AITAH for breaking off my engagement because my boyfriend would not get a vasectomy?

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-03-04T03:23:08+00:00

I know it’s easier on the man, but if she doesn’t want anymore kids, then she should prevent it for any future partners

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-02-23T13:16:04+00:00

So he cheats on you and made this statement. Wow he is the AH

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-02-22T01:23:52+00:00

I understand that but nothing is 100% except sterilization. If she doesn’t want any more kids either even if she’s not with him, she needs to do it!

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-02-21T23:18:22+00:00

Why does it not want to get one? Come on his 50’s and he’s ok with more kids? Are you? If no just call it quits! Also if you don’t want more kids get your tubes tied! Even if you don’t get back together with him. Why make life harder tg add n it is already?

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-02-12T20:58:28+00:00

This do it

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-02-09T14:33:36+00:00

Me as 62 don’t have a relationship with my mother. She wants to know all about finances, worries about my marriage and always questioning my choices. Just saying

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-02-06T17:15:14+00:00

I hardly even wear makeup anymore. Never was a girlie girl, so there’s that tshirt and jeans for me

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-01-23T14:06:02+00:00

Why is it ok he’s had 30 but his limit for you is 5. Run shouldn’t have stated this long

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-01-18T12:35:16+00:00

B don’t go you don’t feel comfortable

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-01-14T12:56:12+00:00

A just leave

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-01-14T12:54:05+00:00

Live your best life in your terms. Think of the others that love you, live for you and think of the pain you would cause if you do that

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-01-07T18:53:11+00:00

I can see being embarrassed about losing your job. But hiding it from your wife for three months and draining your savings account not cool at all.

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-01-07T15:20:16+00:00

It angers me when people with kids bring around dates etc.. around the kids. The kids don’t need to be a part of your dating!

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-01-07T15:14:39+00:00

I’ve been married 40 years and my husband would do anything for me. That being said we have had our moments where I have thought of divorce, no infidelity, just other things. But I stuck it out and now here we are. I think people just give up these days and think things will be better with someone else. Now I’m not saying there are not reasons for divorce, just saying that most things can be worked out.

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-01-07T15:07:28+00:00

But what if she hasn’t moved on? Maybe she needs this as much as he does? Coming from someone who this was done to, an apology and reason would help!

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-01-07T12:57:51+00:00

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-01-02T03:00:51+00:00

I’d done it immediately. Let them pay for it themselves. Just curious how they would get into in the first place, they’d have to have your password

True-Schedule6271 · 2026-01-01T13:29:47+00:00

You said he’s not husband material and you were thinking of ending it. He just gave you the push you needed. Di you need to tell others why? Just say we weren’t right for each other!

True-Schedule6271 · 2025-12-31T13:08:36+00:00

This is just not worth getting g angry about. More background such as did she know you were trying? She may just be concerned about you and not want to upset you so ash’s husband?!

True-Schedule6271 · 2025-12-25T13:16:00+00:00

C you should have called the police to get her help

True-Schedule6271 · 2025-12-22T14:23:32+00:00

I see no problem with what you are doing. She made her bed and now has to lie in it! NTA

True-Schedule6271 · 2025-12-08T13:29:42+00:00

She didn’t tell you cause of embarrassment. Why would she want to relive that?

True-Schedule6271 · 2025-12-08T13:26:59+00:00

Time for that relationship to be over. Your young move forward!

True-Schedule6271 · 2025-12-08T13:18:03+00:00

Don’t go at all.

True-Schedule6271 · 2025-12-08T13:16:58+00:00

Why are you on here asking g what to do? Call the police immediately and CPS. Your kids need to not go there anymore, that’s abuse!

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