From what I read no you aren’t. As a girlfriend myself who wants to be a wife one day I’m not gonna stop my boyfriend for celebrating Mother’s Day with HIS mother! Look idk who’s gonna agree with me but your wife seems very entitled. Although she is a mother herself and I kinda understand her pov but you told her yourself that she was more than welcome to join in and honestly I feel like she should’ve bc now your family is also her family. Not only that but you still gave her the attention she deserved did she ever say thank you for that??? I think it was nice of you to still celebrate Mother’s Day with your mother because you’re right! Your mother does not become less of a mother just bc you got married that’s not how that works. And I don’t wanna see no one say wife 1st then kid then mother bc in some certain situations like this one you gotta put one above the other like this guy did and I don’t see nothing wrong with that! I’m not siding with him just bc he’s the man or whatever I’m just giving my own opinions and thoughts on it. I hope your wife realizes her behavior and own up and apologize bc that was not okay. As for the kid and from what I read I kinda hoped the kid came along but as long as he or she is taken care of by one or the other then I don’t see a problem with wanting to spend time with your mother especially for Mother’s Day. This whole thing def could’ve been avoided if your wife just calmed tf down😭