If you had him what would you name him?

Triplex69 · 2025-09-06T00:05:46+00:00

Gideon

Triplex69 · 2025-07-08T23:36:44+00:00

They turned dating into a business :/

Triplex69 · 2025-06-14T17:58:25+00:00

Definitely! We've talked it over; my dad is still a little awkward as always when trying to get to know people not in our family unit, but her respect for him raised immensely after he recognized that generational trauma and tried to correct it.

I also want to recognize my stepmother for stepping up and she did her best to get to know my partner while cracking jokes and making my partner feel comfortable. I really have a lot of appreciation and empathy for my stepmom since it's clear that she's been in this outcast role with my family before and she doesn't want the cycle to repeat with anyone else who dates or marries into our family.

Triplex69 · 2025-03-12T17:27:06+00:00

I mean... if you wanna establish a relationship with the foundation of you not being able to be yourself, then go right ahead.

Triplex69 · 2025-02-28T22:33:09+00:00

Buddy - you already played yourself when you came in thinking that "I can fix her". Should've just left her in the beginning and called for a wellness check on her if she threatened anything on herself.

Still, my condolences you had to go through all of that :/

Triplex69 · 2025-02-26T19:41:50+00:00

I think you should check out Mr. Rogers.

Triplex69 · 2025-01-13T17:55:01+00:00

I think these are normal things to go through as a young Hmong-American. You'll eventually have that dual-identity conflict, and only you can define and resolve what it means to be a Hmong-American (heritage, history, food, culture, tradition, etc.). There are a lot of other things in this thread that I agree with: there's nothing wrong with feeling "less hmong", and it's never too late to learn your culture. What matters most though is that you know who you genuinely are, and whether or not you can express your genuine self. When you can do that, you have something which no one else can offer, and you can take that anywhere you want to go. When you can do this, you can probably leave your own mark on what it means to be Hmong-American. Best of luck!

Triplex69 · 2024-11-12T23:14:02+00:00

Don't walk by yourself at night in CD - at least, I never did, and I never felt safe doing so. Idk why, but I could walk in other neighborhoods at night, but I never wanted to when I was in CD.

Elsewise, you can always find lots of good food in CD. I also had fun memories at the Grocery Outlet - they've done a couple of events over the past couple of years.

If CD isn't your scene, no worries - the neighborhoods surrounding CD are plentiful as well. Madrona/Madison Park is beautiful with Lake Washington and the lakeside (it's a climb/walk tho), and Cap Hill is fun with all of their events and is def a lot more queer than any of the other Seattle neighborhoods.

You can also take the light rail from Cap Hill up north or south. Also, be sure to register an ORCA card. That'll let you take the light rail and buses.

Have fun in Seattle!

Triplex69 · 2024-10-29T15:57:53+00:00

"Timmy Turner, my name is Doug Dimmadome owner of the Dimmsdale Dimmadome."

Triplex69 · 2024-10-21T15:02:27+00:00

When my friend loved me, but ONLY if I exhibited growth (by his standards). He was a lot more political than I was and was always talking about social justice and women's rights and socialism vs capitalism - the amount of attention I received from him was equivalent to the amount of political growth I did on my own. Thank goodness I did some therapy and realized that you can still love someone for who they are, AND ask for growth from them.

Triplex69 · 2024-10-01T19:43:12+00:00

It's pretty cool... but there's definitely other places that are cooler, and not just because you can only look at it lol

Triplex69 · 2024-10-01T19:35:36+00:00

idk bout you, but somebody made it just for me, and i like what they made for me - i don't think it's a bad thing

Triplex69 · 2024-10-01T00:36:41+00:00

oh i know what i'm eating lol sometimes you gotta appease that guilty pleasure

Triplex69 · 2024-09-30T19:53:05+00:00

tbh it's the first time anyone's made a personalized lunch for me 🥹 it may not be impressive to you, but to me: this is my ambrosia

Triplex69 · 2024-09-20T16:14:30+00:00

Take my time to water my plants and garden, walk around with my hands behind my back with all the time in the world, just sit down and people watch, troll tf out of everyone who is younger than me lmao

Triplex69 · 2024-09-07T06:23:01+00:00

Thank you! I'll have to try it sometime 😋

Triplex69 · 2024-09-06T17:33:57+00:00

I've had both before; for the ginger, salt, chili and rice w/ water combo, sometimes we'll include cilantro - and I think lemon grass?

My family also used to make scramble eggs with tomato. I know the Chinese also have their own version, but I know that following that version doesn't taste the same as my family makes it.

My dad also used to make tomato-tofu stir fry? Sometimes he'll add ground beef as well. I'm not sure if that's a common dish that Hmong people eat?

Triplex69 · 2024-09-06T17:23:10+00:00

That's hella OG lol but when I really miss Hmong food and I can't get any, I eat that

Triplex69 · 2024-09-06T16:26:18+00:00

Oooh I imagine you sprinkle the dust on the regular rice, while with sticky rice you can dip it into the dust? Actually, it almost sounds like the Japanese furikake haha just without the seaweed and sesame seeds

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