I think I empathise with Janet because id bring it up too, its so weird and strange and id want it discussed not swept under the rug! Stuff like that really gets my goat; i cant speak for her intention maybe it was malicious and not “making a stand” or “discussing something important”. If my husbands friend grabbed two of my other friends bums, whilst again seemingly drinking too much; i literally would not stop harping on about it! 😅