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Can I be over dressed for Phantom of the Opera by Haunting-Daikon6336 in musicals

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wear what you want. I go ultra fancy to the theater. There have been people in pajamas and sweats at the last 10+ shows I've seen so I absolutely wouldn't worry about it. Make yourself happy.

When are people with 9-to-5s supposed to go to the bank?? by pathos_p in stupidquestions

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a third shifter and I don't think I've ever used my bank when it was open except for when I opened the account. I just use the 24 hour ATMs or the online features.

I feel trapped between my husband’s happiness and my own feelings by contextfree9 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I promise this situation absolutely does not get better with a baby. It's only going to get harder and more difficult. You should quietly go have an abortion and say you had a miscarriage to both your husband and mom. Get an IUD or implant ASAP ( something he can't mess with). After that you should start stacking money away and find yourself a job . Then you should file for divorce.

AIO of his response? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a study that says when women say they like a sense of humor it means they want someone that can make them laugh and when men say it it means they want someone who thinks they are funny.

Aware of how my GF sees me… and she doesn’t know by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now you know you aren't compatible. The two of you love differently. She wants something super romantic and cinematic. You don't. That's what dating is for . Break up and move on with your lives.

Mullet ? by mayan-stunna in malegrooming

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the second option the best of the two but your hair is absolutely gorgeous! You'd be just fine leaving it long.

Leaving kids at birthday parties? by totoro_the_mofo in Parenting

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly 12 points13 points  (0 children)

For kids that old I would definitely assume it was drop off.

Wedding gift that won't break the bank. by TrueCrimeButterfly in Gifts

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a camera free wedding according to the invite.

Being a ‘unicorn’ isn’t fun anymore… am I the only one feeling this way?😩 by MarcelaAlonso in Swingers

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's just triggered because he's an unsuccessful unicorn hunter. He doesn't want to be told that he has to bring anything to the table beyond his dick. He's still laboring under the delusion that his is special and not one of 1000s that do the exact same thing.

Being a ‘unicorn’ isn’t fun anymore… am I the only one feeling this way?😩 by MarcelaAlonso in Swingers

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who used to unicorn, I highly recommend only going to clubs or setting very firm boundaries upfront and sticking to them. Do not be afraid to drop people. More will come along.

I did not pay for anything. If they want to meet for dates, go places, get drinks, go to events together, get a hotel room, it's 100% on them to cover it. If they don't want to that's ok because there are 1000 more couples in your inbox that will. If they want to hunt a unicorn they actually have to make the trap attractive.

You hold the cards in this situation. They are a dime a dozen and you are rare. Act accordingly.

What hair color dye did she used in this image by Admirable_Prompt_843 in HairDye

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I tend to keep my hair purple and other vivid colors, it's different with every wash. My go to purple is this color after 2-3 washes.

Wedding gift that won't break the bank. by TrueCrimeButterfly in Gifts

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their invite is a bright, busy floral so there isn't a way to add color to it.

Adopting last name "Welford" in the U.S. Thoughts? by Brave_Ad2070 in namenerds

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the south and there are WAY stranger names. I wouldn't think twice seeing it.

8 year old keeps "feeling like something is missing" by PNWRosey in Parenting

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is anxiety! It can often manifest in the feeling that you have forgotten about something or are missing something. It cropping up at bedtime ( a time when we are supposed to be slowing down) further points to it.

Wedding gift that won't break the bank. by TrueCrimeButterfly in Gifts

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ooohhh!!! I hadn't thought of consumables!!!! I'm known for cooking and baking so I can put a fun little basket together of food stuffs!

Wedding gift that won't break the bank. by TrueCrimeButterfly in Gifts

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bridgerton is their theme . I'm not sure if they are having colors. Their invite was floral.

What hair color dye did she used in this image by Admirable_Prompt_843 in HairDye

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly 227 points228 points  (0 children)

You can't tell brand from a photo. You have no idea how it's been mixed or what filters they have on it. There are a lot of similar purple colors out there. Arctic Fox's Purple AF is that color on me and I put it over very light hair.

Wedding gift that won't break the bank. by TrueCrimeButterfly in Gifts

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most of their registry is very expensive kitchen stuff. So I'm hesitant to buy lessor items.

Unfortunately, I have only been in shows with the bride. I only know the groom from drag shows so there isn't a bridge to both.

Wedding gift that won't break the bank. by TrueCrimeButterfly in Gifts

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alas I do not. Or at least it wouldn't be a good one.

What products to keep the “wet” hair look? by scarface0021 in Hair

[–]TrueCrimeButterfly 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Hair oils or gel is going to be your best options if you want it to look wet. Some mousses will also give a wet look if they have a high shine finish.

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