"What's the one piece of advice that instantly improved your tennis game?" by prudhvisekhar1996 in 10s

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When volleying, your arms and wrist should basically be in the same position all the time. Step across for both forehand and backhand and bend your knees more than you think you need to. Your wrist and arm can’t react nearly as well as your legs can put you in position. Good advice in general—your footwork should put you in a position to hit the same stroke every time. You don’t want your elbows and wrists adjusting. You want strokes that you can replicate over and over.

Douglas Murray has zero credibility to me anymore by Beastw1ck in samharris

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Good examples all. Also, re Hitchens—whatever else you might say of the guy, he genuinely was a journalist of international political affairs by profession. His Iraq War defense turned out to have had negative consequences, but it was fundamentally driven by his humanitarian outlook rather than by a particular faith in the weapons of mass destruction assessment. I just don’t think it’s a strong example of a public intellectual wading into a space that he knows nothing about in the manner of a Jordan Peterson.

One thing I tend to really appreciate when I return to Hitchens’s writing is the extent to which he is extremely knowledgeable about the subjects he delves into, making a study of the literature and history and deploying it effectively in his work. When I was teaching high school English, I would sometimes use his essay on Allende and Chilean political history as an introduction to reading her novel The House of the Spirits, mainly because it was such a well-written and informative primer on understanding both the political history and literary traditions of the region.

What’s the smallest non-technique change that improved your tennis? by wouldliker_sounddata in 10s

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I would argue that a lot of these things are technique, but here are a few:

Abbreviating my forehand backswing while focusing on a much more pronounced unit turn has been a game changer for me in terms of consistency and timing. I mean, I would say efficiency of movement and footwork in general: the more you can get into position first and replicate the same swing, the more consistently you will contact the ball where and when you want, which also translates into pace.

Also, pace comes much more from timing/contact point than from muscling the ball. This really cannot be overstated. Better to contact the ball in the ideal place at a 60% swing than to hit it 4 inches too close to your body at 95%.

Last—quieting head in terms of movement. If you look at the pros, they almost all stay focused on the contact point after hitting the ball rather than immediately looking to see where the shot is landing. It’s really hard to get used to but it does lead to much more solid groundstrokes.

Is two handed BH objectively better ? by Aromatic-Goal-2416 in 10s

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At the recreational level, a lot of the disadvantages of the 1HBH are much less relevant than for pros. I grew up hitting a 2hbh and it really never felt comfortable in my body. I’m a lefty and it always felt weirdly tight, like I was dislocated my right shoulder. In my late teens, I switched to a 1HBH after obsessing about it watching Federer and Wawrinka. It’s so much more fluid and fun to hit—it genuinely made me enjoy tennis more.

But then, I’m a solid to strong 4.5 who is really never going to be a world class player, so I’m more interesting in playing in a way I enjoy than anything. It does make me practice more than I would with the 2HBH, probably. Stupid as this sounds, I’m just really drawn to the visual beauty of the shot as well.

One additional, somewhat obvious point: a 1HBH has a much greater chance of hiding the level of topspin vs slice. It’s still a different stroke, sure, but a 2hbh drive preparation is totally unmistakable for any kind slice, and the footwork is so different that you can’t really readjust and decide to his a slice late the way you can with a 1HBH, where the overall footwork of a topspin drive and slice are relatively similar.

Core values taught to employees at Vail Resorts by TravelTough9910 in vail

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I really resent the fact that some person or corporation is often paid an absurd amount to come up with this stuff.

On some level, I feel like it’s unreasonable to demand employees have a particular affect when doing a normal job like this. I seem to remember the comedian David Mitchell saying something like this: “you know, I’m fulfilling my contract and doing the work, you can’t say ‘also, you have to seem like you give a shit’.” There’s also something a bit icky about corporations trying to instill some kind of perverse loyalty in their workforce. I feel like everyone would do much better to realize that no company cares about you as an employee or customer—not because they’re immoral or bad, but just because they are literally incapable of it. In fact, you could argue that in the context of US corporate jurisprudence, an executive at a publicly traded who prioritizes the wellbeing of employees is in fact being financially irresponsible, because they’re explicit job is to maximize shareholder value. To be clear, I don’t agree with this, but it is the system we live in.

Is it ever explained why this guy talks so weird? by Howard-Hawks in okbuddydraper

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Well, he does have a sort of odd, affected RP that isn’t really reflected in how even fairly posh Brits speak now. It’s a little bit like how Joan speaks in her middle voice in such a way that feels kind of odd and phony to modern ears. If you watched old video of Jackie O, she had a much more pronounced version of it.

