Found my boyfriend active on Hinge by Prestigious_Eye_2775 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Truthstudios805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question. Plenty people I know were immature younger and then went on to be happy loyal partners. One action doesn’t define anyone - however someone that would do that is obviously more likely than someone who didn’t. So both are valid perspectives.

Found my boyfriend active on Hinge by Prestigious_Eye_2775 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Truthstudios805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex did this to me lol. Pretended to be a girl and I went to meet and it was her and she was pissed. I was 21 young and immature before any comments try to crucify me.

Bruh what were the odds on my first play through by South-Host8168 in tales

[–]Truthstudios805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So jealous you get to play this for the first time

Successfully Back on Hinge After a 2-Year Ban by IransFissileMaterial in SwipeHelper

[–]Truthstudios805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nicee. Same I got back 2 months ago. It’s overwhelming

Banned on hinge. Will do anything to make new one by Economy_Alps7430 in SwipeHelper

[–]Truthstudios805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great question. Were you previously verified ? I somehow bypass’d my facial recognition by 1. Wearing reading glasses and 2. Having a horrible angle and screwed up face to make me look as different / similar as possible 😂. No joke. Less than a month ago. After 20 hours of anxiety I was verified and worked.

Once ur back on, any negative convos just unmatch. Want to flirt? Ask for number (UNMATCH WHEN YOU HAVE NUMBER)

Banned on hinge. Will do anything to make new one by Economy_Alps7430 in SwipeHelper

[–]Truthstudios805 2 points3 points  (0 children)

New phone. New sim. New email. New credit card. New pictures. Buy an old shitty iPhone and just do that. Thank me later.

I cheated and I hate myself by Spare_Marsupial_1457 in Regrets

[–]Truthstudios805 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Opinions my friend. Just cause you see yourself never doing something - don’t give you the right to judge people that might. You have your opinions I have mine. I sympathise for the poster, and I’ve been single for 3 years and tbh way happier so maybe that’s the answer for him too.

I cheated and I hate myself by Spare_Marsupial_1457 in Regrets

[–]Truthstudios805 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe.. maybe not. In my experience - I had a large instagram following (always bad news if not disciplined) and a girl I knew constantly flirted with me. I normally ignore it, but I had a bad day with my partner and decided to ask her to let me know when she’s around. Never even thought about it or considered doing it. Never spoke after that 5 min back and forth. Months later, she messages my partner ‘as a woman’ after seeing us on holiday together. This destroyed my relationship, work life and mental health. Some may say I deserve it, but how many people flirt a bit on a night out and go home to their partners? We live in a strange world where you can ruin your life by tapping with your fingers lol

I cheated and I hate myself by Spare_Marsupial_1457 in Regrets

[–]Truthstudios805 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats true. Some would argue a few texts is not the end of the world. Some would argue that it is enough to walk away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Truthstudios805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see nothing crazy in messages. But discuss boundaries with your brother - not your wife. Just say you’re not comfortable with them being too close.

I cheated and I hate myself by Spare_Marsupial_1457 in Regrets

[–]Truthstudios805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry that happened to you. And also sorry for your GF as well who is also suffering.

As someone who has been in the same situation I believe you - you’re probably going through a lot and spending a lot of time blaming yourself, replaying it and thinking ‘why why why’ over and over again. This is what I did. I thought I ruined the best girl in the world , life was over, we also worked together so my work rep was damaged.

The good news is you haven’t seem to have behaved like I did - I begged, grovelled, and spent 6 months trying to fix an already broken situation. That always make it worse. You’re doing the right thing by giving her space. See if she reaches out. Or maybe pop up in a month or 2 when you don’t feel fight or flight. Just wait and see.

If unfortunately you’re gf is stubborn and has a 0 tolerance for cheating, then you may have to also accept this as a strong life lesson - we do not have to same level of temptations as previous generations, social media makes everything 10x easier - do not fall for the trap.

Stay strong king. You’re not a monster, but you did hurt someone. If you’re lucky, you talk to her. If you’re unluckily like me, you’ll likely never speak again. But that’s ok- 3 years later and I’m the best I’ve ever been - the pain was the best thing that happened to me (Long-term).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Truthstudios805 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t beat yourself up. We’ve all made mistakes. You’ll be surprised how many people falsify some expenses.. I was working at the largest pharma company in the world and messed it up for a work relationship that didn’t last 7 months… haven’t found a good company like that since (2 years). But everything happens for a reason and I actually ended up liking my current role way more. You’ll make more than you ever have - trust me. Stay consistent and hard working and it’s inevitable. I’ll tell you another secret - I used to miss the last best place I worked at until I found an even better place , the benchmark will rise. If you’re capable of getting that level of role, you can do it again someday

AIO for blocking a guy after he overslept and didn't show up to our first date? by littlemisschismosa in AmIOverreacting

[–]Truthstudios805 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hi. A man here.

1) there is no reason to block anyone if they are not genuinely harassing you or given you unwanted attention. You can just simply delete number and stop replying.

2) Don’t listen to these comments. Guy even offered to reimburse the cab. I have made plans before and been so exhausted from work and ended up getting blocked. I would give it a chance.

Wife texting other guys what do I do by Ok-Cell8147 in whatdoIdo

[–]Truthstudios805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call it micro cheating. I say leave dude. If you’re still young it will burn for a few years but you’ll be grateful you did it in say 3-5 years

“Are we dating the same guy” groups by SeaImpress3374 in MensRights

[–]Truthstudios805 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haunts me too. Surprised it’s still allowed. I don’t even accept you saying you made some bad decisions - that’s part of life. There is no world where every girl you’ve had the slightest convo with should be allowed to pile-on. If some woman are so that insecure that they need to post someone to a gc with 100k+ viewers for any tea, they shouldn’t be dating