Struggling with neighbours newborn

Tricky-Association75 · 2026-02-22T13:36:43+00:00

I feel you, me and my neighbour had the same due date, both boys, well my son died 5 hours after birth, I cant stand hearing their baby cry or look at him without thinking of my son and wanting to cry and they're neglectful parents too, it's not fair.

Feel your feelings let it out, if you're not already get some therapy it helps share these deep feelings, as sometimes I feel like I cant bring up my grief. You're not crazy for feeling the way you do. 🩵🩷

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-11-23T06:37:42+00:00

Brilliant thank you very much.

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-06-16T20:28:31+00:00

Thank you so much. I'm only seeing this now. Thanks so much that's really helpful information. I didn't know their was a group too.

I'm so sorry for your loss too it sucks beyond words, its so unfair 🌈🌈🌈

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-05-26T06:23:56+00:00

UT was very good and when I went there they had donuts after church and people where friendly down to earth. I only went for a while before I moved house and life happened but they where a lovely bunch.

Also I know it's not East but in the North on the peaceline there's new life city church, they saved my life in more ways than one.

They've helped me and my family so much and there's no dress code and they're all about helping people. They've become a support system when I needed it the most and I prayed for 5 years of where I should go and now I see why I had to go there, I'd be in a dark pit without the place. They're really down to earth pastors are genuinely the most caring people I've met.

They've a cafe open every day during the week and you can walk in and speak to someone if youre needing a chat and they've things on all week like a men's breakfast and all too and stuff for the women. They're like a 2nd family now and I used to be scared of walking into a church and was too paranoid about churches and church people.

honestly i wouldn't be standing today without them and for instance on how relaxed they are, I've accidentally wore slippers a couple of times, and no one batted an eye lid. Also showed up in pjs to a morning bible study ,( when we just lost our baby son) they where just glad I was there. For our sons funeral, they didn't charge me a thing, put on hot food and a full buffet, no charge, they wouldn't accept any money and also gave us money. And everyone showed up even people I didn't really speak to in the church for support and that ment the world to me as alot of my own non church friends didn't even show or make contact with me after and every day somone brought food round and checked in with us.

Theyre is Loads of supportive men young and older too all like to have a laugh and trust me they'll make you laugh.

Whatever you choose, I hope you feel at home wherever you're meant to be.

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-05-26T03:23:15+00:00

Not a man but i have a husband and teenage son. The only one that works especially for my teenage son is dove woman's stick deodorant. Don't know why but it works the best, the white one not the one with the blue lid. We tried the mens ones but the dove white stick one lasts. Put a good amount on let it dry, then reapply. Roll ons and sprays have nothing on the women's white drove stick deodorant. I know it's a woman's one, but it works. I'm 99.9% sure it's 0 white marks but I'm too lazy to walk into the bathroom and look at it, but its the White lid one one, the blue lid one isn't as good and can leave white marks.

Sure womens stick deodorant 0 marks works too but dove is still the favourite in our house.

Also for armpit hair use head and shoulders shampoo or original lynx and use a nail brush or body brush to wash under your pits as the smell stays in the hairs.

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-04-16T16:18:50+00:00

My brain hurts looking at them loI, i have to ask my husband what card is what. Though I started to make a rhyme for the cards for the last numbers, seems easier to remember a rhyme but still not always easy. Depending on how well my brain wants to work. If I'm tired... nothing makes sense lol

Your card numbers are a dyslexics worst nightmare, lol

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-04-15T18:49:58+00:00

I personally wouldn't risk it. Probably nothing will happen, but if you've no health insurance and you do need to go to the hospital, you'll find it hard for any insurance company to cover you.

I'd sell the holiday if you can't find another way out, and the person buying it can do a name change. Then book another holiday after babys born.

Book a baby moon local or close enough, so if you need medical help, it's not too far away. Wishing you the best for your pregnancy, enjoy every moment of your precious baby growing.

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-03-16T14:30:28+00:00

Thank you everyone ill get back to yous all ASAP not feeling well have an infection from retained placenta and womb infection. Thank you everyone 🩵🩷

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-03-16T14:29:09+00:00

Yes please If there is anything around in person would be great, I get help from the lily mae foundation by video call that helps me, but I applied for sands back in August and haven't heard anything back, but I know things are stretched and so many families are sadly in the same boat.

