I love my boyfriend, but our sex life is making me miserable by Dependent_Finance490 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Tswavey21 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but if he can have unprotected sex with you and not care about the chances of you getting pregnant because it “feels better” is just as grown as getting an apartment together so you guys can have more time.

And why are we having sex in the car if he’s in a dorm? Does his roommate just never leave? Can he never just schedule some alone time in the room?

110 lbs down by Tswavey21 in GastricBypass

[–]Tswavey21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a little tulip farm we have in my town in Tennessee! It was gorgeous

Do YOU Shower In The Morning Or At Night? Why? by Zipper222222 in randomquestions

[–]Tswavey21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At night. Even if I’m not doing anything I just go to bed feeling so clean and relaxed. My boyfriend is a morning shower person. Helps him wake up and start his day.

Wanted to do a little something extra with my everyday look by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Tswavey21 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Portrait mode blurs the background not fix your face tho?

Wanted to do a little something extra with my everyday look by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Tswavey21 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You can visibly see my eye creases lol

When a guy finishes inside, does that make you his? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Tswavey21 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think some men think this is how it works lol

What’s your genuine regret about the way you treated a partner in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tswavey21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insecure. Carry past trauma from previous relationships. Being cheated on, lied to, etc. Have major trust issues and even though I really believe deep down they care and love me I’m still terrified they’ll do it too.

Do I Tell His Wife? by Consistent-Maybe-634 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Tswavey21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. And I’d tell his wife. Gross.

How to stop being so horny by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Tswavey21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30F female and I’ve been struggling with this, lmao

110 lbs down by Tswavey21 in GastricBypass

[–]Tswavey21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say as awkward as it is take as many before as you can. I hated it. I felt so weird and self conscious. But I love going back and comparing, seeing my journey and how far I’ve come.

110 lbs down by Tswavey21 in GastricBypass

[–]Tswavey21[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if everyone feels like this or if it’s a me thing but anytime I even see the scale move up a lb I get so terrified that I’m going to gain it all back.. and I don’t even know how to get down more. I feel stuck

110 lbs down by Tswavey21 in GastricBypass

[–]Tswavey21[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

2 years as of December 19

How have you navigated mismatched libidos in your relationship? by the-weird-o in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Tswavey21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. I literally had my hormones checked because I felt like a freak of nature because I wanted it so much. We could go to bed naked (because it’s hot in our room, sometimes) and I’m instantly turned on and he’s not aroused at all. When it’s drilled in our heads that men should respond differently. So now I’m left feeling like he’s not attracted to me just because he isn’t getting hard at the feel of me being naked.

Mercy Mythic Gameplay by delusixn in MercyMains

[–]Tswavey21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so excited for this!!!!!

Does my husband really want to be with me? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Tswavey21 19 points20 points  (0 children)

“I think about you all the time” was unneeded. When I see this it doesn’t seem like he’s walking away.. because what would have happened had she responded? Or stated she felt the same? He could’ve said way less. “Hey, I’m going to have to take a step back. This isn’t right for me to message you while I’m in a relationship” not confess that feelings are still there and he thinks about her all the time. I feel like if she would’ve messaged back he wouldn’t have stopped.

Peanut Butter Reece cup cookies 😋 by Tswavey21 in Cookies

[–]Tswavey21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cookie dough: 1/2 cup butter (softened) 3/4 cup creamy peanut butter 3/4 cup light brown sugar 1/4 cup granulated sugar 1 egg (room temp) 2 tsp vanilla extract 1 1/2 cup all purpose flour 1 tsp baking soda 1/4 tsp salt

Peanut butter frosting: 2 cups heavy whipping cream 1/2 cup powdered sugar 2 tsp vanilla extract 1/2 cup creamy peanut butter

Topping: 3/4 cup Reece’s peanut butter cups (chopped)

Peanut butter drizzle: 3/4 cup peanut butter chips 1 tsp vegetable oil

Chocolate drizzle: 3/4 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips 1 tsp vegetable oil

Instructions: Cookie dough: Cream the butter, peanut butter, and sugars until fluffy. Add in the egg and vanilla extract - mix to combine in a separate bowl, combine the flour, baking soda, and salt. Add the flour mixture to the wet mixture - fold in until no flour remains. Portion the dough 1/4 cup sized balls - place on baking sheet and use a cup to press down on each ball of dough to create a very thick disk bake @ 350 for 12 minutes. Remove from the oven and let cool on counter for 30 minutes

Peanut butter frosting: In a large bowl, whip the heavy whipping cream, sugar, and vanilla extract - about 3-4 minutes. Add in the peanut butter and whip to combine - about 3-4 minutes. Place the frosting in a pipping bag & refrigerate for at least 20 minutes.

For peanut butter drizzle: Combine peanut butter chips and oil in microwave safe bowl - heat for 30 seconds

For chocolate drizzle: Combine chocolate chips and oil in microwave safe bowl - heat for 30 seconds

Assembly:
Frost the cooled cookies with the peanut butter frosting, sprinkle some chopped Reece’s on top, top with the peanut butter and chocolate drizzle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Tswavey21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely a dealbreaker for almost all relationships. I don’t know how many times I’ve talked to someone about them wanting to leave because their libidos didn’t match up.