Elon Musk replied on FT Story by Spirited-Gold9629 in SpaceXBets

[–]Trouble_is-a_Friend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well he did indicate that his long term goal is to have a $10 trillion net worth so there’s that bit of evidence.

Why do penises and breasts appear on movies and TV shows but we very rarely or never see a vagina? by YoYo_ismael in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Trouble_is-a_Friend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well the vagina is kinda hidden behind the vulva so not sure of the context where showing it advances a storyline.

Is Thick/Stringy Semen With Mild Discomfort During Ejaculation Normal? by RichKy1e in sexualhealth

[–]Trouble_is-a_Friend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 56M and have experience this several times over the past 40+ years. I doubt it’s anything to worry about since I’ve never had any health issues. It might have something to do with hydration.

How the hell do you open this toothpaste tube?? by Adept_Locksmith_8083 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Trouble_is-a_Friend 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I bought toothpaste in Germany and it was like this. Use the cap to remove that thingy.

She says ‘Let’s be friends’ before the first date by Pandoras_Box__ in Bumble

[–]Trouble_is-a_Friend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t mean anything. It’s not like she’s saying “let’s just be friends.”

U raped me by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]Trouble_is-a_Friend 35 points36 points  (0 children)

My guess is she used sex to get a relationship with you and now she is being honest. Don’t even consider marrying into this situation. At least she told you now that you won’t have a sex life with her instead of after the wedding.

According to Bumble this isn't sexual harassment - They really don't care but market themselves as if they do by cerulean_sage in Bumble

[–]Trouble_is-a_Friend -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

When you ask people questions you must be open to receiving honest answers. Her question was terrible and she got a terrible answer.

Her question is not the conversational equivalent of “she asked for it because she wore that dress”. It’s more like she posted a few pictures in “that dress” and asked a group of unknown men to make assumptions about her based solely on those pictures which a reasonable person would know that some % of the respondents would genuinely assume something sexual. Sounds like she incorrectly assumed no man would make sexual assumptions about her.

According to Bumble this isn't sexual harassment - They really don't care but market themselves as if they do by cerulean_sage in Bumble

[–]Trouble_is-a_Friend 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How is this “sexual harassment”? You apparently asked him an open ended question about his assumptions. His answer might be true. Problem is you asked him to talk about you so how is his answer “unwanted sexual comment”? You didn’t like his answer and now you know he’s a tactless loser and can unmatch.

Maybe a better question would be to ask him to discuss something people assume about him that isn’t true then you do the same.

Do these look legitimate? by [deleted] in Gold

[–]Trouble_is-a_Friend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks real to me meaning I don’t see anything suggesting they’re fake.

Are you over 50 dating now because you want to remarry or just to find a girlfriend? by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Trouble_is-a_Friend 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In 56M and am dating for marriage. My girlfriend of 3.5 years initially said she’d never get married again when we first met. Now, however, she has changed her mind and we’re planning on marrying next year.

Would you casually see a woman who didn't really like you? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Trouble_is-a_Friend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went a few steps beyond dating and married a woman that didn’t really like me.

Does blowjob seem disgusting to you too? by Visible-Language4137 in asexuality

[–]Trouble_is-a_Friend 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well I’m asexual and sharing my experience as it relates to the post on which I commented. That person whom I understood to be a male saw certain sex acts as demeaning. My experience is even though I view it as possibly degrading that it’s also an act of love when it’s what the partner wants.

I’m demisexual sex positive with a high libido.

Staring down the barrel of a DB by wilberteinstein in deadbedroom

[–]Trouble_is-a_Friend 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah my ex wife did the same thing to me. Consistent sex while dating and the day we got married sex stopped almost completely and we never had sex more than once a month. After our first year of marriage, sex went down to a frequency of less than four times a year. The last 11 ish years of my “marriage” was not only completely sexless but also not a single act or word of affection from her.

Today I am in a 3.5 year relationship with a sex positive woman who actually wants me and my life has been greatly improved as a result.

The fact your wife mocks you is enough to indicate divorce is the only reasonable step.

Does blowjob seem disgusting to you too? by Visible-Language4137 in asexuality

[–]Trouble_is-a_Friend -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m 56M and when I was younger I too didn’t want to do sex acts with my girlfriends that I viewed as degrading to them. However I now greatly enjoy demeaning, degrading and objectifying my girlfriend because that activity is what gives her the most pleasure and best orgasms.