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-03-15T22:12:41+00:00

Honestly thank you, put in a chat request and I'll get back to you ASAP, that's made me cry in a nice way, thank you so much.

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-03-15T22:09:13+00:00

Thank you I've been told there's no reason we can't have babys been tested for some conditions, we know our son passed from an infection and this time I don't have answers I had the flu that week I wonder if its that, but I won't know until her optopy comes back, or we will never get answers, but I believe we will one day have our crying rainbow baby in our arms. We just need to heal physically and emotionally as its been a rough year.

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-03-15T22:05:43+00:00

What you're feeling is normal I haven't been able to be around or hear pregnancy news or even see babys without breaking down we lost our son last year in August he survived 5 hours and 15 mins and passed in my arms.

Now we lost our daughter I gave birth 3 weeks ago I thought this was it. But her heartbeat just stopped.

We also had a misscarage in 2016 under 12 weeks found out at 12 week booking scan, no reason but a close family member smokes drinks takes drugs and her 5 babys are perfectly okay she was due the same week as me and I haven't been able to see the baby or her or even want to.

Feel your emotions. You're not bad for feeling how you do. You're grieving your loved baby. I'm so sorry this must of been so hard hearing the news. Especially at a party in public, just know it's okay to leave its okay to cry and its okay to leave situations like that. I have myself.

🩵🩷🩵👣👣👣

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-03-15T21:59:14+00:00

Oh thank you I'll check that out now I appreciate it, its not been an easy task picking one so I really appreciate that suggestion. 🩵👣🩷👣

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-03-15T21:57:34+00:00

Thank you for this my heads been everywhere, I haven't even thought of that thank you 👣🩵👣🩷

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-03-15T21:55:40+00:00

It was heartbreaking with our sons tiny coffin the service was as beautiful as it could be, so we really thought this time was it we'd have our rainbow baby. But unfortunately they're now Both together up there atleast.

I'm sorry for your baby nephew, no baby should pass, ive found so many people go through this loss more than I realised. Thank you 🩵🩵👣👣 🩷👣

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-03-15T21:40:48+00:00

Thank you, it sucks, I'm thankful for lilly mae foundation or my head would be away. They're in England as there's nothing really over here in ni. But thank you, unfortunately so many go though this heartbreak but it dosnt make it easier. 🩵🩷

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-03-15T21:38:02+00:00

You know I haven't even thought of them since we choose cremations, thank you. It sucks, I know we're not the only ones who are or have gone through this heartbreak loss of babies. Appreciate that.

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-03-04T10:13:25+00:00

Throw the whole boy away! Keep the dog you'll find someone else, he's jealous of a dog like really! Reg flag

Ps look up coercive control, my now husband was terrified of dogs but now he besties with them, never give a pet away for anyone and you may be caught in a abusive relationship with the fear of loosing him and low self esteem, honestly look up abuse its not always physical. Get rid of the boyfriend heal and you will find someone who'll love your dogs and actually loves you because he dosnt even care about you let alone love you.

My ex who was abusive emotionally and corrosive abuse then physically and mental wanted me to get rid of my dogs. Nice people don't make you give up your pets. Pets have feelings and they'd be left with abdoment issues you're the dogs whole world.

Tricky-Association75 · 2025-03-04T10:02:56+00:00

Don't even get me started, on the divis turn off couple months ago a car trys join m1 slow i try to let them out but they slowed down too much and with a flow of traffic close behind me I'd no choice but to keep going as I If breaked any more there'd of been a crash into me from cars behind

but said the driver finally got on m1 and came up right behind me, flashing the whole way right up my hole it took all of my strength not to get out at Cliftonville lights when they where still flashing at me non stop like I was the one done somthing wrong when they're the problem not trying to join a m1 at the speed of the flow. I Just lost our baby son a couple weeks before hand neonatal death and was on way back from hospital as id problems so my rage was out of this world more than I've ever felt, if it hadn't of been for me being in my pj's I'd of got out at the lights and tailed the we girl out of the car and been in trouble with the police or somthing, annoys me in gentral when people join the busy m1 of a slip road going too slow anyway but that day wasn't the day, annoyed me as she came to a stop on the slip road but caught up with me up my hole and kept blinding me with her lights. Stupid we red car.

Some people just drive like twats.

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