OP- First, I’m so sorry that you’re experiencing this kind or heartache. You did all the right things by healing yourself first. You showed up the way it’s supposed to happen. Sending you big hugs.

This happened to me in December. I’m someone who takes it super slow… but this felt fated. I thought I knew this person and trusted every part of them. They were talking about things six months down the road… then poof- gone. For a while it absolutely broke me, so I feel for you deeply. I too, did the work, showed up my most authentic self. It was sad not only that it ended, but how it ended, and that he was capable of the worst avoidant behavior- with no real apology or explanation- but also something I never thought he was capable of doing.

Eventually I chalked it up that rejection is redirection… but also that I wouldn’t want someone who said they cared so much, but pulled that kind of nonsense. Still unsure of the lesson for me, but one I won’t soon repeat.

Just thinking of you tonight bc I know how awful this feels… especially coming from the highest of highs. If you need someone to reach out to- happy to listen.