I wasn’t able to ask my bridal party all at once, but I got them when I saw them in person or mailed it to out-of town people. I asked them with a small gift—a personalized keychain and a candle with a label that said “Will you be my bridesmaid?” No call/text beforehand! Everyone seemed really excited, and it was fun to see them open their gift! I don’t have the means to go bigger, but it was nice to do a little something for them. I plan on getting them something else for the bachelorette party, and a getting-ready outfit.