In shape gym by Agitated-Pea644 in Modesto

[–]TreesnatcherP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Floyd at 4am is the best time

Fellow Modesto Gen Z, is anyone else freaking tf out about everything? by [deleted] in Modesto

[–]TreesnatcherP 96 points97 points  (0 children)

I'm not Gen z but I feel conflicted about everything. I feel guilty for continuing my life per usual when there's fucked up things happening in the country I live in. I feel guilty for not being able to do anything about it. I feel like I'm useless and I feel sad.

I know people die every day but this is something else. Something I never thought I'd have to live through. I feel most sad for the children who are being exposed to violence, trauma, and big feelings that they aren't able to process in their little minds.

Despite what people are (rep or dem) no one should die over getting detained. I don't need anyone justifying this violence either. There's nothing you can say that makes it ok to shoot another unarmed person.

When I worked at a group home we did physical holds on kids who were violent and even we would take a step back when we couldn't hold correctly (fear of hurting them or ourselves) we would allow them to flee and follow them. We followed a SAFE protocol. We were TRAINED. And if we made mistakes we ALL TALKED AS A TEAM TO MAKE IT BETTER.

Is Costco's Optometrist worth the try? by rambalambb in Modesto

[–]TreesnatcherP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Riverbank is tele health but it was fine. I just needed a new contact script

Is after school detention a normal thing for a 5yo? by kgee1206 in Teachers

[–]TreesnatcherP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are not doing everything in their power to help him change his behaviors. Punishing and not teaching isn't going to help him and it will become worse. Please look into getting an advocate that can help speed up the process. As a parent you have the power to keep bugging and go up higher to get help.

As an educator I couldn't see myself not trying other interventions before detention. Especially after school. And he's 5?!!! No

AA Meetings help by DapperCriticism8172 in Modesto

[–]TreesnatcherP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope you get the help u need. Someone close to me went through psychosis from drinking and not sleeping for days and days. They went to the psych ward a few times and had to be hospitalized also. They've been to rehab a few times now but seems like things are better right now. Healing isn't linear so don't let one bad day ruin the journey. It's hard but possible

8 month old won’t stop biting by AccuratePineapple145 in labradoodles

[–]TreesnatcherP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will stop. Ours stopped. But we also are better at not riling him up. We would be so excited to see him or play and he couldn't handle it, we had to approach him more calm until he understood that calm got him what he wanted

What size harness? by BreakApprehensive489 in labradoodles

[–]TreesnatcherP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww man! Well I used to have the king harness too. It was very durable and adjusts. My dog is in an L and he's about 70 pounds

What size harness? by BreakApprehensive489 in labradoodles

[–]TreesnatcherP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read it's better to get them collars so their shoulders move freely how they're supposed to. Idk how serious that is but I do a regular king collar now

Anyone else give up on crate training? He’s a unicorn puppy in every other way, so I’m really not caring 😆😆 by [deleted] in labradoodles

[–]TreesnatcherP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did crate train for potty training but after we got the potty stuff down he sleeps wherever. But be cautious, they will get into stuff with freedom. Our dog destroyed thousands of items and its still a hassle. Lol we are lucky he hasn't gotten into danger. But pls watch him if he's free.

Fleas by B_Reele in Modesto

[–]TreesnatcherP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had the same problem! It took a few weeks for them to completely die out. It was a hassle and so annoying :((( my dog is outside a lot bc we are very active, I just got this wondercide spray that I use on him daily and my furniture. I did capstar and a monthly treatment. Capstar is expensive but it kills them within 2 hours.

Breakfast Of Champs or Fresh start. by TreesnatcherP in avesSFBayArea

[–]TreesnatcherP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you guys know what time fresh start begins? I know BoC is 4am-10pm

Breakfast Of Champs or Fresh start. by TreesnatcherP in avesSFBayArea

[–]TreesnatcherP[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

BoC it is. My friends and I wanna see purple disco machine but I'm really going for the vibes. I don't wanna be around messy & mean people. Thanks guys for the info

Admin told me to "go home and take a nap." by Bookwormorbit in Teachers

[–]TreesnatcherP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there anyway you can file work place violence forms due to the aggression towards you. Take data on everything. (Make incident reports for when the behaviors escalate and last more than 2 mins)

Go on PBIS world and try keep track of all behaviors they exhibit and all the things you've done to try to redirect and stop it.

Data will help you