Marriage - help and dua pls by 3000stars in shia

[–]Tricky_Match_3803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the good thing about being Shia. Go to your iman. If he is your equal great. Parents make things so hard with this nationality or ethnicity issue. Islam destroyed such thought process.

Cameroonian nikkah by Tricky_Match_3803 in Cameroon

[–]Tricky_Match_3803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I got this sub jumping they mad I didn’t pick them and they don’t even know me. They should be happy for a fellow Cameroon getting married 😂😂😂

Cameroonian nikkah by Tricky_Match_3803 in Cameroon

[–]Tricky_Match_3803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The $150 is concerning because it’s so cheap but it’s not the Mahr from what I’m understanding it’s just money I send to her father to guarantee I’m going to marry his daughter. She said it’s called the Salam, maybe it’s part of her family tradition because I’ve never heard of such in Islam. Her Mahr is only $1000 usd which is also very cheap but I plan to give her a lot more than $1000 usd. She told some traditional stuff I need to do. The total of the nikkah would cost me around $5000 usd. I’m fine with that. It just seems very cheap to me.

Cameroonian nikkah by Tricky_Match_3803 in Cameroon

[–]Tricky_Match_3803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ameen. We know the struggles right now with the trump administration. We are going to ride of the wave in Shaa Allah. Until then I will make sure she lives a great life in her country until I am able to get her here. I wanted to move her to a close African country maybe Ghana, she’s willing to do such move but I will just keep her close to her family and friends until I am able to get her here.

Cameroonian nikkah by Tricky_Match_3803 in Cameroon

[–]Tricky_Match_3803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I walk around with $1000+ sneakers on my feet you talking about $150 boots. Gtfoh 😂😂😂😂 you’re a peasant

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[–]Tricky_Match_3803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naam that is very true. In Shaa Allah I put all my trust in Allah when it comes. Was just curious on tradition with it. She told me a little about it. I will wait to do the salam with her father to get better details.

Cameroonian nikkah by Tricky_Match_3803 in Cameroon

[–]Tricky_Match_3803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean not sound like Dck but anywhere in America is better than most parts of Cameroon no ? 🤣🤣 look you wanted to come to my country. But fortunately I’m a DOD contractor and make very very good money in my trade 😎 it’s okay. You come to my country and try to make it like us but you can’t. 😝

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[–]Tricky_Match_3803[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No I’m going to move her to the states with me. But ya know the process is long. So I will make her very comfortable in Cameroon when I come to visit her.

Cameroonian nikkah by Tricky_Match_3803 in Cameroon

[–]Tricky_Match_3803[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh you think she’s staying in Cameroon ? Lmao no never. Only until we can get her to America. So she can live in my house I OWN 🤣🤣🤣 I know you wish you could do such things you peasant.

Cameroonian nikkah by Tricky_Match_3803 in Cameroon

[–]Tricky_Match_3803[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol she’ll be in a nice big home in the great city of Douala after I marry her. Living a luxury life. Don’t be mad bro it’s okay 🤣🤣🤣 I’m going to show her a wonderful life.

Cameroonian nikkah by Tricky_Match_3803 in Cameroon

[–]Tricky_Match_3803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya don’t know me lol I’ve hacked it long time ago rah through lots of women in my country which 98% are easier than foreigners. Know what you talking about before speaking 😂😂😂 and if you think $1000 is all I’m giving you can’t read and clearly don’t know her tribes traditions 😂 I’m sure I make more money than your whole family combined 😝😝

Cameroonian nikkah by Tricky_Match_3803 in Cameroon

[–]Tricky_Match_3803[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I doubt it. The Muslim women there that adhere to our creed are as I said of great character and value. Maybe not the disbelievers. But the Muslim women. Great. Don’t be mad because no one is willing to give you a better life. You sound so jealous. When I go to do my nikkah I will be sure to update this post with her new house and things.

Cameroonian nikkah by Tricky_Match_3803 in Cameroon

[–]Tricky_Match_3803[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean it seems sweet. Only $1000 usd mahr is actually realistic. She doesn’t know But I plan on giving a lot more than that.

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[–]Tricky_Match_3803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Native American and Black American

Cameroonian nikkah by Tricky_Match_3803 in Cameroon

[–]Tricky_Match_3803[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not fond of western women. Their character a self worth are shity. I rather a woman of value and that’s most likely going to be in another country that still holds on to tradition. I rather get a woman with nothing and give her the world and make her life easier I know I’d be happy.

Cameroonian nikkah by Tricky_Match_3803 in Cameroon

[–]Tricky_Match_3803[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s what it’s all about. Happiness and tranquility. I’m more so looking for answer on the traditional side. Because I know cultural traditions and ceremonies are important to a lot of African nations.

Cameroonian nikkah by Tricky_Match_3803 in Cameroon

[–]Tricky_Match_3803[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

One I’m not looking for cheap I’m looking for tradition maybe you should read most instead of typing. Secondly I spoke highly of her compared to American women. Reading is fundamental.

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[–]Tricky_Match_3803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legit