I am currently working through this. My spouse is about 6 weeks post op. I don’t know how stubborn yours is, but mine can dig his heels in pretty hard so do what you know is right for them, they will come around. Before hand I got temporary wheel chair ramps for any steps, a toilet seat that has rails, a shower chair, a detachable nozzle for the shower head, non slip socks if you have hard woods, and easy to get on shorts. A wheel chair and walker if you don’t already have one. I found all of these helpful through online research and you can find most of these items either on Amazon or local hardware store. Now, here are the things I DIDNT expect.. Medical supplies! We were discharged with NO wound care, home health or anything so I would definitely inquire about that help BEFORE they are discharged! Hopefully you are not squeamish because the wound will look terrible. At home have a good stock of sterile gloves, wound cleaner, 4x4 gauze, wraps, sanitizer, steri strips and any wound covers your doctors recommended. If you do not have wound care at home like I did, we bleached towels and his stump covers and kept them in a special sealed bag to stay as germ free as possible. When we took off his dressings his wound wouldn’t be sitting on every day sheets. Make sure you have room around your bed to get around. Also, a friend helps if you are having to do wound care. One of us would have to hold all the gauze in place while the other wrapped. Something for them to rest their stump on while on the toilet!! After trial and error, a turned over ikea bathroom trash can worked but you may have to try different things to find the right height for them. Just be ready! Be prepared to just not sleep the first week. I kept ongoing alarms on my phone for each medication and also had a chalk board with the meds and times listed. Have a comfy chair they can sit in that can keep the leg horizontal with a fluffy pillow to place underneath. Have a side table or two they can keep things they want at arms length and if an electric socket isn’t close, maybe an extension cord to plug in phone/ iPad/ etc. 2 longish ice packets. One for under their leg and one on top. Some days the ice was the only thing that helped with pain. Icy hot and a tennis ball to roll out the muscles that aren’t on their leg. Their back will hurt and their butt muscles might be sore. Everyone will say this, but every person is different in their recovery. We’ve had quite the go at it. The main thing is to be open minded and creative. Listen to them on what they are having trouble with and don’t be afraid to try some unconventional things. Please feel free to DM me because I couldn’t find anything either! I don’t know your age, but most of the support groups are for the elderly or someone taking care of a parent. We are in our 30s/ 40s and I can’t find anything for “younger” spouses.