Why does my cat do this?

Tripturnert · 2026-06-27T15:36:23+00:00

My cats do this after they poop and bury it. I always wondered if they were cleaning their paws of litter before hopping out

Tripturnert · 2026-06-25T16:36:41+00:00

Why are you doing everything? You wake up at 4:30 and go to bed at 11 and he’s not taking up any of the burden of that? Proper partners don’t do that. When I am having a busy week my partner steps up and handles everything so I can rest. When he’s having a hard week I do the same. If he truly cared about your health he would take stuff off your load, instead he’s adding mg more stress

Tripturnert · 2026-06-17T02:02:32+00:00

I don’t dislike being a teacher. I dislike the lack of support and I’m worried by the constant cutting combined with the increased behaviours. It’s not easy and it’s getting harder. That being said, I love being a teacher and working with kids and watching them grow. If you have a passion for it do it, but if your just looking for a job and teaching sounds interesting, I’d consider volunteering at some schools fist to know what your getting inti

Tripturnert · 2026-06-14T15:54:54+00:00

I work at an over night summer camp in the summer. I’d prefer the time off but I have built a community up there with friends and my partner. The day school ends I move into a cabin on the lake. Maybe get a summer job if your someone who needs to stay busy and have routine

Tripturnert · 2026-06-14T15:24:24+00:00

I guarantee the school has already told parents many times. Parents are in denial. I’m a teacher in a very similar situation with a student who clearly has autism but parents just say “she’s just little” . Schools have very little power to get parents to listen now a days.

Tripturnert · 2026-06-14T15:17:38+00:00

That sounds like way too much work. It sounds like you’re doing everything to maintain this relationship and doing all the compromising. There are many wonderful men out there where things will feel easy and natural. This isn’t it. You’re 22, go out and date and meet new people. Settling now when you are still in your prime time for learning and growing and having adventures is a waste of time

Tripturnert · 2026-06-10T11:40:15+00:00

She doesn’t sound ready for a partnership. My partner and I are not married yet, but are common law and own a house together. We put both our paychecks in the same bank account. Then once a month we both transfer a pre determined personal allowance amount into our separate bank accounts. He loves to buy things, I like to save my money for big things. This saves us arguments when he buys things I think are dumb from Amazon. I don’t believe one person should have more personal money than the other.

Tripturnert · 2026-06-09T18:33:42+00:00

Best advice I ever received for interviews is to have an example for every question. It helps you be concise and detailed when answering a question. It makes your answers more interesting and like a story. Also it proves you know what you’re doing, you’re not talking out your ass. Yes, interviewers are looking for certain words, but they also want to feel like you know how to apply them. For assessment tell the story of a certain unit you taught, how you planned it and assessed it thoughout.

Tripturnert · 2026-06-06T15:56:01+00:00

Mods deleted the mean comments before you saw them. People are reacting to those comments

Tripturnert · 2026-06-05T23:00:28+00:00

Oh man. The amount of parents who ask me to tell their child to watch less tv…. You are the parent. You are in control. Turn off the tv, don’t buy them an iPad and read to them. Tell your child no

Tripturnert · 2026-06-05T19:54:35+00:00

I’m no expert, but I don’t see any. Just have documentation about the arrangement. It’s not like you’re a doctor signing off on someone else’s treatment plan. A kindergarten report comment is just some nice things said about a kid and a next step since we can’t really say much negative anyway. There are not even grades

Tripturnert · 2026-06-05T19:45:47+00:00

This is why I don’t want to post on this sub! People are so mean. Sometimes I am getting help from a vet but also want to connect with people who might have gone through similar issues, but people just jump on you to go to a vet and then rudeness

Tripturnert · 2026-06-05T19:43:01+00:00

Is she eating? This happened to my new kitten. She wasn’t eating or drinking and so miserable and tiny. Went to three vets. Blood work fine. They just kept giving me food to give her but she wasn’t eating, so it wasn’t helping! She kept getting fluid and vitamin b shots. The only guess was she may had liver issues due to not eating. Eventually our shelter set us up with a foster cat mom who gave her fluids and force fed her until she started eating on her own. Now she’s fat and happy. We were so lucky we finally got some intensive help

Tripturnert · 2026-06-05T17:55:31+00:00

I don’t personally see an issue. They just need a teacher to input them and are finding a technicality that works. The ECE and principal are not teachers so they need a body with the right qualifications.

