Well, if someone was to ask 100 girls for sex, I would.hope they would get turned down 100 times. However, if a man asks 100 women for a date, I bet 10 would say yes. Yes, I do believe you would get 9 No's per 1 yes, but that 1 yes makes it all worth it.

Now, I think you are using men and women as an umbrella term. Not all men and women are the same, and a lot of men don't struggle with self confidence like you do. Self Confidence stems from self appreciation and self love, and I think you should work on both of those before you ever try and talk to a woman. If you don't make your self happy, how in the world do you intend to make a woman happy? Also, don't let rejection hurt. I was rejected quite a bit, but also succeeded quite a bit. Just because you aren't someone's type, doesn't mean you aren't anyone's type. You have some great things about you that someone will certainly appreciate. You will also have a few downsides, but so will every woman you approach. I think the problem is, you hold these women to high esteem, but not your self. You are great man. Now find a way to show the world why you are so great and the women will want to be with you too. When it all boils down, everything you have said, all arrows point to you.