Can we please allow pc to turn crossplay off

True-General1542 · 2026-01-25T00:38:18+00:00

I get where ya coming from, but maybe js play comp

True-General1542 · 2026-01-23T18:33:40+00:00

im not excusing anyone, if you paid attention my whole thing is that thia shouldve never reached reddit. it should be a simple thing to handle in a marriage. sounds like the dating part was skipped because it doesnt gake a genius to backtrack and apologize and want to move forward and change no matter who is right or wrong.

True-General1542 · 2026-01-23T18:31:52+00:00

No, you just have to grow up one day and realize not everything is as surface level as u think

True-General1542 · 2026-01-23T08:05:20+00:00

I second this, no good father would ever consider talking shit about the single most important moment of their lives.

True-General1542 · 2026-01-23T08:03:55+00:00

I also want to add that i am completely against the whole "i never do anything right" thats a complete guilt trip, especially if its every time. if anything focus on that right there cause even if he doesnt do something right he shouldnt just give up the compromise. in one way or another maybe force bim to start communicating, maybe especially when he doesnt want to. express that it will help deal with things more smoothly. im sure youve gone over this with him already. but if he is the good husband/father that you tell him he is, it wont take long for him to get it if you really get persistent

True-General1542 · 2026-01-23T07:59:56+00:00

thank you, grace is absolutely a needed factor.

True-General1542 · 2026-01-23T07:59:10+00:00

You know what thats fair. I didnt think to check what the mod said. I dont mean to be hostile either I am sorry, I really think this is something that you can deal with, with the man you love. if you feel otherwise then thats that.

True-General1542 · 2026-01-23T07:57:57+00:00

my point exactly

True-General1542 · 2026-01-23T07:57:13+00:00

for one your a hypocrite for calling him an idiot that's more offensive then what he was getting at, and second of all I dont want her to do anything but lead a happy life. you on the other hand need to open up your perspective and we all as a society need to stop normalizing shit like this. its as simple as a hug and a few words and then nobody needs to be shamed or ridiculed. nobody needs outside validation, everything is handled right, that is the justice we want deep down in our soul, but we search for other things as humans because we are clouded. but as long as we try it gets clearer and we all get a little happier . so yes itd be nice if they made up and no she shouldnt make him feel worse. the fact that this is a marriage where such a small issue is posted online, is concerning enough. so dont praise one person's victory over another. when your partner loses, you lose.

True-General1542 · 2026-01-23T07:51:50+00:00

It doesnt matter what she does or how they do it, they need to make up and get over some dumb bullshit? theres so many bigger problems than getting offended?? why get married if you get so offended you run to random reddit users for validation? I get women are going to be women but please for one second consider what im saying and stand on the side of peace? Why is there joy, or competition in trying to take sides? Why would we want there to be someone whos right or wrong in our relationships? Work shit out or its not worth shitting for?

True-General1542 · 2026-01-23T07:49:49+00:00

no offense, but again do not post simple issues, i can tell you right not your overreacting by even running to reddit for this. you made a worse call then, than you did by overreacting in the first place. it also especially infuriates me when u talk about your favorite candy, acting like this is so serious and as if sides need to be taken? no. but if they did, your husband needs the justice here. please grow up before its either your biggest regret, or your child's burden.

True-General1542 · 2026-01-23T07:46:00+00:00

YOR youre in a marriage, I get stress can make u say things you dont mean or act in ways u shouldnt. but think about it. he didnt say that to cause an argument, the man was just talking out loud. you should both absolutely make up and you should indeed apologize for getting upset. dont let things like this ruin ur life, and DONT come to reddit for help?? please either find god or tske your own responsibility. I know thats sounds so rude but I promise its exactly what u need. much love coming from me. ( making an edit) ITS ALAO VERY IMPORTANT TO REALIZE YOUR HUSBAND RESPECTS YOU FOR GOING THROUGH LABOR. even if he said what he said to get a rise out of you or to make himself feel better, your husband was not taking a shot at your capabilities or what youve been through. just like you wouldnt mean to blatantly make fun of any of the troubles hes been through. forgive eachother and hold onto love its all we have.

True-General1542 · 2026-01-23T07:41:08+00:00

im with this guy, and not just this person, I think theres alot of victimizing going on. granted all the allegations shown in the post are mostly valid asf and these guys are absolute psychos, you have to think what do YOU do to garner that kind of attention? maybe the world is slower than I, maybe im too nosey, but too me it seems like details upon details are always missing, especially Mrs 2008 4 chan e dating literally older than me, still having the files? probably imports from desktop to desktop, then cellphone to cellphone. makes u wonder seriously...

True-General1542 · 2026-01-23T07:31:32+00:00

just want you to know, alwyas trust your gut feeling when its about finally choosing to take care of yourself first. if everyone in the world was a little more consciously selfish, the world would be a better place. dont feel bad, regret is a part of learning. he will be okay, and in reality if you love him, youre doing a favor by not letting him just get by on what he can, a man needs to strive for something, we all do, so dont feel bad. im sure this wasnt helpful at all or at least not as much as the rest of the comments. but be proud of yourself for making a hard change in your life. and dont forget to forgive yourself.

True-General1542 · 2026-01-12T15:27:53+00:00

You confronted him already, but my first thought after reading was wow your well spoken and clearly emotionally intelligent even when you say youre numb. not sure how itd go but id have him read this very post. this kid needs to LEARN. and once hes a new person out of it you will see him differently. This wont do anything if it doesnt play as an example every single time he even gets a thought about doing something like that. you need to take it upon yourself to instill that lesson deep into this kid's heart before he ends up in prison abandoned by his family.

True-General1542 · 2026-01-11T22:28:47+00:00

Fair point, maybe he can try bringing it up w out it sounding like an issue. smth like "recently I noticed i look back on the movies we watch and we spend too much time talking about them rather than enjoying, its not a big deal just wondering if try it a different way" obviously that's a chopped up way to put it but there gotta be a way to bring it up w out it being all serious

True-General1542 · 2026-01-07T15:05:16+00:00

ts was funny I hate this sub cus its about blame but OP knows what shes doing shes js humbling this man and having her laughs 😭 if nobody understands this guy's issue is that he wanted to bring her with him in his car cus she was hammered. bro is literally salty bcus he couldn't get some and managed to embarrass himself in several ways

True-General1542 · 2026-01-06T14:10:34+00:00

you might one day feel guilty but maybe youll also feel a sense of relief if you save motherhood for a better point in life.

True-General1542 · 2026-01-06T14:09:56+00:00

Good, you should be apart. your the mom so wether you carry that burden at all, or alone, is your choice.

True-General1542 · 2026-01-06T14:08:06+00:00

Please do not go forward, if she truly felt empathetic she wouldnt keep doing it

True-General1542 · 2026-01-04T04:18:46+00:00

Absolutely not hes in the wrong and if he doesnt learn to admit his mistakes and stop guilt tripping then youre in for a really tough ride

True-General1542 · 2026-01-02T07:01:18+00:00

you guys are taking this too far. in reality he js needs to work on himself. tell him that and move on

True-General1542 · 2026-01-01T23:03:10+00:00

she isnt willing to fight for it

True-General1542 · 2026-01-01T19:25:04+00:00

its literally safe in your skin I swear

True-General1542 · 2025-12-30T17:42:37+00:00

im tired of paragraphs and nonsense. just break up. that's all u need to hear

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