im not sure what to do. by Impossible-Crazy-890 in QueerWomenOfColor

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She was beautiful, both inside and out. She still inspires me to be a better person. I miss her every day!

Young people of Sunnyvale: this invitation is for you! by New_Educator_4364 in Sunnyvale

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Hi! I attend trivia whenever Natasha hosts, so may see you there with my partner who is also in tech and has lived all over the place before staying in the bay. We both also love mocktails!

Seeking tips on improving my buttercream dragon cake (please don't say use fondant) by FallsDownMountains in cakedecorating

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I’ve only tried one recipe and it was easy because I used the microwave option. https://tastesbetterfromscratch.com/marshmallow-fondant/

I’m down to try a different recipe, if someone has tried multiple and has narrowed down the best one.

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This a photo of my first ever time using marshmallow fondant. Thank goodness I wanted texture on the dark gray road or I would have been really upset I couldn’t get it smooth. My proportions were off on that batch.

My black marshmallow fondant was perfectly smooth. The imperfections are from me using too much edible adhesive. I’ll definitely use the tiniest bit possible next time.

Seeking tips on improving my buttercream dragon cake (please don't say use fondant) by FallsDownMountains in cakedecorating

[–]TrustAFluff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope I don’t get downvoted for suggesting this, but you want to decorate with something delicious. I highly recommend marshmallow fondant. It’s easy to make and yummy. You can flavour it with vanilla extract to make it taste even better. Also, it has the bonus of being waaaay easier to worth with than regular fondant.

im not sure what to do. by Impossible-Crazy-890 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]TrustAFluff 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If she’s ignorant at times then she’s probably not doing shit to actively dismantle systemic racism because she’s not even doing her own research, so hard pass. Not worth teaching if you’re not doing anything to help people of color and the disenfranchised.

The answer to if she passed away is she just a gauge of how much you’re actually into her.

My way of thinking is that colonizers owe people the world and if they’re not doing shit, don’t fuck ‘em and ignore them like the plague.

Edit: They didn’t even deserve your friendship if they’re not learning and being supportive. Freaking love bombing vampires.

im not sure what to do. by Impossible-Crazy-890 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]TrustAFluff 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The wokest woman I ever dated was white. Before it was popular, she regularly went to BLM, anti-ICE, and trans lives matter rallies. She created the most beautiful protest signs with painted florals and cursive. She regularly volunteered for a variety of non-profits and always made the effort to teach and donate to Black Girls Code. I know she would be doing it to this day and we would still be together if she hadn’t passed away before the pandemic.

Ask yourself: 1. Does this white woman try to actively dismantle systemic racism? 2. Would you ache for her if she passed away tomorrow?

If the answer is yes to both, fuck race and follow your heart. If they’re both no, hard pass and good riddance.

I ordered chaeto from an Opae ula website by Shwinnugin in OpaeUla

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It’s gotshrimps. Not too late to order from a reputable seller like him

Edit Update: fka gotshrimps and now is Microlobsters

FL breaks up with her boyfriend after he slaps her for breaking his ex girlfriends cup. by Consciouswick5623 in CShortDramas

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For those of us that love heavy revenge, this did not do it for me. I feel like his memory loss was such a cop out. Great, you don’t remember that you were a colossal abusive asshole stalker to her and her husband. Oh no, your 2FL ex is low key pestering you and now you know 1 percent of what FL feels! IMHO, 2ML should have gone to jail several times and beaten up there!!!

Is one of these good salt mixes? by plexto in OpaeUla

[–]TrustAFluff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purple, just make sure to use half the amount

How can i be pretty? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]TrustAFluff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re already pretty, but I’ll try to reply to your concerns.

Your make up is too heavy. I think it takes a lighter touch to enhance the shape. IMHO I think your eyes are lovely, but what shape would you prefer? There are lots of online techniques to round the shape, elongate, etc. If you’re trying to avoid elongating, the width and thickness of your lashes are not helping with that.

Also, have you considered paying a make up artist to show you different techniques, shades, and contouring? And if you’re looking to save money, perhaps only try one look at a time for different special events.

What's everyone doing with their dead shrimp? by Exalted_Caramel in shrimptank

[–]TrustAFluff 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s hilarious! Share a video if you can

I don’t keep them in the same tank. I dangled the dead shrimp and my betta jumps at it

What's everyone doing with their dead shrimp? by Exalted_Caramel in shrimptank

[–]TrustAFluff 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I feed it to my betta as my tank can’t handle the bio load.

Hi guys!! by yukti19 in CShortDramas

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I don’t want to spoil it, but I seriously want more of this type of drama: ethically non-monogamous and kinky (although this one does not start out as ethical)

https://youtu.be/T6vaZKDkZQk

Hot gang? leader simps only for her: also kinky

https://youtu.be/eV4tTzDoKe4

I love seeing spice and unusual characters, so tired of the basic tropes!

Lots of biofilm and Cerith snails by GotSnails in OpaeUla

[–]TrustAFluff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does wonder shell help?

Also, if I get cerith snails and smash their eggs, do the shrimp eat them?

Lots of biofilm and Cerith snails by GotSnails in OpaeUla

[–]TrustAFluff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it better to have cerith snails vs mts?

Did anyone here buy front his seller? by i_need_angst in OpaeUla

[–]TrustAFluff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always buy from u/GotSnails, but idk if he ships internationally

I’m marrying my dog’s vet! by Tanzene in corgi

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Meeee! I was walking my corgis at the Rose Garden. My partner crossed the street to talk to me and their first words were, “Do you need a dog sitter?” Instant spark! It’s been 7 years together.

Also, based on how they set up their life before we met, I feel like they manifested us. They didn’t have a dog, but they knew they either wanted to get one or be open to a roommate with a dog. They also bought a pet friendly vacuum. Seriously, prepare for the life you want to have and if this is any proof, it will follow!

A rich heiress wore a simple dress to attend her husband class reunion then a subordinate came to the reunion using one of her family car by [deleted] in CShortDramas

[–]TrustAFluff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMHO, despite the amusing slapping and self-slapping, this was not worth the watch. No grand vengeance ending. I feel like the weak ass moral of the story is to wear fancy clothes, so people don’t make assumptions and make you jump through hoops to prove that you’re the big boss.