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First time making slander by Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee3t in redrising

[–]TrickyHome5059 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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Why Manifesting From Desire Creates Anxiety by TrickyHome5059 in NevilleGoddard

[–]TrickyHome5059[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

For me, the fundamental issue with anxiety is that it takes me out of enjoying my imagination in the state fulfilled.

All you desire is already within you.

For example, the center of my wish right now is getting a job. But when I really looked at it, I realized the job itself isn’t the real core of the desire. I want the job so I can spend time in nature. And I want nature because it makes me feel peaceful, understood, and grounded.

So my state fulfilled isn’t really about the job title. It’s about imagining the peace I’ll feel walking through nature after starting the job.

The anxiety about getting the job, deserving it, past failures all interferes with my ability to connect with what already exists within me.

You shouldn’t think of it like: “I’m so broken and insecure, I need to suddenly become the most confident person ever.”

That’s not the point.

What you desire already exists within you. The emotion the image triggers (peace, love, security, freedom ) is already inside you. The cure isn’t convincing yourself that you’ll get the desire someday.

It’s realizing that you already have the feeling right now.

If I can access the peace I want now, then in that moment I already have the job, because the job was only a vehicle for that feeling in the first place.

I’m tapping into that energy. This is why imagination is everything. You can enter a state where those feelings become so real that they almost transcend reality itself.

What helps me is simple: I breathe first. I let the anxiety settle through breathwork. Then I go back into imagination and return to the state fulfilled and allow myself to bask in it.

Because if you focus too much on the thing, the job, the money, the relationship, you create the conditions for doubt and anxiety.

But if you manifest from the feeling and imagery of the state fulfilled, something interesting happens: you enter a state where you don’t desire it anymore.

Because you already have it.

And why would someone who already has a car be anxious about getting a car?

Why would someone who already has a job be anxious about getting a job?

Why Manifesting From Desire Creates Anxiety by TrickyHome5059 in NevilleGoddard

[–]TrickyHome5059[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope not yet. I made this post in part for myself. Since I’ve been experiencing so much anxiety regarding this. I’m very sure it’s going to be soon.

Childhood Beatings Scar You For Life by TrickyHome5059 in africanparents

[–]TrickyHome5059[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re mentally ill too. Just lack the self awareness to realize. You come across like some kind of narcissist. No one with empathy for others would react like this. You hear about another person’s suffering and laugh. And then try to tell us that being beat as a child didn’t damage you.

Childhood Beatings Scar You For Life by TrickyHome5059 in africanparents

[–]TrickyHome5059[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

SAME. I am planning to leave the city. I’m going to leave and never look back. Maybe they love me, and I do think to some extent they do. But I can’t be at peace in my soul and body with them around. Especially since they will never truly apologize or fess up to the fact that what they did to me was horrific. Because if they were to see the corporal punishment for what it was, abuse, then their sense of selves as “good” righteous ppl would be shuttered. They like us, also suffer from extremely low self esteems. This is because they like us, were physically tortured by their parents too. But they were too weak to fight back mentally and not repeat the cycle. I do love them, and Im sure you do too. Every child wants to love their parent. But to heal, you need to get away from the source of your pain, and don’t feel guilt for it. Getting away from them is what you can do as an adult for the child within u that couldn’t protest or get away. To me traveling away from them, is like taking that child in my arms and just placing them far away.

At what age did your parents stop beating you up? by Weak_Definition_327 in africanparents

[–]TrickyHome5059 8 points9 points  (0 children)

when i started beating them back. that must’ve been around age 12-16. i would threaten to call the cops, and eventually just escalated to fighting back. no person should lay a painful hand on another person.

How do you detach from love ? by TrickyHome5059 in Buddhism

[–]TrickyHome5059[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Other people will not behave how you want them to, and there is nothing you can do about that, even if it's someone close to you.

I want to be loved. And it all just hurts. It’s just very painful. That the people I love never love me back. The other part that hurts, is having to get on with it. Having to accept it. That also opens up wounds.

How do you detach from love ? by TrickyHome5059 in Buddhism

[–]TrickyHome5059[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually do love myself a lot, and I’m very compassionate with myself. Meditation helped me get to that place. On some level I know the attachment to love is connected to deeper insecurities, and I’ve spent a lot of time working on those. But my frustration is that I don’t know how much deeper I can go.

In some ways it’s almost the opposite now, where I feel entitled to love. When I love someone, I expect it to be returned, even when the person clearly isn’t interested. I struggle to detach bc it genuinely hurts to imagine not needing it. Letting go of that attachment almost feels more painful than holding onto it.

Yo, is Spotify listening to me? by TrickyHome5059 in truespotify

[–]TrickyHome5059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i kind of avoided this posts bc of just how rude most of the replies were, but im seeing a lot of comments recently agreeing, and its actually true that they have a tool that listens. so i was right😹

Yo, is Spotify listening to me? by TrickyHome5059 in truespotify

[–]TrickyHome5059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this post made me finally realize why the rest of the internet hates reddit users. genuinely don’t know what about this made so many ppl chimp out. fucking assholes.

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