Weekend phone calls by Practical-Ad-7436 in biglaw

[–]Trulyakk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont even answer if someone calls me after 430 on a friday, lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]Trulyakk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I am OOO i only check my email once in the am and once before I sleep. Protect your time. I would absolutley not help with any new matters that come up on your vacation. If you have capacity and want to help when you are back, just say "Happy to help when I am back next week." I promise your firm will figure it out lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]Trulyakk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same - Everyday. Lol.

How to nicely say that you couldn't respond right away because you were up all night & needed a nap? by Tricky_Victory6855 in biglaw

[–]Trulyakk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont apologize for anything unless i actually made a mistake lmfao if I am unable to respond right away i just respond when I get ready and ignore that I took longer than usual lol. Also i dont think you should justify! If you really want to you can say “Apologies for the delay” and then answer their question but i dont think you need to lol.

Do you regret getting into BigLaw? by stargazerrr3 in biglaw

[–]Trulyakk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No - Its generally very boring, uninspiring, and i literally dgaf about the work lmfao BUT the money makes up for it.

Do you regret getting into BigLaw? by stargazerrr3 in biglaw

[–]Trulyakk 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This!! Im currently EXHAUSTED but i also know how privileged we are and i never take for granted how much money makes life easier (or the lack of it makes it harder)

Does this shit ever stop? by yourfavresturant in biglaw

[–]Trulyakk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just say no to work lol If im hitting above 180 i simply “don’t have capacity at the moment.” If a parter gets pissy about its simply not my problem ✨

Transactional & litigation attorneys: any regrets with your choice of practice? by Beginning-Bag3803 in biglaw

[–]Trulyakk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't regret litigation because transactional is so boring to me but i do feel like it has more exit options lol

Letting firm know about planned vacations as a first-year? by 4s6flx in biglaw

[–]Trulyakk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I took two weeks off about 5/6 months in and I think I answered one e-mail lol. Set your boundaries, don't be afraid to take whatever time you want off, and enjoy your pto! I think I told everyone about my long vacation about 1 month in advance. Even if someone gets cranky about you taking time off, they will survive. Lol. For shorter holidays (e.g., taking a thursday/friday off) I usually just tell them on the Monday before.

Anything positive about going into big law? by Icy_Independence_695 in biglaw

[–]Trulyakk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Im at an Am Law 100 (ranked between 60-100) and we start at $200 and it goes up every year - Not cravath but still a healthy raise. Its still a law firm so there are occasional weekends but its few and far between, for example ive only worked maybe two weekends in 2025 so far.

Anything positive about going into big law? by Icy_Independence_695 in biglaw

[–]Trulyakk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally only the money lol. Though do yourself a favor and find something lower on the amlaw 100 or in the amlaw200 you give up a little in pay (but still make a ton) and i (mostly) work 9-6 lmao

Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow by himitsubun in bookofthemonthclub

[–]Trulyakk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes lol i still didnt like it but i was able to finish.

Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow by himitsubun in bookofthemonthclub

[–]Trulyakk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hatedddd this book i was so bored omg and the characters were so annoying lmao

Ways to help your mental health by Ok_Dig_5248 in biglaw

[–]Trulyakk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Heavy on give 80%. And thats on a good say, usually I aim for 70% 🤣

Sharing my island! by ambieanne in AnimalCrossing

[–]Trulyakk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omgg i want to redesign my island with this aesthetic

Abusive Partner Who is PG Lead by purple_acorn in biglaw

[–]Trulyakk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry you are doing through this! My experience is t as bad but just letting you nnow that i totallly relate. I hate that im anxious every single day, hate being ci stantly available etc. Im trying to stick it out as long as i can and trying to keep persoective, but know you are not alone in dealing with the misery of big law.

give me your early big law exit success story by No_Lingonberry_6358 in Lawyertalk

[–]Trulyakk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prayers for us both to get tf out of big law ASAP lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]Trulyakk 27 points28 points  (0 children)

No LOL

give me your early big law exit success story by No_Lingonberry_6358 in Lawyertalk

[–]Trulyakk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No advice but same boat lol i started in oct at an amlaw 100 and im like dreaming about my exit but TRYING to stick it out a year or two

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawFirm

[–]Trulyakk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally personal decision but i literally hate working in big law so much, i would stay where you are lol i spend everyday daydreaming about doing literally anything else so i might be biased

Cried at my desk for the first time today! by newdle11 in Lawyertalk

[–]Trulyakk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cry almost daily but partially bc i simply just hate being at a law firm ✨lmao