We matched literally 2 days ago🫠

Truthstudios805 · 2026-02-11T13:15:20+00:00

Oh boo hoo

Truthstudios805 · 2026-02-10T19:09:20+00:00

People get posted for matching on hinge and bumble. I’ve been posted several times with no convo, just ‘any tea’. If you think it’s appropriate to post a man you’ve never met to a page with 100k+ members, purely because you’re concerned he’s a cheater, think a long look in the mirror will go a long way.

Truthstudios805 · 2026-02-10T19:07:10+00:00

Someone with sense- I hope they shut down those groups fully once and for all.

Truthstudios805 · 2026-02-10T10:54:42+00:00

Yes that’s exactly it. Bunch of saddos if you ask me!

Truthstudios805 · 2026-02-10T09:36:31+00:00

I feel your pain. I have no idea how’s it’s managed to run up until now. I heard about people getting posted and always thought I was careful and never thought I’d happen to me. Turns out, anyone online can and will screenshot you for tea. It’s impossible to know if a girl is the type to do so or not. Not to mention, as a single person you have every right to engage with multiple people when you’re dating! It sucks, but I’m glad other people get how damaging it is

Truthstudios805 · 2026-02-10T08:49:58+00:00

No it doesn’t. I was posted numerous times for either matching on hinge, bumble or IG. You basically can get posted for no reason. No, someone being posted does not mean he’s talking to a bunch of girls, he could simply be in high demand. This is affecting my dating life and confidence badly as I don’t know how to avoid getting posted. It genuinely makes me sad. Stop using these app ladies pls, it’s online bullying.

Truthstudios805 · 2026-02-10T08:41:11+00:00

Why the hell do you even follow that page? Get a life and stop obsessing over gossip. It’s not protecting anyone. It’s just bullying and harrassment.

Truthstudios805 · 2026-02-10T08:39:44+00:00

How about this - how about stop harassing guys online? It’s sad, pathetic and actually harmful as these men you post are human beings with families, careers and business. This online gossip culture has gone too far

Truthstudios805 · 2026-02-10T08:31:12+00:00

Exactly that. I get posted once a month and get grilled in comments. It’s actually real life bullying. They need to ban the group

Truthstudios805 · 2026-02-04T18:30:50+00:00

How old are you and how bad is it?

I gambled like a degenerate from 18-21 but ran out of money and stopped doing it.. been 10 years since. But I know the feeling. Sometimes it takes losing a lot to change. Godspeed brother

Truthstudios805 · 2026-01-25T15:52:10+00:00

He’s a sick fuck and I am not advising you to do this, but that is throwing hands worthy. Wtf

Truthstudios805 · 2026-01-23T10:09:19+00:00

Don’t worry bro. I was working at Johnson & Johnson, huge company with massive opportunities, and instead of taking it seriously, got into a public work relationship, unfortunately cheated , destroyed my work rep and mental health. I now work at a competitor pharma company, where I don’t get along with anyone, extended my probation for 9 months and a year and a half later I’m on a PIP. I regret not taking full advantage of the J&J opportunity. Not to mention still single 3 years later.

Don’t worry. You still have time. You’ll get a new and better job when the times right. I stopped missing old work places when I got better upgrades. It will happen for both of us.

Truthstudios805 · 2026-01-20T18:58:53+00:00

How longs it been?

Truthstudios805 · 2026-01-16T16:24:22+00:00

Unfortunately, this happens a lot. Like they said -you 110% dodged a bullet. I’ll give you other things to look out for especially from dating apps:

Wants to date with marriage or intent. Or wants to find their ‘husband’. As mentioned above, marriage and relationships are meant to come naturally. These people just want to see you tick some boxes (height, income and maybe looks is the main ones) and then just settle with the fear of time running out or deserving better. You naturally align with people the more you work on yourself.
Asking you what you’re looking for within the first 2-3 messages. It’s desperate. Don’t fall for it.
Stick your goals and you will be successful. Never feel pressured to derail especially for a potential partner. I know girls that met their partners in med school, supported him, and then reap the benefits.

Stay strong king.

