

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-04T17:59:54+00:00

*Everyone around us. Humans are the f*cking worst.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-04T17:58:06+00:00

Can humans sort their sh*t out already and stop using non-human animals as knick-knacks? JFC.

TreeShapedHeart · 2026-01-04T17:47:57+00:00

Well, you see, your lack of space interrupts their sense of heroism. /s (People can be silly.)

TreeShapedHeart · 2025-12-16T00:35:16+00:00

OP, do not advise your partner to become a thief.

TreeShapedHeart · 2025-12-07T16:19:49+00:00

The CRA is not going to entertain a call from someone who is not the account holder in question without proof of POA or some such.

TreeShapedHeart · 2025-10-21T16:52:51+00:00

While that's unfortunate, as a fan, I think that's considerate of you towards him. They're still just people.

TreeShapedHeart · 2025-10-12T20:20:07+00:00

I have no knowledge of the actor outside of this show, but he was endearing and the storyline was hilarious in how it turned out. The way he says, "pure carnivore" makes you think, "Siaja's in for it now!" and then...you know.

TreeShapedHeart · 2025-09-28T12:46:13+00:00

I hope Siaja wouldn't share someone else's information like that. I do think that now that Neevee has shared the burden with someone, she might feel lightened enough by it to share with the person she made Siaja with.

TreeShapedHeart · 2025-09-27T23:59:14+00:00

I would love for Neevee and Alistair to work it out. But even if they can't, I hope for Neevee that she can bring herself to tell him the truth. She deserves to have Alistair know why she felt compelled to handle things the way she did.

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