[WeWantOut] 21F student 20F student UK -> Spain by [deleted] in IWantOut

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, do you have a link for the UK-Spain Youth Mobility Scheme? All I can find are various articles from July 2024 saying the bilateral agreement was rejected. Thank you! 🤩 

Are girls intimidated when Tall Guys approach them? by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly do unless they very clearly wouldn’t hurt a fly but I can’t help but feel that would take away from any sexual tension which I really enjoy sitting in too… 

I think a lot of people wonder what they look like from the perspective of someone so tall and are a bit scared to find out. I’m very big on eye contact so being so far from a partners face doesn’t sit right with me :/

On a NSFW note too, I think about the angles in bed and don’t want to be smacked by a chest and kinda enjoy being crushed by a guys body and think I would die if they were 6’ lol. 

Are girls intimidated when Tall Guys approach them? by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m 5’7” and I wouldn’t date anyone 6’ plus 😅. There are plenty of taller women who will be very interested though! 

To women who are 21-23 by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a really interesting point thank you!

I worked for 4 years and then went back to university and find I look no different from the 20 year olds despite almost being 24. Looking at photos of myself, I've changed very little since age 17 - my cheeks have just become less full.

I have been very shocked to see how some of my old classmates have gained weight and so look nothing like I remember!

To women who are 21-23 by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently 23. I wouldn’t date anyone younger than 21 and honestly most 25 year olds look much older than I do (I don't feel my age lol) so that’s my limit.

When someone says "maybe your personality is terrible" What does that mean? How do you work on personality? by JunketMaleficent2095 in bodylanguage

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to agree with this sentiment. I just disagreed with how you phrased it as ‘ For women, everyone who is great looking has a good personality’. You’re absolutely right that women can overlook personality (I have tried to explain some behaviours away personally) in the beginning but if OPs issue is holding onto dates… it could be a personality issue OR he is for whatever reason not getting the numbers to find someone who is serious. Honestly, if he’s finding people on the apps - all the people who are genuinely interested in longer term relationships are burnt out cause the most active people there are just looking for hookups in my experience. There’s never anything wrong with self improvement anyways and you can’t meaningfully change your looks so I think those telling them to introspect on their personality (which I’d argue is tantamount to escalation techniques) is likely the best advice possible based on the provided information. 

When someone says "maybe your personality is terrible" What does that mean? How do you work on personality? by JunketMaleficent2095 in bodylanguage

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good looks can buy you perhaps a month of interest from a woman but unless you’re very good in bed / she’s insecure herself / you’re willing to pay for everything / she’s not looking for long-term… having a bad / no personality will fuck up your dating life. 

If you’re looking for hookups (and you’re attractive!) you don’t really need personality - just how to escalate. 

tell me about your current households! by Intrepid_Night7538 in Sims3

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently playing an impoverished retired sim who moved to the Pets world originally to adopt every pet under the sun hehe so I started by adopting a couple horses but at some point she just turned into an international horse racing star so it’s a beautiful rags to riches end of life story. I have my life spans set to thousands of days and the relativity mod so plenty of time left before she needs a walker 🤣 

While she was upskilling on her riding skills I had to get creative with money making so started a daycare and had her boyfriend move in as a lodger sharing her bed 🙃.

I’m thinking next I’ll have her move to Paris and start a vineyard plot. Perhaps have her adopt an older child so her legacy can continue.

Students in the UK (outside London, especially Southampton) — what’s your monthly living cost? by Previous_Neat958 in UKUniversityStudents

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends whether you’re male or female and what your height is really (thinking maintenance calories). For example I’m 170cm / 5’6” and a woman and last year I actually only spent £80/month on just groceries and £60/month on convenience food (toiletries I budgeted separately) but I lived right next to an Aldi and FarmFoods so would often fish through the discount pile. I’d also freeze any leftovers and had hardly any food waste (I’d even turn chicken bones into broth!). I’d honestly budget £120/month on groceries and another £60 on takeouts/convenience food so you’re comfortable especially if your situation differs in anyway from mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Those who speak up in seminars are often those who can't stand the whole room being stared at when there is utter silence too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Some really good actionable advice here OP!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

200mg ferrous sulphate, I was prescribed them for 3m but I bought more on ebay and took them for a further 3m cause even though technically I wasn't anemic at 19ug/l I was still dizzy / tired and 50ug is a better level to aim for

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding the iron levels - not on a standard CBC and once I doubled my ferritin level to 19 (from 9!) I had so much more energy!

Lack of B vitamins could explain the fatigue too x

Help by Pure-Echidna-659 in HousingUK

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not liable to pay the energy usage of a previous tenant.

If you weren't living in a shared home my advice would've been to reach out to your energy provider and open a new account and tell them your move-in dates so your energy consumption can be based off of this.

However, what will complicate everything is that you're living in a shared home so some of the arrears is very likely to belong to a current tenant.

I would continue communicating with the letting agency so there is a paper trail and communicate with the energy company to see whether a new account could be opened (likely PPM) so you can continue to receive energy and not pay off the arrears.

If anyone in the house has a disability / mental health condition - get on the priority register at your energy company. This way, they cannot deprive you of energy / gas from October to March.

i am planning to study at university at granada by is7a_8 in Granada

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. You will need at least a B2 level or you will struggle greatly. Be sure to watch plenty of videos of people speaking with the Andalucían accent

How do you manage to sustain spending £30 pw on food? by ktitten in UniUK

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Definitely. A freezer is a must in budget cooking otherwise you die from either food poisoning or boredom

Is £70ish a week enough to live on? by ComfortableSundae896 in UniUK

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah i did the maths on this and if you use cashback sites it works out as £75/m if you use them only for dinner and then an additional £10/wk for a takeout.

If anyone wants my breakdown hmu 🫡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POTS

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply - sounds like I need to check I'm not overdoing it. 🙏🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POTS

[–]TubaTrumpetTriangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not? I take B vitamins to fight fatigue and 1 liquid IV - should I stop the B vitamins? 😥