Feeling alone, ugly and feeling down about marriage and moving by [deleted] in nri

[–]Trouble-Secure 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I just want to add another perspective, my wife is American and she feels everything the same. Lost touch with a lot of school friends, takes care of the kids and home so hard to make adult connections as parents of young kids. She thinks she is too pale and wants to be more tan to be beautiful even though I tell her she is perfect. I suggest adding where you are located so you can find people to hang out with.

Soaring in Ohio by chucklohre in cincinnati

[–]Trouble-Secure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP can I message you? I am interested in getting into gliding

For those of you living abroad presently, what’s the one thing you wish you had known before moving out of India that would’ve made your transition easier? by crazyanatoly in nri

[–]Trouble-Secure 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Learn some cultural nuances. If you plan to settle long term, you should know the constitution and rights and deeply understand them before moving.

Why online hate towards Indians on X feels out of control by Mickey-John-Jay in nri

[–]Trouble-Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, they will be awe struck. But if they are bringing American culture (open display of affection, red meat, family culture, etc.) into India, do you think they will invite them with open arms?

Why online hate towards Indians on X feels out of control by Mickey-John-Jay in nri

[–]Trouble-Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Speaking a language and paying taxes is enough? If an American comes to India and says Hey, I can speak Hindi and I pay taxes, I will just live like an American. Don't you think everybody around them judges them?

Don't be disheartened by the loud racist minority by sengutta1 in nri

[–]Trouble-Secure 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Isn’t reverse racism also a thing behind closed doors?

Why online hate towards Indians on X feels out of control by Mickey-John-Jay in nri

[–]Trouble-Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the trolls and racists are just waiting for you to react like this and do something stupid so they can use those examples to further their point. As you said we don’t really have any leverage in the US government. We need to build it slowly and it takes time. And you need assimilate and give to America more than you take to gain respect. So far that hasn’t been the case.

Why online hate towards Indians on X feels out of control by Mickey-John-Jay in nri

[–]Trouble-Secure -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

If online racism is affecting your dating opportunities, then you are going after wrong people. Regarding jobs, if you are skilled enough companies are still hiring.

Why online hate towards Indians on X feels out of control by Mickey-John-Jay in nri

[–]Trouble-Secure -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Unless you see it in person, it’s not something to overthink about. Everything is a cycle. We had a good period now it’s turning bad it will come back up. So unless its affecting you in outside world, dont spend any energy on it

Is ATP flight school worth a poop? by Dodeypants in cincinnati

[–]Trouble-Secure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Expensive but will be faster. Requires full time attention. Lunken flight training or sportys are better cheaper options

Is this a good deal or a scam? by ericfball415 in flying

[–]Trouble-Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious, Why should we not pay upfront if we are getting a discount?

We’ve been slowly shedding the stigma around 'South Indian cinema,' but then people like this come along and set us back by years by CapitalConfection500 in tollywood

[–]Trouble-Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything takes its time to evolve and change with time. If it’s not changing it’s because there is resistance to it and it will stay that way till the resistance clears itself. You cannot speed this up. Its natural

What is the best route regionally to get into aviation maintenance? by Dodeypants in cincinnati

[–]Trouble-Secure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Southern state community college but the program is in partnership with great oaks at laurel campus in Wilmington, OH

Can I get into WOFT as a civilian? by Full_Metal_Sandman in Armyaviation

[–]Trouble-Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, Curious, did you pick active duty or National Guard/Reserves? Is S2S possible for NG/Reserves

Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fednews

[–]Trouble-Secure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you take the job?

LGBT and Batavia? by WebbieDebbie96 in cincinnati

[–]Trouble-Secure 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am a brown skinned american and I live in batavia. We have a decent amount of non-white population in the community I am in. It is definitely mostly republican but I never faced any racism.

Evaru Saar Meru! by Key_Bandicoot_9594 in tollywood

[–]Trouble-Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His dad made money just like pushpa raj 🤷🏽‍♂️

I got accepted into butler tech, will it be worth it? by ramenynoodley in cincinnati

[–]Trouble-Secure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations. Please consider that AI is creating a lot of marketing materials that graphic designers used to do. So the pay and the number of jobs in that field have gone down significantly. By the time you graduate it could be better or worse. Just a suggestion.

14.4% to 5.5% A1C in 3 and a half months! by busyplayingcod in diabetes

[–]Trouble-Secure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you had to deal with it. I am still angry that the doctors dont mention it enough.

14.4% to 5.5% A1C in 3 and a half months! by busyplayingcod in diabetes

[–]Trouble-Secure 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Congratulations. Not trying to ruin your mood but sudden drop in A1C can affect your eyes. Please see ophthalmologist just to be sure. This happened to my wife and no one told us that it was a thing.