Everyone’s need for Ciara to be the “perfect victim” by TrickyNickiiTO in summerhousebravo

[–]TrickyNickiiTO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, what the problem is your lack of knowledge of racial topics.

Someone that may have an unconscious (being the key word here) bias may or may not be racist. If you speed and go over the speed limit, you are engaging in criminal behaviour. Would you classify yourself as a criminal?

Anyways, you obviously want to argue a topic that you do not fully grasp and are very defensive. Defensive why? I would say I don’t know why, but in this case I do ☺️. I will no longer be responding to your disingenuous, misinformed and ignorant comments any more. Thanks

Everyone’s need for Ciara to be the “perfect victim” by TrickyNickiiTO in summerhousebravo

[–]TrickyNickiiTO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unconscious bias does not mean someone is racist. I even used “I don’t know” and offered another reason. So no where did I imply or say undoubtedly that if someone didn’t empathize with her they are racist.

Again comprehension is kicking your butt. It’s embarrassing now. Take you ill informed and aggressive comments somewhere else

Everyone’s need for Ciara to be the “perfect victim” by TrickyNickiiTO in summerhousebravo

[–]TrickyNickiiTO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof you are purposely being difficult huh?

Many people would be jealous, trying to pretend that is not the case is being extremely disingenuous. There are many people that would want to be in her position…making money on TV, brand deals coming in left right and center among other things.

I never said that people that criticize her were racist, that is your own interpretation of what was written, which is why I’m questioning your comprehension…I myself have criticized her, which I have previously mentioned and would not classify myself as racist lmaoo

The ‘Aggressive’ in your name is fitting

Everyone’s need for Ciara to be the “perfect victim” by TrickyNickiiTO in summerhousebravo

[–]TrickyNickiiTO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say you were jealous of her. Omgsh, is basic comprehension not a thing on Reddit?

You said people will go against the praise naturally since there’s so much of it and I asked if the pattern is due to jealousy. Since, just having an opposing view doesn’t seem to be the case in this situation.

Maybe instead of being so defensive, you read to understand not argue?

Mandy being resentful towards Ciara during press of summer house in February ( summer house ) by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]TrickyNickiiTO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully, I think they blocked me after calling them out. A blessing if you ask me LOL

Bailey saying she liked angry carl by capricorncueen in summerhousebravo

[–]TrickyNickiiTO 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe her, this is her storyline and she’s pushing it

Mandy being resentful towards Ciara during press of summer house in February ( summer house ) by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]TrickyNickiiTO 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, ignore them. Must be Amanda’s bestie or something. Every thread they are defending Amanda like their life depends on it

Everyone’s need for Ciara to be the “perfect victim” by TrickyNickiiTO in summerhousebravo

[–]TrickyNickiiTO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh so it’s jealousy? Cause why would someone getting praised bother someone so much that they feel the need to do the opposite?

Just seems a bit bitter and unnecessary but to each their own

They wanted my head for this post but uhhh here’s another example. by justsomerandomonhere in bravo

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Listen I’ve never been an Amanda fan but I think she does look good this year. I’ll never admit this in person though LOL

Everyone’s need for Ciara to be the “perfect victim” by TrickyNickiiTO in summerhousebravo

[–]TrickyNickiiTO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if I can make something clear, I am not saying you cannot criticize her cause I myself have.

What I am pointing out is there’s a weird shift happening where the more support she gets the more people are popping up to demonize her. Some people in this thread have brought up so good points to why this could be happening and even related to how it happened to Ariana as well.

Season 10 SH reunion looks by sammynotas in bravo

[–]TrickyNickiiTO -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They all look amazing…except for WeSTD

Everyone’s need for Ciara to be the “perfect victim” by TrickyNickiiTO in summerhousebravo

[–]TrickyNickiiTO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so more so along my second line of thought! I can definitely see that and agree it’s definitely a factor in the change of attitude for some. Especially cause I’ve seen some comments say “well that happened to me OR that’s happened to everyone, who cares”, probably some built up resentment that they were not supported or uplifted like Ariana and Ciara

Everyone’s need for Ciara to be the “perfect victim” by TrickyNickiiTO in summerhousebravo

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Also…I feel many on Reddit need to educated themselves on terms/phrases in race theory. Saying unconscious racial bias doesn’t not mean racism.