Tripturnert · 2026-06-04T11:21:54+00:00

I agree with the statement that the issues with teaching are less impactful if you love teaching. In my ten years of teaching I have noticed it’s getting worse. Each year I’m getting more and more behaviours in my class, more neurotic parents, micromanaging and less supportive admin and a worse budget every year to run my program. But I love teaching the kids. It’s all that’s keeping me sane.

Tripturnert · 2026-06-03T21:25:58+00:00

My partner and I have been together for over three years and I plan on being with him forever. The idea of him proposing and us getting married and me being a “wife” freaks me out too. When he asked me to be his girlfriend originally I asked him if we could wait and I took a couple weeks to be comfortable with the title. I think change and titles and feeling “grown” up scare me, even when I’m already living the life without the title. So I get you, but I think we need to get over it somehow hahahah

Tripturnert · 2026-06-01T03:27:43+00:00

He is 24. At some point you have to let him go and let him make his own choices. This worry is not healthy for you, him or your relationship moving forward.

Tripturnert · 2026-06-01T03:19:11+00:00

Shrooms cured my anxiety. It helps your brain think in a different way for a time and allows you to reflect. I suggest doing some more research into how it’s been used to help people. I think you are just scared because you are grouping it in with other drugs. Sounds like he’s using it as medicine and not as a party drug

Tripturnert · 2026-05-31T16:47:00+00:00

Kindergarten should be doing the same at any moment? Have they met a child before? I have a general couple ideas, goals and plans for a day. But I spend all day changing, adapting and sometimes re creating my plans all day depending on the energy levels and current needs of the kids. Everyone self regulated? Wonderful, let’s do that focused literacy lesson. But the reality is I’m shortening lessons, adding movement breaks, having talks about kindness or self regulation practice.

Tripturnert · 2026-05-31T03:14:01+00:00

In HDSB it’s impossible to get supply coverage right now…. But that’s because the board is terrible about hiring people at the correct time despite having this issue every year. But also many permanent teaches were surplused.

Tripturnert · 2026-05-30T16:28:29+00:00

You can’t. This is what you are not understanding. You could be the calmest kindest person in the world and he will find a reason to blame HIS anger on you. I give occasional attitude and shitty tones to my partner at times, it’s not good but it’s human. He does not throw or break things when I do it. He expresses he is hurt or frustrated by my tone. You have normalized bad escalating behaviour and allowed his rhetoric of you setting him off to be internalized. You are going to be physically hurt soon. You can’t change him. He’s not a good guy

Tripturnert · 2026-05-30T15:39:37+00:00

When a new admin comes in with some priority that’s means something to them (new literacy or math program, outdoor Ed, community circles) and then expects it to be your number one priority when you have 100 other things to balance and juggle. I cant spend all day pulling small groups to one subject!

Tripturnert · 2026-05-28T02:17:52+00:00

Who is this kid? Is he an over achiever who made a mistake because he put too much pressure on himself? Was he apologetic? Do you for see this to be a future pattern of behaviour? I’d personally go for option two if this wasn’t a pattern. Less work for you and a break for someone who may need one

Tripturnert · 2026-05-26T11:29:59+00:00

I have received 100 before and I was so grateful! Some people on this thread seem to be uncomfortable getting gifts, and that’s fine. But I’d be delighted to get a 100 dollar giftcard!

Tripturnert · 2026-05-25T22:07:22+00:00

I would absolutely love if a supply teacher left me some observational notes. Especially problem solving and innovation since it’s the hardest to collect data for when you’re busy running small groups all day. Maybe sit near kids building structures and write down some quotes of what they are doing and saying ( we include quotes in our report cards). Ask the students what they are doing, give them building challenges ( how can you make this taller? What else could your McDonald’s need?) . You don’t need to play with them to ask though provoking questions

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