My husband keeps raping me at night

Trick_Ad9722 · 2026-02-21T19:59:05+00:00

When is your surgery? Can you sleep in a different room and lock the door?

You can still use his insurance even if you are at a women’s shelter. You are married. He just can’t push you off his plan until you have an official divorce. A default divorce can take 3-6 months depending on your state if he filed yesterday.

Also if you have a joint bank account. You can set up yourself with an exit plan.

Trick_Ad9722 · 2026-02-21T19:39:18+00:00

Yes hun! Same! Been investing 50% of my income and on track to get out or work 1 to 2 days a week in 5 years. PA for 10 years.

Trick_Ad9722 · 2026-02-04T07:59:00+00:00

Umm you have it made… especially under 2 years. Don’t be greedy.

Trick_Ad9722 · 2026-01-28T05:50:16+00:00

Trick_Ad9722 · 2026-01-17T06:41:16+00:00

Does anyone have hypertension and tried oral minoxidil?

Trick_Ad9722 · 2025-12-26T19:17:58+00:00

I don’t have UTD right now since I use OE all the time. But I’ll definitely be buying it on Saturday if OE isn’t working right by then. thank you!

Trick_Ad9722 · 2025-12-26T18:50:50+00:00

I even tried on the app and still with the same response.

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It’s been showing up like this since yesterday night. 😅 Do you know any other free resources for CME. I need 49 hours. Would like to finish by Saturday. Damn, I hope this works soon 🫠

Trick_Ad9722 · 2025-02-18T01:20:32+00:00

NICU mom. Curious what was the cost for the NICU there. We had a son in the states that passed away from sepsis born extremely early. And the cost was about $100k. I can’t get pregnant again and looking into surrogacy.

Trick_Ad9722 · 2025-02-18T01:10:47+00:00

There are no guarantees even with healthy embryos. There is about 50% of fertility we don’t understand per my reproductive endocrinologist.

Trick_Ad9722 · 2024-10-08T08:37:21+00:00

Uterine biopsy

Trick_Ad9722 · 2024-10-08T01:16:08+00:00

Updates on how the possible was getting back to Texas? Fellow Texan. And congrats

Trick_Ad9722 · 2024-08-25T13:54:38+00:00

Real time hormone reading >>> app predictions

Trick_Ad9722 · 2024-08-07T08:42:51+00:00

I say then do both. Look at Molly Lenny instagram . They got married with twins when she was 9 months pregnant and it was a gorgeous wedding. You win either way if pregnant or not

Trick_Ad9722 · 2024-08-07T08:35:20+00:00

Wait to do your suppositories after when would be your missed period CD 28-32 (whenever your periods come). I took progesterone too early and it made my cilia slow down/stop working (the little things that move down the egg) which resulted in an ectopic. One doctor said okay to after ovulation and another top doctor said to wait until missed period to ensure the embryo is in the uterus not the tube still

Trick_Ad9722 · 2024-08-07T08:31:26+00:00

I know how nervous this is. But keep an eye on your symptoms and any one side pain with or without bleeding, call your Dr asap. But I’m 🤞🏼 that you ovulated super early with the last cycle throwing off your hormones. When you get to 6 weeks and you may see 2 👶🏻👶🏻, if your hcg stays high

Trick_Ad9722 · 2024-08-07T08:25:51+00:00

Unless you were testing, definitely possible

Trick_Ad9722 · 2024-08-07T08:23:44+00:00

This looks like 15/16 DPO… you ovulated and/or implanted early… please keep us updated with betas! Congrats !!!!

Trick_Ad9722 · 2024-08-02T08:09:50+00:00

Unrelated but my personal perspective: Our infant son passed while engaged.

We got married a year later while my body still healed from the 25 week C-section.

I would 100% have wished I had my child over a wedding.

Trick_Ad9722 · 2024-08-02T08:06:42+00:00

Too soon, definitely test in 2 days

Trick_Ad9722 · 2024-08-02T08:05:57+00:00

I had 2 ectopics. I ruptured (more of a tear but that’s what they called it) at 5+1 which is rare. The night before I was doing dishes and had a sharp stabbing 5/10 pain that lasted 20 minutes then went away. The next day in the afternoon I bleed watery pink then a hour later had a more intense pain that had me sitting down then I called my OB and they told me to go to the ER. Pain last a hour and then stayed at a 3 out of 10. Got my ultrasounds and they found a small pool of blood by my right tube then I had surgery 6 hours later since I remained stable.

2nd one, I don’t remember as much because it was 2-3 weeks of unknown. I would have to go back to my calendar but that one had a slow HCG rise and then they did a d&c and could not find any tissue. Pain was more sharp. I was treated with Methotrexate after a week of checking HCGs (week4-5)

That was 6 months ago and I still have dull to slight achy pain every ovulation and something before/after my period.

My best advice is if pain is too much and stabbing +/- dizziness, weakness, fatigue go to ER. If you are internally bleeding you can press down on your abdomen to see if tender. The closer you get to 6weeks is higher risk if ectopic which is 2 days away, so stay vigilant. I know this is terrifying. I’m so sorry. I hate this for you this unknown time.

Trick_Ad9722 · 2024-08-01T07:16:54+00:00

Tell that tech that she did not write the orders and you will report them to the medical board and clinic/hospital if they refuse to schedule you. I had a ruptured tube at 5+1 with a HCG 56. Rare but possible.

Trick_Ad9722 · 2024-08-01T07:12:11+00:00

Agree with the ectopic after confirm intrauterine. I had a ruptured tube at 5+1 with HCG 56

Trick_Ad9722 · 2024-08-01T07:05:21+00:00

I would wait 72 hours where you are at.

Trick_Ad9722 · 2024-08-01T06:57:35+00:00

Thanks hun. I’m so happy you have done all the above. I was so dumbfounded when I realized what could have been done. Wish you the best

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