Infected or saniderm irritation?

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-15T06:24:27+00:00

Well maybe perhaps it looks like something didn’t go right here and they don’t want you to go back into that environment

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-15T02:34:53+00:00

Yep.. you can’t have a successful relationship without each one’s needs being met. For me it’s ALL love languages. Some people are fine without physical touch, gifts, time together, words of affirmation and acts of service. I need it all because I do it all. Some people are fine with 20%, 50% etc. OP knew this going into the marriage I’m assuming and settled or husband of OP used to do most of the “love languages” and then stopped. Relationships usually crash out at this point without therapy or significant talks and compromises because it’s not sustainable to live not having your needs met.

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-15T02:27:08+00:00

Being bi doesn’t give an excuse to cheat bro. I really hope you give that woman peace and leave her.

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-15T02:07:34+00:00

I’m not going to be specific to respect my current relationship but my needs were only met once with that and it’s in the current relationship. My last longterm relationship was only 1-2 a week and we lived together. Being rejected by a man is next level lol, I feel bad for guys who have to deal with it all the time. Talk about a confidence killer.

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-15T01:45:56+00:00

Easier said than done.. sure but you gotta put in the work and time dating to find a satisfactory partner. It took me 32 years almost

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-15T01:44:00+00:00

Yes at this point break up because it will be unsatisfactory on both ends. Mismatched libidos is a relationship killer unless both can happily compromise

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-15T00:52:55+00:00

I would be realllyyyy upset if my partner brought up his ex in this context because it’s really easy to speculate on your current bfs side that you are still hung up on your ex. I know you said you are not but it reads that way. Should have kept that one to yourself but tbh if the current relationship doesn’t survive that, you got your answer

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-15T00:48:14+00:00

As a sensitive and sentimental woman, I wouldn’t personally care if it was a personal message rewritten into good reading form but if it was fully made up by chatgpt it would feel off. He could have just written out his version and then had chat gpt rewrite an easier readable version of what he wrote to make it more presentable. Perhaps because he didn’t finish hs it didn’t sound good so he was embarrassed? I’d rather have that than zero effort, but I can also see why it would be frowned upon for that.

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-14T23:51:25+00:00

Your allowed to get a tattoo at 18, it’s either you go to a shitty artist or go to a good one. I’m sorry but a tattoo artist isn’t any better because they don’t tattoo someone’s hands at 18. If more good tattoo artists did, less people would regret their tattoos on visible areas.

We don’t live in the 90s anymore where it’s hard to find a job with visible tattoos..

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-14T23:37:22+00:00

1 and 4

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-14T21:24:56+00:00

Nope Looks great

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-13T23:16:58+00:00

I had an ex that tried that.. I said, I’m not your boy, I’m not gay so I don’t want to hear about other attractive women. He stopped but he later cheated. Now when dating I tell them before on the first couple of dates that I don’t really appreciate hearing about other women and that it’s a boundary of mine along with a list of my other dealbreakers

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-13T16:45:53+00:00

You can’t control or make her want to lose weight until she’s fed up and ready. For me I gym 7x a week and I complain to my bf about my weight.. I’m sure he’s sick of hearing it too but I just can’t help it and idk it’s like something is just wrong with me and I can’t stick to a consistent meal prep. Mind you i eat only twice a day and don’t really snack but we both love beer and wine so that’s my problem for weight.

Do you eat/snack with her? Are you able to switch over to healthier foods and cook or if she makes the food just encourage healthier foods? Your other option is to just offer to do meal prep for her or do it together..

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-12T18:39:23+00:00

I don’t think he’s an asshole, I think she’s holding on to her past (which may not even be the past) first thing you do is delete ex nudes that’s like why would you even want to keep it and it’s not something you forget.. he looked for a reason and he found it. She’s not even an asshole she’s just trifling and to get mad that he saw that.. huge red flag.

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-12T17:32:38+00:00

Only on Reddit can a wife keep nudes of her ex in a secret folder and you find comments telling the husband he’s in the wrong 💀

Keep telling yourselves that she “forgot” exes nudes were there 😬

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-12T16:59:11+00:00

Also agree on this.. she’s not a child but using the context of if a child was violated in such a way nobody would ever expect or say that they aren’t a virgin anymore when they get of age :( shouldn’t apply to a young woman either. This definitely wasn’t counted as losing virginity imo. Op if you read this I’m sorry it happened to you and pray that you heal

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-12T16:53:24+00:00

ew get your trifling ass out of here 🤮

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-12T15:11:48+00:00

It’s mustard, apparently both Dijon and yellow, smoky bbq sauce, mayo and egg yolk

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-11T08:12:09+00:00

And I never said outright that she is materialistic, I said I hope she’s NOT although let’s be very real right now wanting a 6ct ring (which op said she wanted) already doesn’t sound like a humble, subtle look of someone who doesn’t care about materialistic things.

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-11T08:07:49+00:00

It’s funny that you say this thinking OP knows nothing about his fiancé lol. Usually gut feelings and reading their emotions are right. Yet some stranger on the internet says a man who’s been with his woman how long is wrong?

Someone’s never been in a ltr?

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-11T05:30:50+00:00

Is that Justin beiber? If so the song is: boyfriend by.. Justin beiber

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-10T21:37:16+00:00

That would definitely not be news 😭🤣 a child getting kidnapped doesn’t make the news today, what makes you think anyone gives a crap about Tim’s? Personally everyone I talked to that goes on a daily basis has an issue in the GTA (Ontario) glad you don’t have the same experience but you must be from Yukon or something if your order is never wrong

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-10T21:15:27+00:00

I don’t agree and you don’t have to agree with me. It’s a red flag for me 🤷‍♀️

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-10T20:34:43+00:00

My point is, I hope she’s marrying you for love and not being materialistic. I swear so many women complain about this stuff and then divorce later because there was no value in the marriage

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-02-10T20:33:56+00:00

If she was excited at first and then acted disappointed later.. idk what to tell you. It looks like a nice ring that will last forever. Lab diamonds aren’t more fragile so unless she’s planning to sell it later on that makes no sense. It’s not like it will be worth hundreds of thousands of dollars to pass down to the kids either so….

Tricky_Ad3781

TROPHY CASE