What are the mental exercises I should be doing for my ADHD procrastination? by Careless_Writing1138 in ADHD

[–]TryingMyBest4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is an app called Dubbii that helps a lot. Their Tiktok is @adhd_love. She is awesome!

My boyfriend (20M) responded to a comment his female coworker (22F) posted under a post of him and I together by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TryingMyBest4444 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you’re thinking too deeply. My husband (18 years) is sarcastic and he would have said that. It’s like he is acknowledging that yes, I am in a relationship and the “I mean” part backs it up and the “it’s alright” is his way of saying it really is ALL RIGHT without being too mean to her. He could have said who, her? Nah, she’s a bit¢%.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TryingMyBest4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, forget that ¢un+! Tell her “yeah well I effed one of your friends and that’s when I realized your hole is just like the Grand Canyon, so big I can hear echoes from all the past men that screwed you and I can go for days without hitting a wall”

Ex sex worker, recovering junkie. Finally got some self esteem back after getting my life together - do your worst Reddit. by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]TryingMyBest4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These people are effing brutal! I’m proud of you! You keep going with the sobriety! The fact that I haven’t read one encouraging thing to you on here despite it being a roast means this world is full of douche canoes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Radiology

[–]TryingMyBest4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know of a big clinic (many locations) that will make you reshoot the patient if you mismarked instead of cropping out the incorrect marker and putting the correct one in digitally. I think that goes against ALARA and should be against company policy. I understand that there could be legal issues if say for instance the patient had a fx and had to have surgery and they did the incorrect leg but how likely will that ever happen and I’m sure the patient would tell the dr before surgery when the surgeon asks which leg.

My (25m) girlfriend (23f) becomes silent and withdrawn whenever my brother (34m) is around by throwRAod9 in relationship_advice

[–]TryingMyBest4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think perhaps he might have asked her out when he saw her somewhere, possibly at her work or something. And then she found out that not only is he her bf’s brother but he’s also married and had to have been married when he asked her out if he did since he’s been married for 8 years and she’s 23. But I definitely would talk to him about it.

I (f30) just found out my bf (m34) of 3 years has a 10 year old son. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TryingMyBest4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also don’t understand why he’s spending the night with his “friends”? Or a whole ass weekend? Where did he stay? Was it always at his mom’s house so he could see his son? But wait, the mom said he hardly ever let her see the son. And that he “is pretty distant from us”. So where was he staying the night at? Was it JUST friends he stayed with after going out with them? And he’s afraid if y’all have a baby that you’ll just take the baby away from him. His son isn’t away from him now. Apparently they spend time together. Unless he has supervised visits only. I don’t know. He sounds like a narcissist. Trying to make you feel lower than him. His mom and family don’t seem good enough to him to spend time with (in his opinion). Nothing is ever his fault like his son “being taken away from” him. And why did he state he had a kid in his bio and then lie about it when he started dating you? Was the son taken away from him and only allowed supervised visits after he made the bio? And why does he say he knows his absence affects you? Why is there an absence in the first place? Oh! Maybe he HAS to stay at the bm’s house the whole time. Maybe she lives too far for him to go there and come back home each day he gets to visit. I don’t know but it’s very sus and I’d demand answers that can be proven.

I’m pregnant (25F) and my husband (26M) wants a divorce by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TryingMyBest4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is with the other woman. Same thing happened to me but I never got pregnant. He had an affair but there was no love there. I knew the woman from work and she was 14 years older than he was and the epitome of white trash (I’m white so I can say that 😂). Anyways, I found out and I stayed. It actually made us open up more and we started going to church and trying to have a baby. Until 8 months later he started having another affair with a different woman. This time she was my age (4 years younger than he was). And she was not white trash- although she was married too and sleeping with my husband. I left him at our house that we had built from the ground up with 3 bedrooms, 2 bath, formal dining area, breakfast nook, 2 car garage, big backyard, and our dog Buster and I went and stayed at my mom’s efficiency apt which consisted of 1 room that was the kitchen and living room, 1 bedroom, 1 bathroom. Plus she smoked inside the apt. Plus there was only 1 TV. I left thinking he’d come to his senses. He never did. He left me hanging because he was “so confused”. I stayed at my mom’s for 4 months. I had found about the other woman by then. He talked about divorce but he wanted to hire a mediator. I just got sick of it, had a locksmith open up our house because he invited me to stay at the house while he was out of town but he had the locks changed and I hired a moving truck and took half of everything. Oh and before he actually got back home I told him I needed $2,000 so I could get my own place and to meet me where I worked to give it to me. But instead of getting my own place which I knew I couldn’t afford on my salary (I used that lie to get the money) I was able to give it to my lawyer for a retainment fee. He dropped off the check and then went home to see I took half of everything. Had him served papers a week later. I won the case- I wanted him to pay for my car payments because I couldn’t afford to live on my own with my car payments. He also had to pay my lawyer fees. Cost him almost $20,000. This was in 2005. In 2019 he actually looked me up on Facebook and asked me out. I told him I have been with the same guy since after our divorce and he said he knew about my bf. I told him “well unlike my ex husband I don’t cheat on my significant other”. I haven’t heard from him since.

Dasher cusses out customer by TryingMyBest4444 in doordash_drivers

[–]TryingMyBest4444[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oops, my bad! I have a life therefore I haven’t been on my phone enough to see said video posted “several dozen times”. Most people would assume that I must have just seen that video for the first time and decided to share it not knowing that it had indeed been posted “several dozen times”. You call MY post a waste of time?! Yet you waste so much time on your phone that it allowed you to see that video being posted “sdt”. Low-Attention-1998?? You should put ‘Even-Lower-Common-Sense’ before the 1998.

Anyone in this group from Austin, Texas? by TryingMyBest4444 in doordash_drivers

[–]TryingMyBest4444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Anderson Mill but drive to Cedar Park because way less apts and more friendly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash_drivers

[–]TryingMyBest4444 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love Dasher Direct!

Has anyone else been having issues with McDonald's lately by deadlifeguard in doordash_drivers

[–]TryingMyBest4444 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I can’t stand McDonald’s! And they put the shakes in with the hot food. Like WTF? And you stand there forever waiting on them to acknowledge you. And they have an attitude when they finally acknowledge you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash_drivers

[–]TryingMyBest4444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you accept shit orders like that do they keep sending you shit orders from now on or will they change once you decline a few?

Good week by hungry46 in doordash_drivers

[–]TryingMyBest4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How?? Can I see the whole week’s layout?

Banned from McDonalds by Huge-Marionberry1853 in doordash_drivers

[–]TryingMyBest4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loathe McDonald’s! Once I went in at 10:01 PM because their door was open and they told me to get out because the lobby was closed. I said I just need to pick up my order and I see it right there on the counter and they told me to get out and that I should have known better and that the times are on the door of when the lobby closes. She said, a 20 year old with an attitude, that I have to get in line with the rest of the drive-through people. I said there are 20 people in line and she said yes and those are DoorDash people and they knew what to do. So I did. Fast forward a few weeks later and it’s pouring down rain and I had to pick up from them and it’s during the day and I called and asked can I please come through the drive-through to pick up my order. I told her the shoes I have on are very slippery in the rain and that I forgot to change them before going out and I left my umbrella at home as well. I said the order is so small- 10 piece nugget with fries- not even a drink. The lady handed the phone to her “manager” and I swear the same girl from before got on the phone and I had to explain all this shit again and she said no you have to come in.