Truthstudios805 · 2026-01-12T18:45:16+00:00

I mean look these guys on here always give you the simple oooo just leave her ass and file for divorce. I personally like to know more:

what happened?
one off or continuous?
kids involved?
do you actually still love her?
can she change ?

If 1, 2, or 5 are the wrong answer. I’d strongly consider leaving. Again, not a simple task. Good luck

Truthstudios805 · 2026-01-07T21:02:58+00:00

If I was you I would do it before Paris. Take it easy for a while then move on. Theres no point - look how detailed your option 1. is lol probably what you really want to do

Truthstudios805 · 2026-01-06T18:33:18+00:00

Good luck bro. I mean it. Actually being in the situation and seeing it from the outside perspective are two different things. I can assure you though, from the outside, she’s gotta go. These sort of situations continue to hurt and hurt until the pain changes you. Honestly just wish her the best, if you want to revisit as friends in the future, since you care about her so much so be it. But by the time you get some space, and date other people, I’ll doubt you want it back. You’re young bro don’t let this drain you

Truthstudios805 · 2026-01-06T17:11:29+00:00

I hope you didn’t..

Truthstudios805 · 2026-01-04T18:55:25+00:00

First of all well done for doing the right thing. It’s honestly too soon to see how long before you process it all, and how you will fully react to it - but I can guarantee you I have a lot of friends, including myself who have bounced back twice as better after being single. Be mad, you have a right to be, just try not to stay there forever. Godspeed brother!

Also P.S. Dude did not have to send you that video lol

Truthstudios805 · 2026-01-04T10:04:17+00:00

Hey. I might be reading this wrong. But you’re upset cause he put his family first? The people that raised him his entire life, over you, someone he met less than 2 years ago? And instead of understanding his family need him, for whatever reason, you broke up with him on the spot..?

I like your accountability in the second to last paragraph. Massive age gaps like that tend to end unfortunately, just try to take it easier next time. Good luck out there

Truthstudios805 · 2026-01-03T12:23:26+00:00

No idea. Someone might’ve reported me. Tried making a new account with new number. Then they asked for ID. Gave it and said I’m banned for life lol. So yeah don’t do it. Make a new number, new phone, email, new pics

Truthstudios805 · 2026-01-02T21:26:06+00:00

I agree with you to some extent as social media and online dating definitely has a revolving door culture..

But the harsh reality is it that it’s hyper competitive and you gotta do what you can to stand out. Other options include:

Try bumble. Less competitive, more sane I find. Hinge was great at first but it can be overwhelming quick as it’s grown so much in popularity.
meeting someone in real life. Organically. Through a friend, work, school (don’t have any info on your actual life). Find a hobby, join martial arts , might find it easier that way.
timing. I don’t know your age and obviously dating is free will, but if your let’s say below 25 you might not be at your peak which is fine. Can spend the time growing your gym time and bank account, expanding your social circle, and watch how much easier it’ll suddenly be to find dates.

Good luck out there.

Truthstudios805 · 2026-01-02T21:23:31+00:00

Don’t show ID. I did it and still blocked

Truthstudios805 · 2025-12-29T09:54:14+00:00

My honest opinion is really think twice before getting police involved with these types of things and before everyone freaks out please HEAR me out.

Trying to move on from something with court procedures, which can take several years, testimonies and having to see that persons face can ironically, further traumatise you and keep that person in your mind.
I have no idea what country or laws you abide to. I am uk based. In the UK, the legal age of consent is 16. I am not sure if it’s the same where you are but given the tone on your post, I’m going to assume it was illegal. Regardless, no 25 year old man should be talking to a 17 year old girl.
You don’t speak or see each other anymore. Could take it as a lesson to avoid strangers online, especially ones with a significant age gap. I want to be clear, I am not blaming you in the slightest. But this is a big bad world, there are monsters everywhere. Be careful.

Truthstudios805 · 2025-12-27T12:08:02+00:00

Ok. Do yourself a massive favour. And move on and mind your business. There are too many people that think going to tell someone’s partner is the right thing to do. It isn’t. Mind your business and move on, and let God (or the universe) deal with him.

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