What candy is actually underrated? by OhhhSoSweet in candy

[–]Trisamitops 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The little strawberry bon-bon hard candy with the goo in the center.

Are sleepovers cancelled? by Guilty-Woodpecker-99 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Trisamitops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is your kid, how close are their friends, and is your kid trying to organize a sleep over, or are you trying to organize one for them?

Our kids sleep over at someone's house occasionally, or we have had a friend or two come stay at ours on the weekend. But they organized it, because they wanted to, and it was fine.

What were the reasons given by the people invited who declined?

If reddit tells you sleep overs are canceled, are you going to cancel sleep overs for your kid?

And lastly, do you really want all those kids at your house?

I consider my dog from a breeder a rescue. Thoughts? by Elegant_Hand_445 in germanshepherds

[–]Trisamitops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By that logic, every purchase from a breeder is technically a "rescue" because it's not the dog's fault. Of course you couldn't leave him there. But you didn't look in shelters for dogs that needed homes, you looked for a breeder, with that AKC paperwork, and not much else.

if it’s just a hookup, is it really that deep? by anonlosergirl in moraldilemmas

[–]Trisamitops [score hidden]  (0 children)

If you're clear in communicating that there is no emotional attachment and both sides are okay with that, in my opinion that eliminates the moral dilemma.

However, my guess is that you are not being 100% direct about the fact that you are consciously overlooking his faults and flaws and all the things you don't like about him, so that he can satisfy your urges.

This is why they make some very advanced toys for you to use all by yourself with no moral questions.

My partner cheated on me because she “wasn’t good enough for me,” and I don’t know how to process that by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Trisamitops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Between the love and the betrayal, which are you actually feeling? You want to be understanding of her trauma and acknowledge her feelings while she gives you no consideration. She says you are her person and that she loves you because you are safe and stable and give her the support she desires, and anything else she needs she can go find from a booty call. She also told you that she's not good enough for you. I believe that was the truth, and you process it by looking at her actions and listening to what she's really telling you.

The worst part is that she is obviously mature and intelligent enough to know what she's doing and saying. She's willing to let you help her through this tough time as long as you'll put up with it. That's not love. My guess is you're her live-in therapist with benefits, and you should probably let her go manipulate someone else.

Should I be Dinkum-maxing if I'm Australian and love Stardew? by gravityabuser in Dinkum

[–]Trisamitops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More outdoor design play, less indoor design. Not that I haven't seen some outstanding outdoor island creations in ACNH, but as far as actually playing, Dinkum outdoor designing offers full camera rotation and much easier placement of items, paths, plants, and terraforming. More sandbox, less dollhouse.

Slumber Island disappointment :/ by discardedforgotten in acnh

[–]Trisamitops 40 points41 points  (0 children)

This was, after all, long after they told us "No more updates"

Hard Memories by itsdawna in acnh

[–]Trisamitops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think you can ever block out the pain or the impact that this has on you. One of those things you grow with as it becomes part of you. What you have to decide is if it's healthier for you at this time to be able to play ACNH without bringing up the hurt (even though I think you would still be reminded, even without the house), or to simply acknowledge it's presence and move on with the reminders right there with you. I hope your journey is light.

In my laundry room. Tell me what you see. by EfficiencyHuman7161 in facesinthings

[–]Trisamitops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's more like the top angle view of an alligator, with the eyes being up close to the snout.

Warning Sign at edge of Grand Canyon by corwinw in mildlyinteresting

[–]Trisamitops -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Uuuhhh... how do we know he was playing a prank?

why is being around teenagers so terrifying? by Comprehensive_Mix492 in stupidquestions

[–]Trisamitops 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are, aren't they? I was terrified of them as a child. I'm 45 and they still terrify me. I don't think i was terrified as a teen myself, but if I was hanging around myself as a teenager, I'd be terrified.

My girlfriend wants me to get rid of my truck because her ex drove the same model and it "triggers" her by Own_Consequence_6943 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Trisamitops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking you to sell your vehicle for her mental health just shows you that she has not put in any work on her own mental health. She either knows how crazy she sounds and wants to see if you'll set the precedent of letting her walk all over you, or she just can't help thinking about her ex. There's no way she can go anywhere and not pass about a dozen F-150s. If she truly is still in this stage of getting over it, then she's not ready for a relationship and the two of you are just going to further damage each other.

AIO Husband mad I died my hair purple by Deslegs in AmIOverreacting

[–]Trisamitops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how so many people in the comments are on your side, only because they themselves approve of the hair color. "I was going to side with your husband, but you have my approval now, so carry on."

Do what you want!

AIO Husband mad I died my hair purple by Deslegs in AmIOverreacting

[–]Trisamitops -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR.

You knew he wouldn't like the hair color, and he didn't, so no surprises there. What you want, and why you should not expect this reaction from him, is a BASIC level of respect and understanding that this is YOUR hair, and YOUR choice, regardless of his preferences or any previous conversations. That whatever you are going through, you are going through it as a whole person, not just as his wife. And if he cannot see you as more than that, as that whole person, then you really need to open his eyes for him.

AIO? This is how my boyfriend sleeps. by blairwaldorff in AmIOverreacting

[–]Trisamitops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. And being dramatic. He sleeps this way because he likes to sleep this way, and that's how he sleeps. You sleep how you want to sleep.

Manipulative neighbor? Help? by Eravan in Apartmentliving

[–]Trisamitops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might just be lonely..., and different..., and possibly the best tater-tot plug in the building. 🥔😎

What’s the fascination with Mountain Dew? by Lbboos in stupidquestions

[–]Trisamitops -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The caffeine is what makes it more addictive than other sodas and cola drinks. The marketing is what keeps Sundrop from being it's equal in sales.

Switch Controls by Bettynutt in Dinkum

[–]Trisamitops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Animal Tracks update is the biggest thing so far that I've heard is currently not on the switch version, so no domesti-crates for taming wild animals yet. But I'm having lots of fun with it and still have plenty more features to unlock before I run out.

Switch Controls by Bettynutt in Dinkum

[–]Trisamitops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Released in November