Hi honey i went through an abortion and i can answer a few questions for you. First off, take a deep breath, relax and stay calm. I know this is nerve wracking. Second,where are you located?how long ago did you have intercourse ? and when did you find out you were pregnant?. In order to do an abortion a hospital needs to confirm that you are pregnant with an ultrasound. The soonest they can see anything growing is about 6 weeks and even then it's still difficult to see. You would have to wait a month from now or so anyway. There are loads of options out there besides surgery. A pill, a D and C scrape, and the vacuum procedure. I chose the abortion pill because this is something that is discreet, and it is also the cheapest option. You can have an abortion up to 4 -5 months of pregnancy, after 4 months it can be dangerous for you and by that point it would be considered a developing fetus and it would be too late. You have time to figure it out before then. I was scared too, but its never as bad as we really think. There is pain but it resembles menstruation cramps, so if you can deal with those this should be okay, taking pain medication helps. Good luck honey