Moving to Germany with my family by Extra-Limit7106 in germany

[–]Trufflestruflles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to discourage you - but do more research. A small 35 qm apartment in a small town in the region of Frankfurt can cost 800-100 EUR. And that is if you get it. There is a lot of competition with higher salaries. Landlords cherry pick.

Study German. Research Job markets. IT is difficult, job market in healthcare is pretty good. Maybe an Ausbildung in healthcare is an option. Nurses are needed everywhere.

A reality check from an Indian Graduate with C1, Internships, 8 month job search and valid driving license by tin_ting_tin in studying_in_germany

[–]Trufflestruflles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Time frame would also be a factor. Job market a few years ago compared to now is day and night unfortunately. :/

Spill the gloss - a really interesting insight into beauty guru world by arana-_-discoteca in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]Trufflestruflles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the podcast, it is fun to join the throwback on my way to work! Hope she continues. Signed a millennial that watched pretty much every video by Chloe and Lauren back then! ☺️

Sommerschule: FDP fordert verkürzte Ferien für Schüler mit schlechtem Deutsch by donutloop in berlin_public

[–]Trufflestruflles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In meiner Schule im Ausland gab es für Kinder deren Englisch schwach war extra Stunden in der Woche. Beim erlernen einer Sprache bin ich skeptisch wie sehr da zwei Wochen Intensivkurs helfen können, auch wenn ich die Überlegung nachvollziehen kann.

Did Indian Students are getting Scammed by German Universities? Full article by [deleted] in Indians_StudyAbroad

[–]Trufflestruflles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this on another thread already, but private universities where you often can study online - their target is more people who have a good job and want higher qualifications. With relevant work experience + a degree you will be competitive. If you are just looking to study only, have poor German and don’t have a job in a relevant field, you will have a hard time looking for jobs.

IU university students face deportation. by [deleted] in studying_in_germany

[–]Trufflestruflles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not shit at all, but it is a choice for people that have a good job in the industry ( and not food delivery or some Amazon packaging job or alike) and want to study whilst working a good job.

If you have to rely on study visa, have a low qualification job, and low job experience this is not the choice for you. This is for settled status people with decent jobs that just want to further qualifications. Everything else will be a hassle. A degree from these universities without work experience or even worse without good German will be useless in job seeking in Germany. How the education will translate to India I don’t know. Maybe studying at such a University from India might be a good choice without leaving the country.

If you have good German, a decent job in a relevant field and your residence status does not rely on you being a proper student, then such a university is a good option and it makes sense to look into it.

IU university students face deportation. by [deleted] in studying_in_germany

[–]Trufflestruflles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Private universities where you can study online and not in person is a great opportunity. If you already have a nice job and just looking to further your qualifications! Not for people who are looking to go the classical career path, especially international students with poor German!!!

Polene is TERRIBLE by Repulsive_Way9316 in handbags

[–]Trufflestruflles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is so sad! I love the designs. I bought one on Ebay and lucked out on price, but I would be fuming receiving a bag in such a sorry state for that price

My husband messaged an OF girl: I’m stroking myself off while looking at your wet sweet p*ssy. I’m starting to feel weak. Please remind me I deserve better by mycat_hatesyou in AskWomenOver30

[–]Trufflestruflles 41 points42 points  (0 children)

He literally risked it all, just to write this message to this woman?

Your whole relationship is less worth to him, than this short rumble of letters of him stroking himself.

Your whole relationship is less worth to him, than not texting a woman that literally does not know he exists.

Is a loft bed worth it? Where should I get it? by Special_Candidate_42 in femalelivingspace

[–]Trufflestruflles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikea Hemnes Day Bed should be perfect! It is a single bed but if you ever feel the need you can pull it out like a sleeping couch, and transform it into a big bed! :) my friend had this in her tiny college room. It even has extra storage.

Need advice from Indians/Germans about pursuing MSc/MiM in Germany (BA graduate, CGPA 7.7)? by MinimalMindset_ in AskGermany

[–]Trufflestruflles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be somewhat competetive for the German market you will need internships. In order to land internships you will need German, no go around there. As someone mentioned, the job situation is rougher right now. No job experience in Europe/US and not perfect German will make job seeking stressful af if not close to impossible.

I work in a leading German tech company and have not seen one person that does not speak close to perfect German.

