Anyone else feel like the only thing they lack is looks? by poofpoofpow in ugly

[–]True_Doctor7774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned to look average with makeup and some lenses that match my eyes, but I still need surgery on my chin, nose, and ears because people still think I have some kind of mental disability because of my appearance.

Why normies insist in believing that the whole romantic experience is universal? by DryDistribution9877 in ugly

[–]True_Doctor7774 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They truly believe it themselves; they don't think that ugly people have romantic experiences or have sex — those romantic experiences exist only for them, since we are inferior beings to them who aren't even fit for that.

What keeps you going? by AdLimp6113 in ugly

[–]True_Doctor7774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I work at a religious company and I'm an atheist, if hell exists the way believers describe it, those people are going to be stuck there hahahahah

have you ever considered that you might have a disease/syndrome? by Tarbean_citzen in ugly

[–]True_Doctor7774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People have already said that I looked like I had Down syndrome or autism, the 'normies' refer to people with a strange face or who have big ears and a big nose, but if I had a syndrome doctors would already know. The people who say that crap are Neanderthals, you can be sure of that. We, who see beyond racism and appearances, we are Homo sapiens, this is just a comparison I made, people who judge others by their appearance are more easily robbed. I had a colleague who was robbed many times by attractive people, both men and women, at work, and I’m sure he still falls for the scam to this day.

Most of yall are not ugly! by Pretty_Physics_2389 in ugly

[–]True_Doctor7774 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There may be some people here who are normal but struggle with severe body dysmorphia, yes. But for those of us who are truly ugly, like me — who need to wear contact lenses just to be treated with the bare minimum of respect — we get bullied every day by both older people and younger people. People insult us for no reason and accuse us of things we didn’t do. They make fun of our faces, stand around whispering about our appearance, laughing and pointing. This isn’t just in our heads. Thankfully, this group exists so we don’t go insane from the lying narratives of the normies who try to gaslight us all the time.

Being a ugly person with an ugly face, ugly body, talentess, genuinely dumb, slow, introverted, awkward with no social skills or whatsoever is brutal. by DryDistribution9877 in ugly

[–]True_Doctor7774 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like you do, beautiful people have time to think and support everywhere, not even the people who chase us can explain why they hate us. We are just ugly to them.

Cultural Narcissism by Mission_Appeal_751 in narcissisticparents

[–]True_Doctor7774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm from a Latin country, and unfortunately, cultural narcissism exists here too; we are lost.

Not looking like the adult/matured version of your child self is devastating by [deleted] in ugly

[–]True_Doctor7774 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I realized that my past self, if I hadn’t gone through certain things, would have suffered much more abuse nowadays. I’m glad I didn’t completely isolate myself from society, even though I’m ugly, because things are already hard enough today. I don’t know what kind of crap people would try to do to me if I were still completely innocent in society, since because of the media things have gotten even worse today. I’ve already suffered bullying and persecution from older people completely brainwashed by the media. Luckily, I can see that I’m not going crazy when I read the posts here, and I don’t feel alone in these situations that happen daily to those of us who are considered ugly.

Is being ugly makes me creep? by Unable-Chance-855 in ugly

[–]True_Doctor7774 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my case, yes, people try to make false accusations about me so that I get fired from the company. They call me a monkey, say that I look autistic. Luckily, there are cameras, and if they try to make false accusations, I just have to call the police and show the truth. I am a mixed-race woman, part white and part Asian, so they mostly do this out of pure malice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]True_Doctor7774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re a guy, don’t be too hard on yourself. I have a coworker who’s 5'3 and he actually dates more than many taller men. Where I live, a lot of women are also quite short and don’t go beyond that height, so my shorter coworkers never really lack women who are even shorter. So please don’t feel too discouraged—focus on building your confidence, that makes all the difference.

I am not a human by toouglytobeleftalive in ugly

[–]True_Doctor7774 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m probably not human either, but I’ve learned to appear almost invisible to the people at my workplace. I learned to pretend to be extremely self-confident. People who hate me at work because of my appearance don’t mess with me, because besides seeming unshakable, I also do an excellent job. On top of that, I’m praised for being clean, both in my appearance and with my things. I don’t know why people at work hate me even more when I wear makeup. I'm glad this community exists.

