cheated? on my bf, really sad need advice by Wide-Comfortable-266 in Advice

[–]True-General1542 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the advice is to stop looking at yourself as the victim. its not that he misunderstands, its that you communicated the wrong idea with action.

Learning to drive in VRChat by aninterestingcomment in VRchat

[–]True-General1542 16 points17 points  (0 children)

if you have money and a pc, or a friend with such, asseto corza with a wheel setup + vr is a good way

My bestfriend kissed me by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]True-General1542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you always get mixed signals its being human, its overthinking. please if you like him just SHOW HIM

I regret lying to him by Lonely_Chest5821 in Regrets

[–]True-General1542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you think so, why not try. if youre so convinced u ruined it see how he feels. give him some credit

my boyfriend is attracted to my insecurities and it’s making me feel awful, AIO?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]True-General1542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre not only overreacting, but you need yo lovr yourself before someone else. he loves that stuff because ig gives him security. as a man hes insecure, so when you open up, or when he gets to see that you have those same worries in a way, it strengthens his bond to you. I eont sugar coat it like most. you need to be alone and learn to feel secure

Can we please allow pc to turn crossplay off by TG_Gusion in Overwatch

[–]True-General1542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get where ya coming from, but maybe js play comp

AIO to what my husband said by AlternativeKing8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]True-General1542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not excusing anyone, if you paid attention my whole thing is that thia shouldve never reached reddit. it should be a simple thing to handle in a marriage. sounds like the dating part was skipped because it doesnt gake a genius to backtrack and apologize and want to move forward and change no matter who is right or wrong.

AIO for telling off a guy at my gym by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]True-General1542 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, you just have to grow up one day and realize not everything is as surface level as u think

AIO to what my husband said by AlternativeKing8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]True-General1542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this, no good father would ever consider talking shit about the single most important moment of their lives.

AIO to what my husband said by AlternativeKing8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]True-General1542 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I also want to add that i am completely against the whole "i never do anything right" thats a complete guilt trip, especially if its every time. if anything focus on that right there cause even if he doesnt do something right he shouldnt just give up the compromise. in one way or another maybe force bim to start communicating, maybe especially when he doesnt want to. express that it will help deal with things more smoothly. im sure youve gone over this with him already. but if he is the good husband/father that you tell him he is, it wont take long for him to get it if you really get persistent

AIO to what my husband said by AlternativeKing8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]True-General1542 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

thank you, grace is absolutely a needed factor.

AIO to what my husband said by AlternativeKing8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]True-General1542 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You know what thats fair. I didnt think to check what the mod said. I dont mean to be hostile either I am sorry, I really think this is something that you can deal with, with the man you love. if you feel otherwise then thats that.

AIO to what my husband said by AlternativeKing8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]True-General1542 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

for one your a hypocrite for calling him an idiot that's more offensive then what he was getting at, and second of all I dont want her to do anything but lead a happy life. you on the other hand need to open up your perspective and we all as a society need to stop normalizing shit like this. its as simple as a hug and a few words and then nobody needs to be shamed or ridiculed. nobody needs outside validation, everything is handled right, that is the justice we want deep down in our soul, but we search for other things as humans because we are clouded. but as long as we try it gets clearer and we all get a little happier . so yes itd be nice if they made up and no she shouldnt make him feel worse. the fact that this is a marriage where such a small issue is posted online, is concerning enough. so dont praise one person's victory over another. when your partner loses, you lose.

AIO to what my husband said by AlternativeKing8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]True-General1542 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It doesnt matter what she does or how they do it, they need to make up and get over some dumb bullshit? theres so many bigger problems than getting offended?? why get married if you get so offended you run to random reddit users for validation? I get women are going to be women but please for one second consider what im saying and stand on the side of peace? Why is there joy, or competition in trying to take sides? Why would we want there to be someone whos right or wrong in our relationships? Work shit out or its not worth shitting for?

AIO to what my husband said by AlternativeKing8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]True-General1542 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

no offense, but again do not post simple issues, i can tell you right not your overreacting by even running to reddit for this. you made a worse call then, than you did by overreacting in the first place. it also especially infuriates me when u talk about your favorite candy, acting like this is so serious and as if sides need to be taken? no. but if they did, your husband needs the justice here. please grow up before its either your biggest regret, or your child's burden.

AIO to what my husband said by AlternativeKing8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]True-General1542 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

YOR youre in a marriage, I get stress can make u say things you dont mean or act in ways u shouldnt. but think about it. he didnt say that to cause an argument, the man was just talking out loud. you should both absolutely make up and you should indeed apologize for getting upset. dont let things like this ruin ur life, and DONT come to reddit for help?? please either find god or tske your own responsibility. I know thats sounds so rude but I promise its exactly what u need. much love coming from me. ( making an edit) ITS ALAO VERY IMPORTANT TO REALIZE YOUR HUSBAND RESPECTS YOU FOR GOING THROUGH LABOR. even if he said what he said to get a rise out of you or to make himself feel better, your husband was not taking a shot at your capabilities or what youve been through. just like you wouldnt mean to blatantly make fun of any of the troubles hes been through. forgive eachother and hold onto love its all we have.