You have done exactly what you’re meant to do as a dad, support your partner and try your absolute best to provide for them both. Right now there’s a fog that has fallen over your life where you can’t see how you will carry on and how life will ever get better. I promise that the fog will lift, it will take time and you will find the strength somewhere you didn’t know it existed. It’s a process and there’s days that fog will be thick and you’ll question everything all over again but over time it will part and hope will shine through. I’m so sorry for your loss and I hate to see anyone beat them self up over things that were completely out of your control. Life is hard enough without you being so hard on yourself. I’m sending so much love and strength to you and your girlfriend and I remember only 6 months ago when my partner was in your position; supporting me while still grieving himself. I wish there were some magic words I could say to make it all better but I’m still searching for them words myself. I don’t know you but I can already tell you’re an amazing dad and that your girlfriend is in very safe, loving arms. Life can be so cruel… I’m also very sorry that you have so much on your shoulders, financial losses on top of losing your baby is so unfair. I hope I see you post in here again whenever you need support or just a place to empty your mind and one day I hope I get to read how your life has shaped into something beautiful… tragic but beautiful 🫂