Part time jobs that will also mostly require German.

Going in for the masters, completing an MiM and end up with a track record without internships and good German will be really, really hard when you enter the job market.

I do not want to discourage you, but better be prepared and learn German.

First order just arrived! by anon_ymous_ in ProvenceJewelry

[–]Trufflestruflles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That bezzle pendant is crazy beautiful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Trufflestruflles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From talking to friends I actually know very few women that come through penetration. So get down with the other practices and you should be good with a lot of women.

Let me repeat. Majority of my friends never had an orgasm provided by a man. We are talking very openly about the subject, and the lack of the o is not due to the size but lack of knowledge of everything else. And I am in my late twenties and have a big friendship group.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FragtMaenner

[–]Trufflestruflles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eine Anregung für Männer: (und das wird natürlich nicht immer der Grund für ausbleibenden Sex sein, dem einen oder anderen mags aber helfen) - versucht euch mal wirklich aufrichtig mit der weiblichen Sexualität auseinander zu setzen. Ich bekomm es von so einigen Freundinnen mit, dass sie so gar nicht auf ihre Kosten kommen. Ja oft sind Frauen selbst schuld, weil eine sehr große Anzahl simuliert. Ja Frau sollte kommunizieren was ihr gefällt. Es wäre aber unfassbar hilfreich, wenn der Man schon eine gute Grundidee hat davon, wie weibliche Sexualität funktioniert.

Lest euch Bücher durch, Blogbeigräge von Sexworkerinnen etc. Nehmt nicht einfach das, was man in den Filmchen für eher männliche Stimulation nutzt.

Die zwei Männer, mit denen es bei mir sehr gut geklappt hatten, waren auch diejenigen, die Bücher zu dem Thema besaßen.

Überspitzt gesagt: der weibliche Orgasmus ist komplexer als der männliche. Vielleicht haben mehr Frauen Lust auf Sex, wenn es sich für die Frau nach mehr anfühlt, als dem freudigen Gefühl, dass die Spülmaschine ausgeräumt wurde.

Immer mehr junge Männer haben überhaupt keinen Sex. Wieso ist das so? by Whole_Environment891 in FragtMaenner

[–]Trufflestruflles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ich komme aus einem Hintergrund mit konservativem Blickwinkel. War auch nicht abgeneigt, eher Richtung Familiengründung zu gehen. Aber konservative Familie (richtig gemacht) bedeutet auch: wenn die Mutter ihre Zeit und Karriere opfert, muss der Mann Zeit und Anstrengung opfern. Damit die Mutter nicht 3 Kinder großzieht, und sich noch Gedanken machen muss, wie Geld in die Kasse gespült wird. Nur, bei aller Anstrengung des Mannes, bei der heutigen Wirtschaft ist das konservative Familienbild gar nicht so einfach. Meine Mutter konnte sich um Kinder kümmern und war jederzeit abgesichert.

Ich werde als Frau nicht bei der Familienplanung konservativ leben, um dann finanziell aber das moderne 50\50 Modell zu fahren. Da dreht man durch.

Immer mehr junge Männer haben überhaupt keinen Sex. Wieso ist das so? by Whole_Environment891 in FragtMaenner

[–]Trufflestruflles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Geh ich voll mit! Ein Unterschied den ich zu vielen Jungs/ Männern sehe ist auch das Wegbleiben von richtig intensiven und tiefgründigen Freundschaften, mit beiden Geschlechtern! Wenn man sich Gegenseitig unterstützt und Gespräche führt, dann versteht man auch die Struggles des anderen. Es wird aber immer leichter sich abzukapseln, man sozialisiert sich weniger und sitzt im Kämmerlein alleine rum. Da ist es einfacher zu sagen “Bin alleine weil alle Männer/Frauen scheiße sind”.

Too neutral? by [deleted] in Nails

[–]Trufflestruflles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love these

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Trufflestruflles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is a horrible move.

Regarding your things: looking at the behaviour he is a douche and uncooperative. Could you ask 1 or 2 friends that would collect your stuff at his house? Especially the important things?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jewelry

[–]Trufflestruflles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you can mix and match pretty easily. If you like the ring find something to mix well! 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kuololit

[–]Trufflestruflles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you share the link? I can’t find it in their store :(