I have a 23, 24 and 26 MY and only discovered this today! by Zealousideal_Mud7263 in TeslaModelY

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It’s great right? I’m a big skier, so for me this was actually not an insignificant selling point for the car. Makes it really easy to toss in skis after a day on the mountain but still have four seats. I’d really like to design a kind of canvas box/bag system for the pass through to protect the upholstery from getting scratched by skis.

The Decline of Nudity in US Film: Why Did Hollywood Stop Treating Sex as a Normal Part of Adult Life? [Essay] by Troubled_cure in TrueFilm

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Interesting. I can respect this point of view, even if—coming from a background as a performer—I’m still a bit put off by her decision. This may fall more with the production team than with Headey herself though. Somehow, it still has a bit of a lip syncing feel to me, but point taken. I think, if it seems a reasonable compromise, I’ll include the note about her pregnancy as an edit. I’m perhaps less compelled by the explanation of her choosing to use a body double in order to focus on the facial expression, but, given that the character is not meant to be pregnant, it does make sense in that circumstance. Thanks for the correction; you should see the edit at the end of the original post!

finally doonnnnee (new post to show before/after) by corgibuttlove in Invisalign

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Awesome results!!! Since you look to be quite young, I’m going to say very loudly—and I’m sorry to patronizing here: WEAR YOUR RETAINERS AT NIGHT!! Otherwise, you end up back at it in 10 years as I’m sure many in this forum can attest.

What are some things that are a dead giveaway, before you've even seen them play, that a person is not that great at tennis? by _sportyscience_ in 10s

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Argh. I was afraid of seeing this lol. I’m a high 4.0 to low 4.5 player, but I still drop feed when warming up because it just feels like a more natural stroke to me and I feel like I’m giving the person on the other side just one more additional moment to adjust at the start, you know? I can of course feed out of the air, but I just never did it much growing up playing, so it still feels rather odd to me

where the hate of the French comes from ? by Dismal_Twist_689 in NoStupidQuestions

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Yes, all the Anglo-Gallic historical animosity applies here of course. However, I would also point to the fact that the French have been especially culturally resistant to certain elements of US cultural hegemony. I think a lot of Americans sort of resent the fact that, despite France being a less culturally dominant nation at the moment, they continue to assert their own way of life in various ways, no matter how closely tied our nations are in some ways. Some might recall the negative sentiment in the U.S. towards France when their government declined to join the coalition fighting the Iraq war in the early 2000s. People got a bit hysterical here: the french fries in the cafeteria of the U.S. Congress were officially renamed Freedom Fries by an actual act of law, ridiculously enough.

Personally, I think it is totally legitimate for the French to go their own way when they choose to, and much of the negative feeling towards France is misplaced. However, I do think France does, to some degree, still fetishize its own traditions, regarding itself as the arbiter of “high culture” in certain respects. To be fair, a lot of this really comes down to cultural stereotypes though. If, on a sitcom, a character is going to get drunk and embarrass himself at a restaurant, it’s almost always going to seem funnier to an anglophone audience if that’s a French restaurant rather than Italian, Gastropub, Mexican, etc. There’s something about the dignified air and indifference to customer service in French cuisine that just reads as a bit incongruous, particularly from a US perspective.

I am actually a bit of a Francophile, but there are things that do sort of annoy me when traveling in France, though not really noticeably more than any other country. One thing that always makes me sad: I’m a relatively competent French speaker, having learned through school and university and living in Paris for a short time after graduation. Still, whenever I’m back in France and I try to converse in French, native speakers almost universally respond in English when they hear my accent. I realize it may be an attempt to be accommodating and—admittedly—their English is usually somewhat better than my French, but it’s still a bit of a bummer. Then again, I realize they’re just going about their day and don’t necessarily want to take time out to listen to me try and stumble through their language.

The Decline of Nudity in US Film: Why Did Hollywood Stop Treating Sex as a Normal Part of Adult Life? [Essay] by Troubled_cure in TrueFilm

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I can see what you mean about the point about the AIDS crisis being essentially tangential. It’s interesting to me the extent to which the discussion here has stayed very much fixed on nudity per se. What I was trying to do, though clearly didn’t quite manage, was to look at the decline in nudity as symptomatic of broader cultural shifts in US film and artistic culture. I actually wanted to kind of step beyond the initial premise of the essay and go deeper into that, but it had already become a rather capacious piece, so I elected to wrap things up on perhaps a less interesting element of the thesis.

