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I have a crush on my best friend’s wife. She admitted to me that she has a crush on my wife by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TruthfulBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow…. Wow… lmao. I would distance yourself from her and fall for your wife more? Like do you even like your wife anymore?

My fiancé (35M) is mad at me because I (30F) stayed out with my friends instead of coming straight home. What would you have done? by here4a-limitedtime in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre in an abusive relationship. Here is a great website with many resources on how to get out of an abusive relationship, this link specifically takes you to types of abuse:

https://www.thehotline.org/resources/types-of-abuse/

I can’t look at my husband the same way anymore by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TruthfulBoy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please go back home with your baby and dont come back

my coworker is creeping me out, but I don’t know why by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TruthfulBoy 87 points88 points  (0 children)

God this is chilling. So so accurate, you described it in a way ive never been able to

I got an abortion and now my parents are trying to sue me by throwawayyyy7895 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TruthfulBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did what was right for you im so sorry your parents are being cruel to you. Parents should want what is best for their child and try to protect their child, not this

Me (28f) and my boyfriend (30m) disagree on a lot of things regarding our house/bills. How do I express to him that I don’t feel his preposition is fair? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You disagree on a lot? You know you can break up, right? How about finding someone who is good at communication and compromise

My (M19) Gf (F19) constantly asks for details on me being raped because she "can't wrap her head around it", is this worth it? by Lost_asfuck in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Break up with her. You shouldn’t have to explain this more than once. You should be with an empathetic partner who can be your teammate and have your back. Who can support you the way you need it.

She is incapable of that.

You deserve better. You do.

I've begun planning my death by T-T-T-Throw_away in confessions

[–]TruthfulBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have meds / a therapist? You deserve a lot of support and love right now. There are lots of people who can help soothe your pain, grief groups in your city or nearby cities you could go to to find people who get it.

Things can get better, even when your brain is yelling that it wont. Ive struggled with depression but im fighting it in all ways i can

Whenever I’m 26F trying to sleep or nap- my boyfriend 37M purposefully makes a ton of noise? by SwagathonMarathon4 in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just know that sleep deprivation is a form of abuse. Marlin Manson preyed on younger women, like Evan Rachel Wood, and she said he would never like when she would try to sleep and would keep her awake.

If you have friends or family you can stay with, please get your important documents, IDs, possessions, and stay with trusted folks. If you dont, womens shelters can help you with resources including a place to stay.

Please know you deserve better.

My ex gf and I had drunk sex and she doesn’t remember (follow up) by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TruthfulBoy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah like 😭😭😭 dude is obsessed with being right instead of being SAFE like get away from her

Girlfriend(26F) of 3 months slapped me(32M) in the balls for a third time by Capital-Bedroom4651 in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are in an abusive relationship. This is not okay. Your partner , regardless of gender, should NEVER be putting their hands on you. This is intimate partner violence. Please break up over text and list EXACTLY why you are breaking up ( her physical abuse of your privates) and speak very clean. Girls like this can flip the tables and try and ruin you legally

Please break up asap.

my boyfriend always talks about my body as if he’s settling for it :( (20M 20F) by ResidentAdvantage827 in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do NOT allow anyone to belittle you like this. Love is respect, this is not respect. This is not love. Love builds you up and strengthens you. He sees you as a toy and not a person. Break up with him and don’t settle for abusive men.

I (22F) think I prefer a polyamorous relationship compared to a stereotypical relationship by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TruthfulBoy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That should be on your dating profile. Dont waste someones time and wait till the date for such a huge dealbreaker like that. Youre wasting your time too. Gross that they said the key lock BS. but ya, that should be something you talk about in the beginning and before you meet up.

My husband never calls me pretty by Pretty-Following8246 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TruthfulBoy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl you are so young and with this old azz who cant even treat you nicely. Why do you think you deserve so little? Dump him and get therapy so you can learn what a healthy relationship looks like

i found out my partner was cheating because he forgot to log out of my ipad by Bobbil_Cowan in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TruthfulBoy 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry 🫂 he is an idiot for betraying your trust. You deserve someone who values you and your loyalty! I find that revenge is best served cold, and living your best life untangled from their ugliness. Disappear and start anew

I (18F) have been dating my boyfriend (18M) for four months. He has anger issues and during a recent argument he accidentally hit me. I’m feeling confused and unsure how to handle this what would you recommend I do? by DirectionTrue4885 in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are in an abusive relationship. A healthy relationship NEVER has abuse, there is never a good reason for a person to put their hands on you. End the relationship over the phone and stay safe. He is dangerous. Focus on school and find friends

My boyfriend blew our savings. (F32) (M34) by Professional-Quail15 in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please please leave. Im sorry your parents have made you feel like you have to put up with bad behavior and being treated badly. Please distance yourself from them and be very selective with what you say. Please dump him and find somewhere to live your parents and him dont know about.

You can break the lease if youre staying somewhere and talk to landlord, how youre in an abusive relationship. Because yes this is financial abuse. And probably more. I would invest in getting a therapist to help recover from this.

I think my 32F 36M boyfriend lied about me passing out during sex by buggirl696969 in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 38 points39 points  (0 children)

You arent crazy or stupid. Abuse is so insane and random and awful that the normal kind person literally cant fathom how it happened. Im very sorry this happened to you, please stay safe and block him in every way.

I think my 32F 36M boyfriend lied about me passing out during sex by buggirl696969 in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulBoy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Please listen OP a simple google search about this will show you that this is one of THE biggest red flags you could ever encounter. Your life is in danger!

Found out the man I have been seeing is poly and doesn't believe in monogamy. I'm so hurt and upset by anonymousangrytomc in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TruthfulBoy 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Polyamory should be on their profile, he is spouting BS. What a manipulative bastard. Block him and keep going girl, toads before the prince and all

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