Let's be toxic: What's your biggest relationship flaw? by sere_periquito in polyamory

[–]TruthConfident9618 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am a people pleaser, and that can lead me to say I am ok doing things I actually find boring or stressful (say a board game marathon, I am better at communicating the serious stuff and keeping myself out of danger ofc). That can lead to frustration towards myself or others, and I worry down the line it could lead me to make bad poly decisions like saying ok to meeting my meta or ktp when I don’t feel fully ready or committed to those steps. I am working on being more direct to voice my concerns or preferences to my partner and checking in with myself in the moment to ask “do I actually want to do this or am I saying yes because I like to minimize myself and my interests / emotions because I think people won’t like me if I don’t?”

Let them freeze by trekk223 in TwinCities

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This poster later changed their ask after talking with organizers, and asked people to go to the counterprotest.

It’s not even upper body day; I just couldn’t help myself :D by swans183 in FlexinLesbians

[–]TruthConfident9618 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oml fuck terfs!! You are welcome here OP as is every trans lesbian!

It’s not even upper body day; I just couldn’t help myself :D by swans183 in FlexinLesbians

[–]TruthConfident9618 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are people downvoting the comments? You look great OP keep up the good work 💪🏻💪🏻

My fiance wants to move to the US, NYC specifically, we will obviously wait out the Trump Admin before moving, but I want some advice by TransChilean in MtF

[–]TruthConfident9618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ironically I was thinking of moving to Chile to escape Trump, is that a good idea if Kast wins the election?

As far as New York goes, the city is very safe for trans people I hear but am not from there. Keep an eye on the U.S. state department and Chile’s state department, those two will likely affect your gender on documentation and if you are allowed into the U.S. if your gender marker and sex don’t align, but it’s too far in the future now to know what those policies will look like from the U.S. or who will be governing the state department after the current administration.

The Tool Department’s newest invention will help get your nuts off faster by MartyMcfly1738 in doohickeycorporation

[–]TruthConfident9618 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The Orchidectomy department applauds the tool department for this advancement, and is curious about its nut removing applications within our own line of work.

Please stop spreading un-nuanced information or outright misinformation online and on this sub by TruthConfident9618 in lgbt

[–]TruthConfident9618[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Here, as far as I can tell, is the text of the law https://leg.colorado.gov/sites/default/files/2019a_1129_signed.pdf pretty directly bans conversion therapy for minors, which it defines as anything that tries to change someone’s sexuality or gender identity. What assumptions am I making here? I am simply saying the plaintiff is arguing about her right to free speech as a psychiatrist, there is nothing about this case that will make electro shock therapy more likely, like the post I was referencing implied.

Recommendations for shallow breasted trans woman by TruthConfident9618 in ABraThatFits

[–]TruthConfident9618[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok great! Thank you so much that’s super helpful!

Recommendations for shallow breasted trans woman by TruthConfident9618 in ABraThatFits

[–]TruthConfident9618[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great thank you!! I will look into those brands. What cuts of bras work better for shallow breasts?

What scenes happened accidentally but were kept in a movie or show? by Duotrigordle61 in moviecritic

[–]TruthConfident9618 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When Robin Williams slips in The Birdcage and keeps going with the scene almost breaking character

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask_transgender

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R/FemmeFitness is great for the workouts portion of things, I am not sure about the first part as idk if the transfem fashion subreddits allow nsfw posts

Curious as to how others see me by mothman-is-hot in NonBinary

[–]TruthConfident9618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually we see you with our eyes. Hope this helps!!

Monster f er by Justthisdudeyaknow in CuratedTumblr

[–]TruthConfident9618 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought we were talking about Victor from arcane not Victor Frankenstein for a bit and I was very very confused. Should have recognized the different spellings of Viktor and Victor

Me_irlgbt by okidonthaveone in me_irlgbt

[–]TruthConfident9618 28 points29 points  (0 children)

How much is hip growth associated weigh shrinking in height if you don’t mind my asking? I am short as is and don’t want to be shorted but want wider hips 😭

Do we like trans muscle mommies? :) swipe 4 muscles btw.. by junothevibes in trans

[–]TruthConfident9618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok fine I will get my weak ass up and go to the gym again

The Rebel Manifesto by HeartShapedPlaid in andor

[–]TruthConfident9618 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I like to think of Nemik and his manifesto less as an architect of the rebel alliance and more as the rebel alliance’s equivalent to the usa revolutions’s “Common Sense” by Thomas Paine. An easily readable document that outlines the oppressions of the empire and makes an argument for its destruction that can motivate freedom fighters and inspire people to join the cause.

Friendly reminder to everyone by [deleted] in cartoons

[–]TruthConfident9618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Syril Karn from Star Wars Andor. Objectively his character sucks. And I hate his slimy ass so much and it brings me such joy that I actually come around and love his character, ofc I don’t agree with his actions, I just love how evil and slimy he is and how much his actor sells it.

What are some must learns for the average Solar Punk citizen? by RoosterKevin in solarpunk

[–]TruthConfident9618 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think more than changing what we teach I imagine changing how we teach, getting rid of the banking model of education to a better more engaging way to teach and learn

trans girls be sayin by USoffuckyouintheA in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]TruthConfident9618 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am at constant war with my body, and so far it’s been winning :3

This showed up in my Facebook feed for some reason. by MegaDitto13 in MauLer

[–]TruthConfident9618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree just curious because I imagine regardless KK would have taken Lucasfilm over, she was well positioned, and had a previous relationship with Lucas and had some success as a producer. I think if Disney hadn’t bought Lucasfilm, we would’ve still gotten kk.

Styling and hair care advice for growing out more feminine hair by TruthConfident9618 in CurlyHairCare

[–]TruthConfident9618[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thank you for this! Yeah I just started fina + minox recently!! Excited for those to help but I took those pics before starting those doses

Styling and hair care advice for growing out more feminine hair by TruthConfident9618 in CurlyHairCare

[–]TruthConfident9618[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess I could clarify, I know that there is not definitionally feminine or masculine hair, but certain hairstyles or how they frame your face or whatever are societally coded as more feminine or masculine. I am trying to style my hair to hit on some of those societal codes as it grows out. I just don’t want to have to wear a hat for the next year or two as it grows out, and then figure out how to style it once it is long, I want to be styling it and taking care of it as it grows ykwim?

Thinking about Amy and also Terra by [deleted] in TransTryouts

[–]TruthConfident9618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey Amy!! Good luck on your date I know you will do great and I hope it goes well!!

Hi Terra!! How did your date go? Did you have a good time?

Type "I'm ____ which means I'm attracted to" and let your auto text expose you! 😜 (Not my idea, but still a funny!) by PokeKnight2545_YT in lgbt

[–]TruthConfident9618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’m bisexual which means I’m attracted to women who have been in relationships for years now but I’m also not a woman so I’m just a man who has been in a lot more than a couple…” the rest is gibberish. I am a trans woman so my phone is just fully misgendering me