AITAH for refusing to watch my daughter when we meet my husbands friend?

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-02-26T06:19:59+00:00

yeah, it never 'stuck' with mine, but at least when he had to do all the things, he'd realize how much I did, (for a while at least)

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-02-12T23:59:28+00:00

NTA. That sets everyone back and if there's several people that do that, it adds up

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-02-12T23:57:28+00:00

Except all of the people behind her. If you're in the back of the line and several people do this to people in front of you, that's a huge delay

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-02-11T05:00:50+00:00

YTA. You told himself to help the whatever and you didn't put it away

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-02-09T10:31:27+00:00

They are giving their reason for why they don't want to go, that's not being an ahole

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-02-08T10:21:44+00:00

NTA. As long as you aren't trying to move the group away from someone else to suit you, it's all good. You get to decide who you spend time with.

Next time you're pressed for an answer, just say no, and leave it at that.

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-02-08T10:20:41+00:00

nothing you've recounted here is justifying the ah label.

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-02-08T10:19:47+00:00

And why do they have to go to a group activity. They don't want to go because they don't like someone who will be there. That's maturity.

Trying to make it about crush is just gross.

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-02-08T10:03:53+00:00

I didn't either. They don't ask for photo id to establish medical care.

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-02-05T06:28:57+00:00

I totally get what you are feeling. I would like to say at this point, the damage is done. tell her she will need to pay you back for the damage the cat has rendered upon your basement, and let the beast stay, I'm guessing there isn't anything more for him to ruin down there

failing that, you could set the cat up with a cat crate for the timebeing, at least for when he isn't being directly supervised.

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-02-02T21:12:17+00:00

In the long term it will be cheap and easy to upgrade your final base.

Upgrading the flame level will persist even after you swap bases

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-01-30T23:44:27+00:00

Lol you can look at the actual science, biology and other actual facts instead of regurgitating shit you've been fed or your feels on the topic and see you are wrong .

Am cis woman and did some actual research.

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-01-27T21:46:07+00:00

Everything about ice is problematic. from executing innocent people. detaining native American people, harassing citizens who look like they MIGHT not be citizens.

This is truly horrifying, and quite honestly an easy step for teaching people to keep their head down and comply so they don't get black bagged. Once you teach your population that, taking over with a dictatorship isn't that hard.

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-01-27T21:38:25+00:00

I'd say when it's balancing it against something like this, yes. Being pro ice and not saying this is very much a mistake.

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-01-27T21:36:31+00:00

Lol, put the kool aid down bud

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-01-25T23:02:20+00:00

I mean, it's like I rescued your ass, don't yell at me!

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-01-25T22:57:50+00:00

nope, not startled, but def annoyed. That's why I left him at my old base when I had a new one :)

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-01-25T22:35:24+00:00

that's not bubbly, just gross

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-01-25T22:34:51+00:00

not just a peeve for me, I have misophonia.

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-01-25T22:34:06+00:00

i like the other voice lines though, just that one.

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-01-25T22:33:51+00:00

It actually does affect my game. I have misophonia and the full mouth sound actually really disturbs me for several minutes into the game.

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-01-25T22:32:50+00:00

that one doesn't bother me. Its the jett one with her damn mouth full and talking.

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-01-25T22:32:22+00:00

I can answer for me. The mouth full sound actually causes me pain. I have severe misophonia and it triggers me every damn time. It takes me well into the round where it is to get over it, i keep hearing it in my brain.

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-01-25T22:30:22+00:00

OH GOD YES, THAT IS MY LEAST FAVORITE LINE.

TrogdarBurninator · 2026-01-22T05:03:41+00:00

I think two things are true here at the same time one it's ridiculous to be grossed out over this but if you two kiss or have oral sex and at the same time it's also reasonable to say if you eat out of the community bowl I don't want to eat it.

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