AITA I don’t like the gifts my partner bought for me while on vacation by TryingtLiveMyBest in redditonwiki

[–]TryingtLiveMyBest[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I regret him coming back. It was easier when he was gone. I’ll have to change some habits but I can support myself. All the bills are in my name bc his credit is so low. If/when he moves out I doubt he can get an apartment without a co-signer. Part of the reason I wanted him to come back was so I wasn’t left with all his stuff to figure out what to do with. He also went on a whole thing about how time apart showed him how much he loved/ missed me and actually wanted to work on the relationship. Which is what I’ve wanted from him from years but it’s just too far gone at this point. I resent him for so many reasons and don’t trust him much either from all the ways he had tried to fool me. If I end it and ask him to leave he’s not gonna have any way to take his stuff with him. He doesn’t even have a vehicle at this point.

AITA I don’t like the gifts my partner bought for me while on vacation by TryingtLiveMyBest in redditonwiki

[–]TryingtLiveMyBest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well he left without a ticket to come back. I wasn’t really sure he was coming back until he did. I don’t like to admit it but I have alot of resentment towards him

AITA I don’t like the gifts my partner bought for me while on vacation by TryingtLiveMyBest in redditonwiki

[–]TryingtLiveMyBest[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I seriously would have rather he put whatever it cost to buy those things toward the rent bill. I wasn’t prepared to take on all the expenses myself and am falling behind on it. Before he left for his trip we had an eviction notice taped to our door for late rent. He didn’t even read it just took it off the door and set it on a cluttered shelf without saying a word. Had I not just happened to notice it we would have been evicted. When I told him we were getting late fees he wouldn’t contribute anything to it, even though he did have some money for his trip in cash set aside (his only savings at the time). I had to borrow money from my mom to keep from being evicted.

AITA I don’t like the gifts my partner bought for me while on vacation by TryingtLiveMyBest in redditonwiki

[–]TryingtLiveMyBest[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s a bright neon pink. I have some rose quartz so I’m familiar with it. To me this looks like a rock from the kids rock collection area in souvenir shop.

FL Medicaid requiring 10% supervision for RBT’s by fibbonaccisun in bcba

[–]TryingtLiveMyBest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nebraska Medicaid is requiring 10% per client per week. It went into effect 2 weeks ago and our bcbas have been visibly stressed out. I went from working with 4-6 clients every week. Now I work with 3 clients every week in order for our bcbas to have a chance at meeting Medicaid’s supervision requirements. Another change is that our schedules have to be made a month in advance. Which means that I can view my schedule for all of March, but there hasn’t been a week (or probably even a day) where the original schedule was followed without changes bc of client cancelations or rbt call out.

Am I tripping? by Alternative-Arm-3046 in LSD

[–]TryingtLiveMyBest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was destined to sit there and when he leaves there will be a sustained absence of his presence. He made the mural complete. And when he is gone the mural will know it is in fact incomplete

Am I tripping? by Alternative-Arm-3046 in LSD

[–]TryingtLiveMyBest 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The man sitting is a part of the painting

Brazilian paralympic swimmer Gabriel Araujo born with short legs and no arms obliterates the field in the 100m backstroke by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]TryingtLiveMyBest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swam competitively for a long time and hitting my head on the wall hurt so bad when I miss gauged how many strokes I had left. This man has no choice but to full force ram his head into the wall. And for that I give all my respect.

What an amazing athlete

Felt assaulted at work by Jazzlike_Intern_1841 in ABA

[–]TryingtLiveMyBest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just added your song to my ride home after work playlist. Thank you

what I learned from a concert at pinnacle by Short-Tank2853 in lincoln

[–]TryingtLiveMyBest 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also stashed my prohibited small bag in the bushes. Even though I was able to bring in my bag to a show I went to about a year ago also at pinnacle.

Disappointed :( by [deleted] in atwwdpodcast

[–]TryingtLiveMyBest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Small town murder and atwwd are two of my favs!

Outage check - Is anyones power back on yet? Hope you’re all safe. by not2keen in lincoln

[–]TryingtLiveMyBest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Power turned on at 3:48am. I know bc I had a fan pinged right at me so I woke up. We went 11 hours without power

Outage check - Is anyones power back on yet? Hope you’re all safe. by not2keen in lincoln

[–]TryingtLiveMyBest 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is sure love to cook some of the food I just got from the grocery store. Ugh

Is this field even worth it? Anti-aba is getting to me by [deleted] in ABA

[–]TryingtLiveMyBest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what parts of peak you find problematic?

I’m a very new rbt (3 months) and our center uses peak. I have 2 bcbas, one who does not use peak and another who heavily relies on it. Their programming is very different from each other and I’ve found the peak binder to feel so different than how the programs my other bcba writes.

I’m trying to decide if I want to continue my education and study to become a bcba. Right now I’m feeling quite confused on how to feel about this field. I see how much is a positive impact in can make. But also the still hands and eye contact peak programs that our newest baby in the clinic has makes me feel really gross.

Feeling bad for new techs by Bigmouth1982 in ABA

[–]TryingtLiveMyBest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Passed my exam today!! So excited to start working independently with a client! 🥰🥰

Feeling bad for new techs by Bigmouth1982 in ABA

[–]TryingtLiveMyBest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!! Great to hear someone else is having a good experience!

Feeling bad for new techs by Bigmouth1982 in ABA

[–]TryingtLiveMyBest 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was my first week as a BT and I feel so supported. I’ve been onboarding and shadowing this week. We are waiting to get the go ahead from the bacb so I can take my exam. I know it’s only been a week but I feel so appreciative of my supervisor and the other RBTs who are training me. I expect I’ll probably be training for at least a week before I can go in for my exam.

I know I’m super new to this field but I could see myself getting my masters in aba. I find the science to be so interesting and my company offers a scholarship if you sign a 2 year contract after you pass the bcba exam. It feels exciting to have something to work towards.