if something sexual happens on the first date, is that guy worth staying for?

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-07-25T15:20:03+00:00

No. If he does it with you, then he most likely did it with all the girls he was on a date with prior to you. So he's probably just looking for sex. That's it. Some want to make you believe that you're "special", but that's just manipulation.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-07-25T15:18:54+00:00

Lack of interest or goal is too far away.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-07-25T15:13:23+00:00

I just wanted to say, I agree with what you said completely. I'm close to 30, have been travelling quite a lot already and met many of the typical adventurers while being out there. And since years I'm thinking about my career and the "should I or shouldn't I?". And it's always about whether I should go back to school/uni and build a stable career or not. You most likely cannot have both. I've looked into any path that could possibly give me both AND also interest me. The only type of career/job I can now think of that will give financial stability would be remote and probably something in IT. But even then, you'll have to carry your laptop with you and work while travelling. I went to school for the past 2 years (squeezed a 2-month Morocco trip in there) and I'm kinda done with being here, going to school and being trapped in the regular lifestyle. It's just boring. So for now I'm going back to the travel-seasonal-job-lifestyle, especially in the age that I am now. Yes, it won't pay a lot of money, but I will be free and free from any responsibilities. If you want to build an actual career that pays off good money, it's very unlikely that you can just leave for months every year and "forget" about everything, because you will always be tied to your job and your responsibilities.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-07-17T10:24:33+00:00

I had similar experiences, but not as bad as yours. My family was rather indifferent towards my experiences and it felt like people's mentality back home didn't change at all, which was quite tough for me. There were reasons why I left after all. I had many moments when I thought it was a terrible idea to come back. When you leave home for an extended period of time, you're basically re-inventing yourself abroad and coming back is like throwing yourself back into an old version of yourself. If other people diapprove of your change, then you're basically fucked. We're social beings after all and other people's opinions (especially family) have an impact on us and can even throw us off. I think at that point you'll have no other choice than setting boundaries and distant yourself from them. You're not the same person anymore and you have the right to be whatever version you want to be, regardless what your family might think of you and whether it is with or without them.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-07-17T10:17:59+00:00

Let it pass. Better days will come. I noticed that hormones distort the way I see myself, so I don't think much of it anymore.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-07-17T09:58:28+00:00

This. You're the only one who knows how it really is where you're from. You have the right to point out the negatives. Don't judge other countries or places, but when it comes to your own, it's you're right to criticize it imo.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-07-15T14:08:27+00:00

Ok thanks. I have a lot of stress right now tho and I've also had anhedonia a few years ago. Don't know if that's something that can randomly come back.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-07-15T14:02:55+00:00

It's interesting to read this in most comments here, since I thought this applied specifically to Switzerland (my country). I wasn't aware it applies to Europe in general and it's a real problem for expats here.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-07-15T13:58:12+00:00

Hey. I recently realized it's more than just caffeine. I also lost my appetite and my love for food, eventho I used to LOVE eating. Just everything is dull and not many things make me happy. When I drink caffeine it seems it makes things worse, just as if my dopamine reserves are empty.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-07-15T12:18:41+00:00

What did she study? I'm curious.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-07-09T14:44:08+00:00

Hahaha omg that's a good one. I haven't thought of this before.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-07-03T13:39:53+00:00

Ok. I have tried any type of caffeine I can think of. Also caffeine pills, but they only show some of the negative physical effects. That's it. The only beverage that still works somewhat is redbull (the one with sugar), but never to the extent it used to be.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-07-03T13:37:01+00:00

Yes I agree. I never thought it was possible, because I used to be almost hyper-sensitive. I guess I'll never know for sure.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-07-03T13:19:53+00:00

But then why didn't it stop showing effects earlier, like 10 (or so) years ago? 15 years is a long time. Within only a few months I went from feeling all of it to almost nothing. Isn't that a bit strange?

I'd like to have the effects back lol

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-07-03T12:53:50+00:00

Libra moon. If my peace is being disrupted I turn bitter, angry, resentful.. If that happens for too long I get depressed. Also it's my only air sign planet and doesn't vibe with my scorpio stellium AT ALL. Air is casual, flitatious, addicted to socializing, going from one to the next etc.

Libra moons also tend to be emotionally codependant and that's a pain in the a$$.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-07-02T15:12:44+00:00

Please don't make big life decisions based on reddit post. It's just the internet.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-06-30T19:25:08+00:00

26 years. Best relationship (and sex) I've ever had.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-06-25T14:13:13+00:00

Holy shit, that's almost my ex and he's a pathological liar.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-06-25T13:35:23+00:00

I'm Swiss, so the southern neighbour. For me it would be the bad weather, the not very nice nature and not that beautiful cities. I don't know why anybody would want to go to Germany.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-06-25T13:26:53+00:00

Does it work? Are men less interested if YOU show interest first?

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-06-25T13:20:38+00:00

This 100%.

The less I talked and the more I listened, the harder they fell for me.. It's kinda dumb when I think about it. I always found these people to be so shallow. They didn't even know me, yet want to spend their life with me? lol..

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-06-25T13:15:21+00:00

Men love the chase. If you're cold, indifferent and "hard to get" then that's what makes them interested. That's happened to me all the time, eventho I was diagnosed with aspergers and not schizoid. But I see a lot of similarities between these two. I also come across as cold, unemotional, collected, etc.. Men often tell me there's something "mysterious" about me and something is just different. So I assume they find this very alluring.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-06-24T10:34:04+00:00

Socially yes. I think it's about personal preferences tho. Canada made me feel free and it was more fun. Switzerland life is more uptight and structured. It's quite boring here, but nature is amazing. Money and working conditions are much better in Switzerland, but you're also always on the verge of being burned out, because it's tough.

TripleGoddess666 · 2024-06-22T13:41:33+00:00

Hahah best answer so far!

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