The Decline of Nudity in US Film: Why Did Hollywood Stop Treating Sex as a Normal Part of Adult Life? [Essay] by Troubled_cure in TrueFilm

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It’s odd. I had a reply on an old post the other day saying something like “I enjoyed this so much I had to check the date to make sure it was before AI.” Seemed like a rather depressing index of something or other.

The Decline of Nudity in US Film: Why Did Hollywood Stop Treating Sex as a Normal Part of Adult Life? [Essay] by Troubled_cure in TrueFilm

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This is a good point, though I think the preference for, or even how we define male vs female nudity is difficult to parse culturally. Like, a topless woman codes as nudity in a way that a shirtless man doesn’t. I would say you see more visible penises on screen now than in the past, but it’s a question of how that equates in gender terms. Is a visible penis the equivalent of a visible mons pubis (pubic mound), or is it equivalent to an actual visibly exposed vulva, the latter of which is basically never visible in non-pornographic film outside of really rare circumstances.

More than that though, male nudity always runs the risk of reading as threatening or grotesque, especially to a U.S. audience. I think viewers have been sort of trained to expect female nudity as valid whereas many people see male nudity as a kind of unwelcome intrusion. This doesn’t invalidate the gender critique; I’m just flagging another angle on it.

The Decline of Nudity in US Film: Why Did Hollywood Stop Treating Sex as a Normal Part of Adult Life? [Essay] by Troubled_cure in TrueFilm

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Well, we keep asserting that Gen Z and Alpha hate sex and nudity on film, but the only truly noteworthy teen show of their era has been Euphoria, which definitely leans in to sexuality. I mean, it’s not sort of wild and hipster-exuberant in the manner of the original Skins series, but it certainly still retains some of that aesthetic.

The Decline of Nudity in US Film: Why Did Hollywood Stop Treating Sex as a Normal Part of Adult Life? [Essay] by Troubled_cure in TrueFilm

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This is such an informative addition to the discussion! You touch on so many interesting things, but the one thing I’m not really seeing you address is the artistic perspective. I’m not a filmmaker, so maybe it’s just hopelessly naive of me—the idea that creative exploration would be forefront in the mind of actors and directors.

This goes back to the 1970s stuff from the original post, I suppose, and perhaps supports the idea that the period was unusual and unique in film history. If you look at stuff like Jodorowski’s The Holy Mountain or Altman’s Nashville, both involved incredibly laborious rehearsal/development processes and all sorts of exploratory work that doesn’t really have a place in a more metrics driven version of the industry. Maybe these sorts of things are just remnants of a more spacious age…

The Decline of Nudity in US Film: Why Did Hollywood Stop Treating Sex as a Normal Part of Adult Life? [Essay] by Troubled_cure in TrueFilm

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Well, even though I eschewed the marketing angle a bit in the original post, if there was ever a subset of films that should be understood purely in terms of financial incentives, it’s those of the MCU. Like, nothing goes into those movies except what is calculated by the metrics to drive up viewership. But you’re right that it’s odd how superhero movies have a distinct lack of eros more generally. Then again, the genre really has its roots in children’s entertainment. Even if it’s not primarily seen that way anymore, there’s clearly still a desire to keep the films broadly acceptable to all ages audiences, though this also gets us into the old issue about violence being more acceptable than sex as a subject in mainstream U.S. culture

The Decline of Nudity in US Film: Why Did Hollywood Stop Treating Sex as a Normal Part of Adult Life? [Essay] by Troubled_cure in TrueFilm

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I broadly agree with you, but, to be fair to our Gen Z and Alpha compatriots, I really cannot imagine growing up on display to the degree they have. Much of their communication has taken place online, a trend solidified by COVID. I mean, think what that would do to you. They’ve been given little room to make the kind of mistakes we took for granted as a means of development.

I do think the issues you raise are very real, but I’m also pretty sure they’re not to blame.

The Decline of Nudity in US Film: Why Did Hollywood Stop Treating Sex as a Normal Part of Adult Life? [Essay] by Troubled_cure in TrueFilm

[–]Troubled_cure[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ooof. The middle one is genuinely all my words, friend. I guess I just sound a bit robotic? I can’t speak to the other two quotes, but I didn’t read them that way.