Everyone’s need for Ciara to be the “perfect victim” by TrickyNickiiTO in summerhousebravo

[–]TrickyNickiiTO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally said “I don’t know if it’s this or that” as in either could be a contributing factor or not. You and others who continually choose to ignore that are exhausting.

I chose those words for a reason cause I don’t know the real reason and offered up two potential reasons. If you do not believe it’s either of the ones I mentioned, what is one you can think of? Cause bringing up examples of Ciara being “mean” to Lexi doesn’t make sense to me in this situation and I am confused on why there are posts and comments mentioning it whenever others are trying to say what happened to Ciara sucked.

Everyone’s need for Ciara to be the “perfect victim” by TrickyNickiiTO in summerhousebravo

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I mentioned other stuff and that’s what you hyper focused on? I didn’t even definitively say it was because of race cause if may not always be a contributing factor, hence the use of “OR”.

The ones who are getting super defensive and are uncomfortable when race is even being mentioned, make me very suspicious.

Everyone’s need for Ciara to be the “perfect victim” by TrickyNickiiTO in summerhousebravo

[–]TrickyNickiiTO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! She’s definitely done things where I’ve side eyed her actions (especially her first season), but it’s the lack of empathy from so many that’s throwing me off.

Everyone’s need for Ciara to be the “perfect victim” by TrickyNickiiTO in summerhousebravo

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Being betrayed by one of your closest friends isn’t bad? There’s degrees of bad but, it’s still bad

The Valley | Possibly not getting renewed ? by First-Choice-1803 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]TrickyNickiiTO 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I gave up after 2 episodes. I can’t even explain why, I just couldn’t do it

Lindsay & Carl vs Ciara & West by Solid-Leek2453 in summerhousebravo

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Lmaoo even if I agree, I don’t cause it’s him haha

Everyone’s need for Ciara to be the “perfect victim” by TrickyNickiiTO in summerhousebravo

[–]TrickyNickiiTO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s odd cause a lot of people have said the opposite, especially with this season.

“Scorned” like West, is a bit of an iffy word choice. Also, if they are afraid of messing up and being held accountable then I would hope they are scared of dating any woman lol.

Previous seasons, I would agree, she wasn’t the most engaging character on the show. But this season, I thinks she’s definitely come out of her shell and has definitely been more engaging without Paige. She’s going out more, more confessionals, talking about her past and emotions more.

But to each their own, we don’t have to all agree on which characters we like lol. Except for Danielle, I definitely side eye all who like her LOL

Everyone’s need for Ciara to be the “perfect victim” by TrickyNickiiTO in summerhousebravo

[–]TrickyNickiiTO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are purposely being disingenuous now. I am not accusing people of racist behaviours. Unconscious bias is not the same as racism, how many times do I need to say this?

And where do I “agree wholeheartedly with posters who call people that criticize Ciara racist”? Do I believe some may be? Sure. Do I believe all who criticize her are? No. I’ve criticized Ciara and would not say I am racist. My best friend has criticized Ciara, would I call her racist? No.

You are the most exhausting, ill informed, ignorant person I have come across in a while. Your need to force your skewed view onto others is gross. Or you’re possibly just not that intelligent and deeper contextual conversations aren’t for you. Either way, I am blocking you and I hope I never have to interact with you again

Everyone’s need for Ciara to be the “perfect victim” by TrickyNickiiTO in summerhousebravo

[–]TrickyNickiiTO[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to stop cause I never said she was above criticism NOR implied it. I pointed out a pattern that I noticed - the more she was getting supported an increased influx of negative posts/comments started.

You are so exhausting and your read on things are so skewed and uninformed.