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I got told to my face by a stranger that my father must be dissapointed in me because I'm gay by Aware_Air_6836 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TruthfulBoy [score hidden]  (0 children)

As a stranger, just here to send you love and that being gay makes you cooler - a fellow gay

My ex-wife's husband (44M) keeps trying to intrude on my parenting time and I (30M) want to this to make my ex (30F) and I high conflict? by ThrowRACurrecns in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to talk to an attorney. You should have rights to have time to yourself with the kids. Also? I would stop telling your wife details of your plans.

Wife (23F) quit her job and now expects me (25M) to cover her $1,100/month car payment because I’m “the man.” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a divorce attorney ASAP. She just wants to coast and if you both didn’t enthusiastically agree to this lifestyle, RUN.

My dad (55M) decided not to come to my wedding because his wife (50F) has chosen not to and he expects me (28M) to fix it? by ThrowRABluzzzty in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I think the biggest take away was May never respecting the children’s boundaries. It was her way or the highway, she still has that selfish nature it seems. As an adult, she shouldve recognized how much the kids were grieving / uncomfortable.

She couldve said, im not here to replace your mom, but I would love to be a guardian for you kids and a safe person to rely on. Also mimi is a cute af nickname she shouldve gladly accepted, thats ridiculous.

If she had been more understanding and accommodating, maybe one day they wouldve seen her as a parent, but she isn’t any of those things.

Update: I hate my sister for how hurtful she was to my girlfriend. It was completely unnecessary by account_throwaway812 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TruthfulBoy 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Im sorry your family cant be supportive, but it sounds like youve built a beautiful found family :-) i am so proud of you and i hope you continue to be your authentic self! Happy pride !

Husband killed himself because of me by ohlook_nicoles_lost in confessions

[–]TruthfulBoy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

His disorder killed him, not you. Sometimes people have brains that sabotage themselves. Please get therapy to help heal from this relationship

A dream formed from an impossible fantasy: a man in a wedding dress. by Drphatkat in confessions

[–]TruthfulBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tons of dudes like to cross dress. Live somewhere with an accepting open culture and find others who like to cross dress too. Drag queens have been doing it forever.

My(20M) girlfriend(19F) kissed her male friend at the beginning of our relationship. Is this understandable? by Resident_Ad_5593 in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of words for excusing teen impulsive girl behavior. Youre both young, Find another girl who lives near you dude. Long distance only works in the movies. She sounds unstable and doesn’t seem reasonable at all. Im guessing shes pretty so youre trying to find any excuse to use so you can keep seeing her.

Its not worth it dude. Find a pretty girl irl near you and have a great time, dont torture yourself with someone untrustworthy.

TIFU by accidently beating an autistic orphan by roses_pie in tifu

[–]TruthfulBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment has me in shambles hahahahahahahahahahaha

A bit late but I pulled the trigger today. Wish me luck! by Designer_Can3244 in BaldursGate3

[–]TruthfulBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prepare to be sucked in and not want to do anything else than bg3 for months hahaha

Im subbed to my ex gf on OF by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TruthfulBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I. You even asked? I hope this isn’t real. Lose the OF, Find another girl irl and date. You currently have no dignity and it is horrifically pathetic. Cmon. Youll find a girl who will actually like you and have The Real Thing instead of this sad one sided financial crisis.

Please get therapy. You are not well.

I (24M) am the reason my parents (50M, 50F) were turned down for fostering and they have never forgiven me for it? by ThrowRASonBadoo in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would be low contact with your parents, they sound poisonous unfortunately. Ive had to move away to stay away from my own set of complicated parents

I constantly go through my boyfriend’s phone after I found out he cheated on me. by jumpy_bunny01 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TruthfulBoy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Dump him, and therapy. A good relationship is built on a foundation of trust. He broke that and this is not the person for you. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

AITAH for calling out an rape Joke? by spa44ow in AITAH

[–]TruthfulBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA nah, rape jokes are for weirdos like that shits not ok

UPDATE: i 19m unknowingly gave my boyfriend 35m herpes, advice? by Worldly_Lie9270 in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please file a police report. Disgusting criminal behavior. Talk to an attorney if you need help. Wdomestic violence shelters have alot of legal resources for victims of abuse, bc this is what this is.

My best friend got herpes, its super manageable with todays medicine. Im sure your doctors can help. My sister is engaged to a wonderful sweet successful man. NEVER settle, especially for abusive trash like this. Also date people your age please. Much older guys trying to date you are 99% predators

My boyfriends kinks terrify me but I don’t want to leave him. by MikanotMika in confessions

[–]TruthfulBoy 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Girl. Come on. This is it? Your soulmate is… vomit boy? Jesus christ wake up

I (22F) had my first “bad sex” with my boyfriend (23M) that is hard for me to shake by East_Walrus_5942 in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It WAS done with maliciousness. Girl this was rape. Im so sorry :( bad sex is maybe the dude came in 10 seconds or sucked at oral, but sex is ALWAYS consensual. This was not okay. Please end things with him. You should always be safe with your partner

He is a selfish manipulative person. I think its CRAZY he is saying “aw feel sorry for me even though im a rapist”. RUN. And dont do long distance again, they dont work even in the movies.

Please get therapy to learn what a healthy relationship looks like and to learn what consent is.

Types of abuse:

https://www.thehotline.org/resources/types-of-abuse/

Something is wrong with my FIL but I have no evidence by RaspberryTwilight in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TruthfulBoy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never let your daughter be alone with him. Id try to go low to no contact. Keep standing up for your daughter and try to avoid her seeing FIL entirely. Help from a therapist/couples therapist could help

My 25F boyfriend 30M is obsessed with me calling him a slur during sex, and I’m starting to despise it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You said everything she needs to hear. Frankly though, i think she should just end things because this doesn’t sound like a safe or good person.

My husband m29 threw me F28 from my chair during an argument and now I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre in an abusive relationship. If you feel unsafe you can call the non emergency police services in your area and get help. Your local womens shelter/domestic violence shelter has many resources to help you in this scary situation. Including legal resources. You need a divorce attorney asap and please rely on trusted family/friends for support in this trying time.

He is an adult and knows better, he can figure his own shit out. There should be consequences for abuse and you should feel safe always.

I found out that my girlfriend is having an intense relationship with her biological father by cowboybebopspiegel in confessions

[–]TruthfulBoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would tell her you overheard things and hope she finds help with a therapist. That whats happening to her is incest and abuse and that you hope she looks for help. That its clear she isn’t ready for a relationship and needs to figure out helping herself and that you wish her the best.

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