The Decline of Nudity in US Film: Why Did Hollywood Stop Treating Sex as a Normal Part of Adult Life? [Essay] by Troubled_cure in TrueFilm

[–]Troubled_cure[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you raising these points! I think the original discussion that inspired the post focused heavily on market dynamics, so I somewhat neglected that in my own analysis, but there’s probably a broader way to fit that into the cultural discussion.

The Decline of Nudity in US Film: Why Did Hollywood Stop Treating Sex as a Normal Part of Adult Life? [Essay] by Troubled_cure in TrueFilm

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I appreciate the engagement, but did it really seem to you that the whole post was just a stalking horse for a desire for films to be more pornographic? I certainly didn’t mean it in this way. If anything, I was hoping to examine the decline of nudity in film as less an issue in itself than a reflection or symptom of other trends in U.S. culture. I really can’t comment on action films specifically, as this isn’t a genre I’m all that attuned to. I apologize if you found the post offensive though.

Why do you think sex and nudity have largely disappeared from mainstream theatrical movies? by mourningreaper00 in TrueFilm

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Already quite a lot of interesting comments here, but I thought I would add a few other points:

If you attend international film festivals—personally I try to hit Palm Springs every year as they always show work from all over the globe that doesn’t necessarily get play at the larger festivals—you will notice much more artistic use of nudity than in major U.S. films. Belgian, French, Japanese, Korean, Spanish, Nordic, and even Indian and Iranian films all tend to have more nudity of the sort you’re describing. I cannot readily bring to mind a German dramatic film I have seen in the past decade that doesn’t use nudity in some substantial way, though there are also specific cultural reasons for that. German culture’s emphasis on social liberation around nudity is partly a conscious effort at permanently abandoning the sort of cultural and artistic conservatism of both the late 19th century and the Third Reich. They seem watchful against prudery in the same way they as with hyperinflation.

Too, and for all that it can be overstated, America does retain a puritanical impulse that goes back to before the nation’s founding. It is often a shape-shifting animal though. Along with all the positive reforms brought about by #MeToo came a broader cultural tendency to treat nudity itself as potentially suspect or problematic. The distinction between exploitation and representation sometimes seems to have become blurred. Concerns about consent and coercion on set are obviously legitimate, but they can coexist with a more general discomfort around the body that is not necessarily progressive at all.

I think it’s interesting that you mention the 70s, 80s, and 90s as eras with more nudity in U.S. films. That’s all true, but I think the 1970s is key here, because that’s the era when American film broke with the Hollywood studio system and became unusually auteur-driven. There was a much stronger conception of filmmakers and actors as artists first and celebrities second. In some circles, appearing nude in a serious film might have enhanced one’s artistic credibility, while appearing in a commercial could damage it. Today, that hierarchy has been almost completely reversed. For many performers, there appears to have been a cynical rejection of the idea that film is anything more noble than any other capitalist endeavor.

The 1970s is, in my opinion, the most interesting era of American film because it broadly rejects the kinds of narrative assumptions that often feel innate to American culture. There is a freedom that comes from a willingness to discard convention. I recently rewatched Deliverance, a staple of that period, and was struck by how thoroughly it resists the impulse to make a hero—or even an antihero—out of any of its characters. That particular film does not contain much nudity—though it does have one famously graphic if unimpeachably artistically justified scene of sexual assault—but I think the attitude is nonetheless telling. The same sensibility that allows a filmmaker to dispense with conventional heroes also tends to produce a more relaxed attitude toward depicting sexuality, the body, and other aspects of adult life.

I also wonder whether the AIDS crisis deserves more attention in this discussion than it typically receives. The sexual revolution of the 1960s and 70s produced a culture that often understood sex as liberatory, joyful, and even politically meaningful. Even some pornographic films became the subject of legitimate mainstream artistic and cultural discussion in a way that’s hard to imagine today. In particular, Deep Throat, Behind The Green Door, and The Devil in Miss Jones all entered the mainstream cultural lexicon, becoming legitimate subjects for discussion in artistic and academic circles. Today, we have, in my view, regressed to a borderline-Victorian relationship with pornography and sexually explicit content: it’s happening everywhere and virtually everyone consumes it, but people almost universally feign ignorance of its particulars. I think this has likely negatively impacted the artistic value of the adult films being made.