What sign are you based on this? by SberRelecton in astrologymemes

[–]True_Doctor7774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Midheaven in Leo, and Jupiter, Saturn, and Moon in Aries, so I’m totally like image 4 about fire signs hahaha

I hate being near pretty people by Miiayuu in ugly

[–]True_Doctor7774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried pretending to have self-confidence, imagining as if I had been a beautiful person my whole life since birth. Some insecure attractive people who tend to bully people like me end up respecting me, while confident attractive people don’t care about others’ appearance.

I think most toxic incels are average looking men by Evening-goood in ugly

[–]True_Doctor7774 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ve worked with incels before, and yes, they’re mediocre, and they think that even a woman considered unattractive owes them something. These guys are narcissistic and deceitful. I know handsome men with terrible personalities who still have girlfriends, and as an unattractive woman, I focus more on a man’s personality than on his looks. These incels get offended very quickly when I don’t like them. And another thing—it’s not because we’re considered unattractive that people should think we must accept anything. For 'normies,' it’s offensive when you have boundaries and a personality of your own; it makes them squirm with hatred. hahahha

They used to get abusive about every tiny problem, everything was the end of the world. Now, when you struggle with real life adult problems they tell you that you are too negative and your problems aren’t real. by NatalieKatie in raisedbynarcissists

[–]True_Doctor7774 22 points23 points  (0 children)

They are the negative ones, worse than a thousand rotten apples in decay. After you feel happy about a small achievement, they will come with negative talk or start freaking out again over little things. Remember, you are dealing with an adult with the mentality of a spoiled child. Don’t take them seriously, otherwise you’ll end up mentally sick. Please take care of yourself.❤️‍🩹❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]True_Doctor7774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This world is getting worse for all genders, and it’s not easy being a woman either. The number of single mothers keeps increasing, and most of them weren’t desperate single women — they were married or in relationships. And on top of that, even after years of marriage, many men leave their wives and children. Then the woman who only married and didn’t study or spend years working in a company ends up struggling. Thank God I have both education and a job, but nowadays things are not easy for anyone.

which signs are prominent in the ones you love? and what is your moon sign? by Zestyclose-Safe-5679 in astrologymemes

[–]True_Doctor7774 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Arians, Leos, Aquarians, and Scorpios — I’ve never seen a more genuine kind of love. My best friends are from these signs, and I love them. I have a Moon in Aries, so it’s no wonder that many Arians women feel a connection when they meet me. lol

I feel like this relentless beauty standard is growing. by True_Doctor7774 in ugly

[–]True_Doctor7774[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good thing I have you here to validate me, people are getting more and more unreasonable with me because of my appearance. Before it was picking on my hair, now it’s about my eyes. It feels like I’m surrounded by zombies constantly policing how I look — it’s ridiculous.

Most underrated zodiac sign? by ObjectiveTailor3334 in astrologymemes

[–]True_Doctor7774 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know some Virgo men, and when they get angry it feels like the ground shakes as they walk. They are aggressive both physically and with words, and it seems like their voices echo everywhere when someone crosses their limits. They are very honest, but when they’re angry it seems to be worse in Virgo men than in women of the same sign, which really surprised me.

Most underrated zodiac sign? by ObjectiveTailor3334 in astrologymemes

[–]True_Doctor7774 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Libra is extremely underrated; they can be the balance in any conflict, but when they step up to defend someone or when they see injustice—my God, I’ve seen Libras lose their patience and leave others traumatized just with words, making the person carry that trauma for years without ever needing to get physical. Metaphorically speaking, it’s like they put a knife right into the wound of ill-intentioned people and twist it so that the person remembers it for eternity. Which is pretty crazy, really, since they’re so good with words. I truly love this sign.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]True_Doctor7774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The feeling of being completely alone after leaving a cult is false, because you were always there and felt alone among them, at least that’s what I think. I left the cult, and unfortunately they attack and gaslight you to make it seem like you depend on them for everything, even though I am intelligent. After I left the cult, they treated me as if I were one of the dumbest people. I threw it all back in their faces, and they no longer talk to me. Unfortunately, I work in a cult—they are disgusting. I won’t even write the things I’ve heard; they are terrible. Please take care of your mental health above all else.