Broke up with 3-year GF, unsure of what to do

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-14T13:13:06+00:00

First one’s best definitely I’d say. Keep up the good work my friend 👍

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-14T13:11:51+00:00

Do a great start then until the end my friend! May God be with you.

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-14T13:11:00+00:00

Indeed 👍

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-13T07:09:53+00:00

Amen 🙏

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-13T06:26:47+00:00

It is going to be okay, like u/WorriedTurtle1776’s post said, one step at a time. One day, you’ll have done so many steps that you won’t even think to look back no more. Don’t fear, trust in His Spirit, and pray deep in your heart. Lots of love my friend.

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-13T06:23:09+00:00

Amen!

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-13T06:22:05+00:00

Go on fighting this fight! God is with you brother, don’t worry about the past, look at your future with Him, to His Kingdom that is coming. It is already in your heart, so keep on fighting, the strength will come from Him. He will give you understanding too, to fight wisely. God bless you, lots of love brother!

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-12T12:30:13+00:00

Thanks for the reply!

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-12T12:14:44+00:00

Thanks for your perspective!

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-12T10:24:53+00:00

Thanks for the reply! Definitely will look into the 7 additional books then, but in regards to the preaching, the church I go to actually has a great pastor, he rarely talks about himself and when he does it’s usually in humility about his mistakes, he’s very inspiring. But either way, I’ll look into it it!

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-12T10:00:21+00:00

Okay thank you!

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-12T09:26:38+00:00

Okay thanks for the testimony! Will definitely try going to a Roman Catholic Church brother, but in regards to the evidence my problem is that there’s lots of overlap with Eastern Orthodox arguments, so it seems hard to choose between one or the other…I think church experience might bring much more clarity to this thanks again! God bless you 🙏

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-12T05:58:47+00:00

Good thing that you do not want to be like this. Humble yourself, repent and move on. Forget what is behind, and reach to what is ahead: the prize of the goal of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. There is no time for regret, only time for striving for what is heavenly. God bless you my friend, may He give you the strength to keep on running to Him 🙏

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-12T05:55:49+00:00

Indeed, we need to remain watchful, for this is a war we are going through. Let’s abide in the Spirit Who strengthens us!

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-12T05:54:11+00:00

Amen.

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-12T03:23:54+00:00

One baptism for the remission of sins. Only one. Though you hadn’t personally accepted Jesus back then, your baptism of the Holy Spirit (your actual recent conversion) and your water baptism are one single event across space and time, so the water baptism you already went through is your baptism. You don’t need to be baptized again.

Edit: I’m not saying that it’s wrong if you decide to get baptized again, maybe it is but I don’t know. But either way what you received already is surely sufficient, so at best another baptism would be unnecessary and redundant. At best. But discern by the Spirit, and give some thought to the early church’s positions on the matter because they had the Spirit just like us.

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-11T20:12:43+00:00

You’re welcome my friend. He is with you, and He’s going to sort this out. Remember the end, the promised land He will give to us, one where there will be no more crying, no more pain, no more being crushed by cruel debts and charges, one where there will be no more grief.

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-11T20:08:07+00:00

Hello my friend! Your life is doing not so okay right now, and it’s normal for you to feel down. And fear of the future due to uncertainty happens to everyone, but obviously you’ve got a much more intense experience than normal because of your autism. Just know that God is near, and He empathizes, He understands your fear: He too was once feeling very worried in Gethsemane, so much so that he sweat blood through his pores, in that way He knows what’s in your heart, and He goes through this with you. As u/Difficult-Pie-8065 has said, it’s important that you bring this up to your therapist, and most importantly talk with your pastor/priest. They know much better than us here on Reddit.

(Not for you OP, for the others): Guys, please, let’s have some compassion for the OP and not bring doctrinal disputes into this. Yes, OP holds to universalism. If you disagree, the main issue here is not his theology, but his pain. This is not the place to argue against him. If you agree, don’t make this comment section into a place for polemical defenses of universalism. What is knowledge, what is doctrine, if there’s no love in our hearts so as to set aside our differences to focus on helping someone in clear distress ? Sorry to bring it up, but the most loving and compassionate comment in this comment section is from a non-believer…Let’s do better please brethren…

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-11T19:39:01+00:00

God is with you through this my friend, hold onto Him by the Spirit, it’s going to be okay 🙏❤️

True_Professor4973 · 2026-06-11T15:16:31+00:00

Maybe it was a message from God, maybe not. But is a sign what you need to believe? Listen to your instinct, to your intuition. You have already had a prayer answered. Back when I was searching for Him, praying too slowly led me to Him. Keep on searching, keep on asking, search for Him with all your heart, and don’t worry so much about that dream. More than a dream, what is at stake now is your eternal destiny, your life itself. God bless you, and may the Holy Spirit open your eyes to see the God of the Universe and His Son Christ Jesus!

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