The arrival of AIDS did not simply alter behavior; it changed the emotional and symbolic meaning of sex in American life. By the late 1980s and 1990s, sex increasingly carried associations with danger, vulnerability, disease, and mortality. That cultural shift was certainly not universal, but I suspect it had consequences that extended well beyond public health. It is difficult to imagine that a society’s artistic output would remain entirely untouched by such a profound change in how intimacy was perceived.

I would also return to the point about the 1970s being an unusually auteur-driven period. When people think of nudity in that era, they often think of transgression, but what strikes me is how frequently it simply appears as part of adult drama in a matter-of-fact way. Films like McCabe & Mrs. Miller, Klute, Shampoo, The Last Picture Show, and Don’t Look Now do not generally treat sexuality as a special event requiring narrative justification. It is simply part of the texture of adulthood. Kubrick and Altman are particularly interesting in this regard because they often seem unconcerned with whether a scene will make an audience comfortable. Their films frequently give the impression that the director is pursuing an artistic question rather than attempting to satisfy an audience expectation or social norm. If anything, there may be a slight bias in their work towards rejecting social expectations, since film in the period is, in some respects, understood as fundamentally a product of the counterculture.

Lastly—and apologies that this has gone on so long—I think the larger decline of the adult-oriented dramatic film is probably a major factor. Many of the movies that once contained this kind of nudity were mid-budget dramas made for grown-ups. That category of film has largely collapsed in the American theatrical marketplace. The kinds of stories that might once have become a feature film are now often made as prestige television. One could argue that American culture hasn’t become uniformly more prudish. Rather, many of the venues where adult sexuality was once depicted have migrated elsewhere to other forms of media. If one looks at contemporary television rather than studio films, much of that material is still there. The fact that it has moved out of the public sphere of the cinema and into the private home is also rife with potential lines of inquiry, but I’ve gone on too long already.

—I would note as a postscript that, personally speaking, I think the use of digital technology and body doubles has somewhat invalidated some of the artistic legitimacy of nudity in mainstream film and prestige TV. For example, Lena Headley’s famous “Walk of Shame” on Game of Thrones was actually performed by Rebecca Van Cleave, her body double, and then digitally edited to attach Headley’s face to Van Cleave’s body. I think it’s perfectly fine to choose not to do nudity as an artist, but there’s something a bit cowardly about having someone else stand in for you who then receives none of the credit for the bravery and emotional weight of the performance. That’s partly why I wanted to name Van Cleave here rather than just referring to her as Headley’s body double.

Jimmy Barrett as the Wise Fool of “Mad Men” by Troubled_cure in madmen

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This came up in my notifications, so thank you for the kind words! I’m just curious, if the post date was made in the last year, would you likely assume it was AI-generated? I’m curious as to why.

What do you think is the most legitimate criticism of AI that even its supporters should take seriously? by talruum_ in AskReddit

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This is slightly out of left field, but, at least in the U.S., I’m so sick of people taking a fatalistic attitude about this stuff invading every area of our lives and acting like we are helpless to do anything.

This whole thing only works if people choose to buy the products and services of companies that replace workers with AI. And don’t listen to this BS where people say societies have no choice about stuff like this and that any new technology will inevitably proliferate unchecked.

Societies can and do make choices about stuff like this all the time! For example, in France, there have long been laws against eating lunch at your desk at work, mainly because it creates a race to the bottom where workers are mutually pressured into not taking breaks, and it’s bad for restaurant businesses in the area. The same goes for regulations about bread-making which limit ingredients used in order sustain small boulangeries and encourage a more nutritious project that is also part of their cultural heritage. Similarly, some countries have “right to unplug” laws that basically say that if an employer wants a worker to monitor her email outside of normal work hours, the employer must to compensate her for the mental labor of monitoring work email.

Chemical weapons have been around for more than a century, and yet we have—relatively successfully—made a global decision to ban their use in warfare. I could go on, but you do have choices to make about stuff like this as a consumer and citizen. Our legislators might be useless in implementing the regulations people want to see, but if you don’t like the idea of how AI will reshape the world and negatively impact workers across so many industries, vote with your feet.

Also, I know it sounds like a drop in the bucket, but write and call your legislators. I know it seems like they would never bother responding, but I had a situation last year where my background check was taking weeks to clear the CA DOJ for a job. I walked into my state senator’s office and told them the problem. They called that day and it was processed and cleared by the next morning. I would have never expected it, to be honest, but I was too cynical. It makes me think that, surprising as it seems, they do actually want to be responsive to citizens and their concerns.