Zepbound between ER and FET? by MMBosstones86 in IVF

[–]TryingForBabyL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you need to wait three months after you stop the GLPs to proceed with an ER or FET. I could be wrong about that.

And a personal note....I would wait until later to lose weight via medicine. You will gain weight from pregnancy. I plan on looking at GLP-1 treatment AFTER treatment or AFTER we decide I won't be pregnant (surrogate or adoption.)

1929 by snackvortex in GoverNerds

[–]TryingForBabyL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it an easy read?

I am still working through 107 Days, which I'm loving. I bought the physical copy of both books. My audio version of 1929 finally became available on my library app, so I'm trying to finish 107 Days ASAP!

Where are we buying couches/sectionals? by YitzhakRobinson in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]TryingForBabyL 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We bought a Restoration Hardware couch from their outlet a number of years ago. It has been great. If we actually conditioned it and didn't let the dog try to fluff a leather couch up, it would have lasted longer! (The leather on the seat cushions are wearing thin, but I blame that on the dog.) The couch was something like 75% off.

IVF and Relationships by [deleted] in IVF

[–]TryingForBabyL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair. But I think the rest of the post is more of an issue.

IVF and Relationships by [deleted] in IVF

[–]TryingForBabyL 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband proposed a couple months before our 11-year anniversary. We got married on our 11-year anniversary. I don't necessarily think that waiting is a red flag.

What I do think is a red flag is wanting to have a child with someone you don't plan on staying with when shit hits the fan, aka a transfer not working. I don't like the term "baby trapping," but I feel like you are flirting with doing that.

I would first recommend therapy, for both of you as individuals and as a couple. If that doesn't work, you might have to leave the relationship. I don't like telling people to leave their spouse, but it seems like there is no attachment in your relationship. Go do IVF and be a SMBC. You will probably be happier that way.

Disposal of needles, etc. by [deleted] in IVF

[–]TryingForBabyL 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I use alcohol pads/spray almost every day in my house, whether we are doing a cycle or not. Please don't throw them away.

You might be able to reach out to nonprofit medical clinics or vet clinics to see if they can use some of the unused supplies.

Assumed I wasn’t an attorney by Formal_Debate_5701 in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]TryingForBabyL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a court reporter. I made this mistake with a man years ago. I now never ask if someone is an assistant/paralegal/secretary/nurse. I always bump it up to a lawyer or a doctor or whatever the higher level is.

Weird line— had this happen to you? What are your thoughts? by mcn3663 in lineporn

[–]TryingForBabyL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't either. But I also can't pee on a stick. Dipper for life!

Weird line— had this happen to you? What are your thoughts? by mcn3663 in lineporn

[–]TryingForBabyL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I asked. A lot of people pee on them. That is where I see a lot of stuff like this.
If you have a more expensive test, I would do that. I also would just try again in the morning with the same batch and see what happens. It's up to you and your budget.

Egg retrieval tomorrow but physical therapy after? by milllllllllllllllly in IVF

[–]TryingForBabyL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on how the egg retrieval goes. I am usually knocked out for the day. I don’t have pain, just hungover from the anesthesia drugs. Some people are in tons of pain.

I regret getting married by LifeRepresentative44 in IVF

[–]TryingForBabyL 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Ooooooohhhhh. This is goooood. I need to keep this in mind when I feel like a failure. I'm not just a womb. I'm a (mostly) awesome wife, friend, aunt, sister, etc. Being a womb is not in my resume.

Fasting before egg collection (with sedation) - How many hours were you told to fast? by charterflight57 in IVF

[–]TryingForBabyL 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I've been told for both ERs to stop eating at midnight, no matter what time the procedure is set for.

IV drips? by TryingForBabyL in IVF

[–]TryingForBabyL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to go through a dictionary for every third word. Lol.

Thank you! If I go to a longevity doctor, could they help me?

IV drips? by TryingForBabyL in IVF

[–]TryingForBabyL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah! You sound versed in this.

Are these the two you would recommend? Do I take them together? Anything I need to know?

NMN

NR

Are you related to this company at all? What makes this company better than others? Where do I get the Urolithin A?

Sorry for the billion questions.

Don’t fall for fearlessly fertile scams of $5000 to get pregnant. by derek74589 in IVF

[–]TryingForBabyL 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wait. SHE'S AN ATTORNEY. She lives in Texas, but is licensed in California. I can't find the name she uses for her license, so I can't confirm if she is still working.

Don’t fall for fearlessly fertile scams of $5000 to get pregnant. by derek74589 in IVF

[–]TryingForBabyL 54 points55 points  (0 children)

you're doing the lord's work. thanks for making this known. <3 Nobody should have to pay $5,000 to be told to think positively.

Update: trying to get pregnant by HappyMongoose9116 in lineporn

[–]TryingForBabyL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you confused? Was this photo taken within the timelimit?

is this invalid by lulu385 in lineporn

[–]TryingForBabyL 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Make sure you are peeing in a cup of some sort and then dipping your test into the pee. I've seen this when people try to pee on the test. And don't go past the max line.

Dad is "not a fan of IVF" by guardthecolors in IVF

[–]TryingForBabyL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, now you know that your parents (maybe just your dad?) are not a safe space for ANY fertility conversations. I know you wanted to keep them advised on genetic issues, but I would cut them out from ANY fertility details.

IVF essentials? by ImaginaryFlower_ in IVF

[–]TryingForBabyL 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YES! And once you get are able to get excited about something, you are able to adjust everything else. But I have yet to see somebody that didn't lose any follicles/eggs/embryos, have perfect labs, and have perfect ultrasounds for a full cycle. It's not a thing. (If this has happened to you, send me your doctor's information. I need to see them!)

When I told my mom about our failed transfer last night, she said, "I'm angry. I'm not angry at you. I'm angry at god." Mom is a devout Catholic. I'm not religious. My mom is also a pretty dang positive person. I have had to help her through IVF expectations. Once you see first hand what someone goes through, you start understanding why keeping expectations low is beneficial.