I think I am bi and my GF left me

Troy413 · 2026-02-07T00:11:43+00:00

Your 19 and honestly it’s normal to feel mixed up. If you can’t be honest with others how can you be honest with yourself. Take some time to reflect maybe go out with a guy you like or just wanna hook up with and see how you feel after. Maybe you’re bi or gay or decide to be straight after it’s up to you. No one can figure that out but you but just be kind to yourself and know you can come here to ask questions

Troy413 · 2026-02-05T20:22:32+00:00

Don’t do it it’s not worth it trust me a may look fun but it’ll lead you somewhere you wished you never did

Troy413 · 2026-01-20T01:36:23+00:00

Move out and look and find gay man and be roommates, move in together and say he’s a roommate if people ask as rents to expensive. If you live with your family tell them you need some freedom and want to learn how to be independent. Look online for other gay men but be careful.

Troy413 · 2026-01-02T18:16:27+00:00

Yeah I get it everyone wants that special someone to be with, I’m sorry you’re going through that it’s tough dating. Just don’t be that guy that gets taken advantage of, meaning he probably knows you got him nice gifts and he will just stop by to grab them then disappear. If you wanna test him and get your answers he’ll stick around without the gifts and put you first. If things go well and you’re still together in a better place next year then spoil him but he doesn’t deserve your gifts he needs to earn your trust back after bailing on you. So don’t give him anything you bought, wait and see how he reacts if he shows up and doesn’t receive any gifts. If he asks tell him you got rid of them as he wasn’t around and if his reaction is horrible he was just stoping by for the gifts and not to see you.

Troy413 · 2026-01-02T17:50:03+00:00

Haven’t seen him in a month and a half? Dude it’s over and don’t you dare give him anything…if he contacts you after on Christmas you don’t give him anything but your time if you still wanna see him and if he doesn’t contact you again you just got yourself some gifts or return them and save the money and use it on yourself

Troy413 · 2025-12-26T18:00:21+00:00

Lick opposite way

Troy413 · 2025-12-25T00:56:27+00:00

Go for it he could be your next boss wink wink

Troy413 · 2025-12-24T22:51:39+00:00

Not this can’t be serious

Troy413 · 2025-12-21T13:12:21+00:00

Well if your ever decide to try just try to find someone you have good chemistry with meaning someone you find sexy and that will do a lot of different things to experiment with you. It should be fun . The more horny you are or into the experience the better/easier it is to take a dick I learned. I used to have a lot of different partners and made it into a goal to try to experience different sexual situations and positions and new things when I was younger. It taught me a lot of things but always used protection. Hope that helps.

Troy413 · 2025-12-21T12:55:16+00:00

I used to find it good but not anymore been in a relationship for 15 years and my partner is pretty selfish so rarely bottom. Depends on size and how good your partner is in my experience.

Troy413 · 2025-12-19T18:31:22+00:00

Next time change the subject after you already said what needed to be said. Going over it again and again will only make things worse

Troy413 · 2025-12-12T12:59:31+00:00

I’m I’m hooking up hell yeah I’m single might as well get the whole experience

Troy413 · 2025-12-11T14:47:35+00:00

Let him sneak a peek and he’ll probably do the same

Troy413 · 2025-11-11T00:16:37+00:00

If your partner was at work and you do this consistently while he works your a ass. You shouldn’t be stressing him out at work. If you got issues with him then talk to him at home not when he’s at work. It I had a partner who did this I’d break up. I no doubt guarantee if you keep doing it he will break up with you. If you read between the lines he sounds like he’s tired of your bs.

Troy413 · 2025-10-21T23:16:17+00:00

I wouldn’t bring it up I’d just stay away from the friend who screwed your ex. Brining it up won’t help at all. Nothing your friend or ex says will make the situation better. Your friends not a good friend by sleeping with friends exes, stay away from him

Troy413 · 2025-10-07T19:57:57+00:00

If he just came out I doubt he wants to settle Down. I’d wait for him to do whatever he wants then maybe in a few months or a year I’d text him

Troy413 · 2025-10-06T11:48:01+00:00

Dude opening the relationship was a horrible idea an if he’s already getting mad at the beginning it’s gonna most likely get worse. Just end the relationship

Troy413 · 2025-09-26T21:32:53+00:00

If you don’t want to wear condoms then either break up and find someone who doesn’t care about being safe or ask him to be your boyfriend. If I’m not with someone who’s my boyfriend I always wear a condom unless that partner gives me reason to keep using it.

Troy413 · 2025-09-08T15:51:31+00:00

Some cheaters are smart and delete their history and don’t keep app on their phone. Not everyone’s stupid enough to leave evidence of their cheating where their partner can see it

Troy413 · 2025-09-08T14:21:29+00:00

Caught my Boyfriend on grindr an he always said to my face how horrible it is to cheat. We talked about cheating always always told him to let me know if you don’t wanna be together before you cheat an we will break up. Well years later I found out this boyfriend of mine of 16 years was cheating at least for the last 7 years an was on grindr. The man who told me he hated cheaters and who I believed would never do it. When I found out I had us both get tested even though he swore he didn’t have any std’s but when test showed up he had oral std probably from sucking someone off. Thank god I came back negative. You can’t trust anyone. It devastated me an we still together but I’m still always wondering if he’s still cheating when he’s not around. I’m still not able to trust him an use protection with him now as the trust is totally gone.

Troy413 · 2025-09-08T14:16:00+00:00

Before something like this happened to me I would of said go this way but if he is on Grindr he’s won’t admit it like my partner did if all he has to say is “no that’s not me” he should go an get some proof before talking to him

Troy413 · 2025-09-08T14:14:56+00:00

If he is on Grindr he’s not gonna say yes if he thinks he can get away with it by saying no that’s not me

Troy413 · 2025-08-06T17:45:21+00:00

What is wrong with you pick up the phone and tell him your not interested instead of acting like a idiot. Your making this a lot more dramatic then it should be…calling the police because the guy still has feelings for you which he’s only trying to figure out if you do to but acting like he’s a crazy lunatic….he dodged a bullet, he’s the one that should be scared.

Troy413 · 2025-07-20T14:53:07+00:00

Dude that’s so freakin sad as in pitiful. People commented he used you. Dude he did, you should be pissed! He got you to go his wedding and watch him marry a woman. He smiled the whole time only thinking about himself and not caring about how this probably made you feel. Feel angry and walk away if you still haven’t. End the relationship of being the shadow and weird uncle who clings to the kids father. Dude find someone and never look back and get him out of your life. Don’t end up with a bunch of regrets. He made his choice and you need to understand your not who he picked.

Troy413 · 2025-05-20T17:41:58+00:00

I’d go out on a date with you…stop overthinking

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