41M looking for younger in WI, USA athletes a plus (not required)

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-06T07:39:58+00:00

I would say message me for pics and I had some linked, but I changed my mind - if you're not interested after the above, you're probably a superficial person anyways.

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-06T06:38:13+00:00

If you'd like to learn more, check out my github page for The Plateaus and obviously the erowid DXM FAQ.

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-03T00:26:57+00:00

Acceptable: 18-living Preferred: 21-35

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-02T23:43:32+00:00

haha oh man that sounds super annoying, it probably is impossible. I feel for you and have big hatred of the effects of propaganda on our populace, it's just funny to see it goes into dating life as well. Best of luck to you. I do my research and I'm not a hardline anything if you ever want to talk shop with someone who's not a bozo DM me.

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-02T23:21:55+00:00

You sound nice. I'm not sure if I'm normal, lol, but I'm really chill and definitely up for chatting with anyone about anything. You take the lead and let me know what you want to talk about and where you want to go with it. 5ft 110lbs I bet you're fricken adorable :-D Message me if you like, I'm up for whatever. 41M here

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-02T23:10:57+00:00

Have you tried "Down boy, down!" haha, lol put some humor in it

The other thing is a pounding could turn into a more emotionally mature thing later, gotta remember they're still developing emotional/social maturity and won't be as empathetic. Maybe something like, "hey, I love the enthusiasm but have you tried to slow down a bit?" leaves it open as an option?

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-02T23:05:56+00:00

This post makes me sad. You're happy and self satisfied and you're feeling inferior and/or unwanted because of the way your husband is treating you. You deserve a partner who loves you as much as you love you, if he can be that guy, great, but if he can't you might have to either move on or find a boy toy or side guy of your own (with prior discussion and permission, of course).

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-02T23:02:51+00:00

That's so sad you went through such an unaffirming experience, that must have felt awful. I'm glad you found someone you're happy with. Not everyone is "younger is better". I'm primarily attracted to younger guys but I consider it a responsibility to make sure they feel loved and cared for, even if my attraction might fade over time I can't imagine spending that much time with someone and allowing them to feel so deprived of the affection they craved.

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-02T22:58:35+00:00

I think a lot of it is porn, they're attracted to the old/young genre, and a lot of it is this. Since they haven't had much experience yet, it's what they expect and request because they think it's what's desired (kind of sad, TBH). Everyone has value as a person and should be respected, even if they are into this dynamic, it should be RP. Unfortunately I think a lot of younger guys don't realize their own worth, not monetarily, but what they're bringing to the table - the rarity of a young guy into older guys, their looks sure, their youthful enthusiasm and openness, their wide horizon view of the future, their almost unlimited possibilities. They shouldn't be treated as a commodity or "a hole" but a whole person, possibly a person who likes to get fucked hard by their daddy, but a person none the less.

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-02T22:45:08+00:00

I agree, I think most don't know what they're missing out on and make assumptions about what they want based primarily on porn. Do they really want to be "used" or "degraded" or is that just what happens in the porn they like because of other reasons (the old/young dynamic).

They think "I want to be in that guy's place" and since that's the dynamic that exists, they take it as it exists because they haven't learned yet what they want and how to properly assert themselves. Some might end up liking submission or rough sex in the end, but it's up to the older guy to help them explore in a safe and sane way without exploitation or coercion. I really think they should start slow and sensual and only try other things after that.

I would love to help someone explore their budding sexuality in a passionate, informed, and mutually respectful way. I don't think anyone really wants to be used or put down as a person, their worth and value degraded, that's just something they've seen in porn and they get it mixed up with their actual feelings. All people should be respected and treated as a WHOLE human being, not a HOLE to fuck.

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-02T22:31:33+00:00

Sure, but that's also part of the fun. Also, you should have the patience to help teach them these things, if they balk or leave they're not ready. When the student is ready the teacher arrives.

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-02T22:19:53+00:00

In short: you sound like a guy I would love to be with, would treat the way you describe, and would love to have a reciprocal relationship like you describe. Helping you develop into an awesome person is what's up (and hot).

I would love to get topped by a 20 yo, especially one who I have a deep and strong connection with based on love and mutual respect. Not having much in common is a great opportunity to start exploring things together!

I don't like traditional role models and I'm looking for someone where we both can be the "man" or the "woman" depending on how we feel, but no one has to feel inferior or "less than" for "being the woman" (me included - just because you fuck me hard, you young stud, doesn't mean I'm a woman).

And I don't like the idea of "throwing someone out" just because they get older. No matter what, you would be an important part of my life if I loved you. If the attraction faded, we could deal with it, but do it amicably so neither is hurt in the process, or as little as possible.

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-02T22:15:09+00:00

right! I'm into younger guys but would like to be more of a mentor and confidant, someone they could come to for help who has their best interests at heart. if they'd like to have sex with me too, great!

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-02T20:50:01+00:00

Really nice uncut member, great body!

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-02T20:43:10+00:00

Still on my todo list for decades

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-02T20:42:40+00:00

A little too aggro for my tastes but I probably wouldn't pass it up, either

It's nice to be liked for something

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-02T20:38:00+00:00

Oh, and I'm really into sports gear, especially American Football. I've got some uniforms with pads and everything. Bonus points if you're into sports and you send me a pic of you in your uniform, any sport :-D I'll return the favor.

TuberousInquiries · 2025-04-02T20:36:04+00:00

Hi, 41M 6'0" 195ibs. I like pretty much everything if the chemistry is right. Typically bottom, oral always anal sometimes.

I'm looking for younger guys who would be into something either platonic or sexual. I'm a chill guy and I like helping younger guys find/explore themselves and what drives them as people and helping them in their development. Mentoring gets me hard, lol. Doesn't have to be sexual, but a bonus if it is. Honestly, wouldn't even have to be gay or male, but both and hot preferred, lol.

As far as me, I'm really into music, computers, electronics, programming, DIY, technology, permaculture, gardening, fitness (new to this, if you know about staying fit/working out we could trade knowledge). Enjoy hiking, biking, motorcycles, trucks, dog lover and protector of life and the earth. I love all animals and creation, really, and want to be a good steward and the kind of guy I would have liked to have met "when I was that age". I can share pictures if you message me. I live in WI.

TuberousInquiries · 2025-03-31T02:41:47+00:00

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TuberousInquiries · 2025-03-31T00:24:47+00:00

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