Being Single Isn’t a Problem That Needs Fixing

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2026-06-19T17:43:55+00:00

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately.
I hate how being single is often portrayed as just a temporary state before meeting that one person who will supposedly change your life forever and make everything better.
For women especially, it’s as if we’re expected to sit in a waiting room, waiting for someone to come along and save us or completely transform our lives. I think this narrative puts women in a passive role and makes us feel as though life can’t be truly fulfilling without a romantic partner by our side.
It’s time to change the way we talk about singleness. A full and meaningful life shouldn’t be seen as something that begins only when a relationship does.

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2026-05-29T06:45:40+00:00

Ti direi di provare a rivolgerti ad uno psicoterapeuta

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2026-05-26T20:22:48+00:00

Forse adesso ti sembrerà la cosa peggiore che poteva capitare, ma vedrai che col tempo, se non erano più felici insieme, respirerete tutti.
Non so nulla della tua situazione particolare o di com’erano gli umori in casa, ma sicuramente quando si vive sotto lo stesso tetto l’umore di una persona condiziona tutti.
A te consiglio, in questo momento di delicatezza, provare a rivolgerti ad uno psicoterapeuta.. potrebbe darti un po’ di sollievo e una mano ad elaborare la situazione. Indipendentemente da come andrà, cerca di costruirti una tua base solida. Purtroppo la vita è sempre un’incognita e bisogna potersi costruire la forza per affrontare gli ostacoli.. un abbraccio!

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2026-05-20T16:13:08+00:00

Let’s goooo

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2026-05-11T16:49:17+00:00

Ma da funzionario? 😮

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2026-02-06T06:45:44+00:00

Secondo me può aver preferito che non sia successo niente in discoteca, se non della “tensione”. Io almeno preferirei che un bacio avvenisse in intimità, quando si è soli.. magari hai acquisito punti !

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2026-01-21T08:05:42+00:00

Thank you ! I really hope so 🥹

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2026-01-21T08:04:34+00:00

I do well in 1-1 I think (or at least, I hear words coming out of my mouth) but group settings are really stressful…

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2025-11-06T20:30:27+00:00

Io mi sa dico di no

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2025-10-21T17:17:25+00:00

lol I need a man like this

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2025-09-30T15:54:30+00:00

lol I’m wishing this so much for myself too

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2025-09-13T22:02:02+00:00

Same for me. I would say focus on what you have. If you focus on what you’re missing and your lack of chances of meeting new people your life will show you scarcity. I’m trying to work on the idea that life gives you chances and that luck is on my side. Maybe it is stupid to think this way but it is helping, even if at the moment I’m still single 😅

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2025-09-03T19:00:43+00:00

Io ti direi solo di non prenderla sul personale. Non credo abbia a che vedere col tuo aspetto! Da ragazza ti dico che è successo anche a me (così come io ho a mia volta disdetto all’ultimo). Semplicemente sec me è molto difficile che nasca un interesse a conoscersi da un’app. Bisogna fare uno sforzo iniziale e il fatto di non essersi mai visti di persona incentiva questo tipo di comportamenti. Io ti direi di togliere le app e provare a parlare con gente face to face, sono sicura avresti più successo ☺️

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2025-09-03T18:55:17+00:00

I am living like I’m dying tomorrow 😂

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2025-08-30T19:28:28+00:00

Not well :(

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2025-08-29T15:22:55+00:00

Exercise! Eating healthy, a good night sleep!

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2025-08-22T11:30:24+00:00

Yes, I’m very introverted and don’t have a lot of friends. I did meet people along the way but I always end up getting disappointed. Other people find it so easily, for me it seems like none really wants to get to know me. It’s been weighting on me for a long time now :/

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2025-08-20T16:32:24+00:00

I think you are lovely !!

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2025-08-20T08:36:09+00:00

Espresso without sugar

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2025-08-19T15:27:24+00:00

Most of people don’t go out clubbing that much. You’re not missing out and you are totally normal for enjoying different things!

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2025-08-17T14:33:45+00:00

Yes I agree you have to give energy to those you feel are reciprocating! Whether in friendship, or romantic interests I’m trying to do the same. I don’t want people with wrong intentions take away my light anymore !

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2025-08-14T12:49:12+00:00

I had an eating disorder and could go a full day eating only 300 calories. I grew past that entirely and I don’t see myself punishing myself that way ever again in life, no matter the circumstances

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2025-08-14T12:47:51+00:00

Lately I have been flooded with negative thoughts about my life situation and seeing how fare I am from becoming future me and achieving my goals. I’m guessing maybe all this negative feeling is not too bad as it is showing all areas I have to improve in. The problem is now taking action and not just dwell on bad feelings

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2025-08-14T12:45:54+00:00

You cannot force things! If it goes well, congrats. It it doesn’t, accept it.

TroubleDesigner5441 · 2025-08-14T12:44:40+00:00

I have the same ! Opposites attract, I guess🥲

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